Modern Manhood Podcast

Often times, when we are elevating to a different level; we feel about about our growth. It's perfectly okay to outgrow people, places, or even things(not your clothes, but you get the gist of what I am saying). You are allowed to grow, it's not a bad thing. We just have to take our feelings out of it and use logic and mature reasoning.

How well do you know you? Can you differentiate your wants from your needs? Let's get into what do we actually want? From Life? From God? From yourself? What is it that you really want?

Why do we expect God to come through and save us after we have already made the conscious decision to do things? Like God is some magical responder on our time? In this episode, Lonte breaks down how we treat God like a genie.

Ever feel like the weight of the world is on your shoulders? As men, it is a daily struggle to juggle the world on your shoulders; with problems in your hands and hurt in your heart. So what do you do?

Remember when Jesus commanded the disciples to come to Him when He was walking on the water to them? The only one that came to Him was Peter. Fast forward to the part where Peter starting going under the water and Jesus stretched forth His hand. That is where we are going. I feel like God is stretching forth His hand for me(a lot of other people as well) and we are either willing to drown or afrai...

When we receive a vision, more often than not; it is not for right now. The vision is a glimpse is a glimpse of what could be. So in essence, you are taking a glimpse into a future thing right now. The mistake that I made in my lifetime is, seeing the vision from afar and treating it the same. Listen in as Lonte gives his accounts of how he approaches visions.

If the enemy cannot get to you, best believe you me; that the ones you love are immediately after. The biggest question to ask now is, what do you do with that info. How do you proceed forward?

Often times what we learned as a child is the total opposite of what we know as an adult. We have a totally different understanding of hard work, life, love, and relationships. Most of all, what do you actually know about you?

In this episode, Lonte give pointers on how to heal the kid in order to save the adult. Often times, we tend to overlook the things that we have gone through in our childhood and write it off. In those very moments, how we respond and act are deeply rooted in what happened to us as children. Compelling episode, very thought provoking.

I always thought growing up that once we go through something, once it was over, it was over. It never dawned on me that I would continue to go through that same thing until I defeated it. Until I learned learned how to master my temper, my responses, my attitude, my fleshly desires, and keep me to me. It was in those lessons that I learned that it would continue to be in my life until I defeated(...

As a man, I have heard and used this phrase. It is not gender specific and I am sure women use it as well. The fact of the matter is, it is not true. It what we make up in our minds as a cop out. An unthinkable Balme if you will. Listen as our host, Lonte give his take on I lie because I love you.

Season 6 starts off with a bang as Lonte welcomes Nanja Hill to the podcasting world. The topic nor did the conversation disappoint. They discuss losing yourself, how you return back to you if you so choose, and how to never lose you again.

We often take risks, but how often do we go back and review the worthiness of our risk? Think back on the risks you’ve taken, was it worth it?

What happens after you get what you prayed for? You got your heart’s desire. What’s next?

In this episode, Lonte expounds on why preferences are personal and why it should not be help against a man for having a preference.

Men are safe spaces, listening ears, a shoulder to lean on, protector and so much more. Yet, often times, it seems like so much more is expected of him and he is not accepted for the things he does. Society has a strange way of saying who and what a man should be and what he should do. In this segment, Lonte covers what a man does and what society states he cannot do.

Dealing with the many sides of life, sometimes it’s easier to suffer in silence than to release the pain verbally. Learned a valuable lesson when I finally got my son to open to me.

We have all heard the expression what’s done in dark… You can fill in whatever the ending is yourself as to the language that was used. I want to expound on what it’s like to be in darkness and how that spills over in every other area of your life.

As a society, we want everything right now. In this segment, Lonte discusses why instant gratification and instant success may not be the way to go.

In this episode Lonte gives his take on unhealed and broken. Great perspective and great insight.

What is dialogue to you? In this episode, Lonte gives his insight on what healthy dialogue looks like. He covers 5 different points that he feels is a base to identifying healthy habits to dialogue.

In this episode, I debunk the notion that black women are aggressive. Black women are a lot of things, I would not call them aggressive. Strong, courageous, and driven maybe; but definitely not aggressive.

This week, I want to peel back the layers of your feelings as well as mine. Let’s talk about consideration. One of the most important things to me, in any relationship; is being considered. I want to be considered in every way. Consider my feelings, my thoughts, my mind. Are you being considered? Are you considering others? Let’s talk about it.

What does the dynamic of family look like to you? How do you define family? In this episode, Lonte gives his take on what family looks like and what they mean to him.

In relationships, men typically want what they do not have within themselves. I think that most women they exemplifies a lot of manly characteristics, is simply because their prominent relationships are with men. There is grave difference in a friendship and a relationship. This is my take manly characteristics within a relationship.