Modern Gays

In this spooktacular episode, Daniel and Garet dive into the transformative energy of Scorpio season and its impact on the LGBTQ+ community. They also explore why Halloween is often referred to as "Gay Christmas." Plus, celebrity astrologer Kyle Thomas shares his insights on what to expect this Scorpio season. Listen to the full Scorpio Season clip by Kyle Thomas on our Modern Gays website here ....

Join Daniel and Garet as they decode the viral sensation of "gay math," a playful yet thought-provoking lens on LGBTQIA+ culture, relationships, and stereotypes. From navigating relationship red flags to the ethics of Pride merch, this episode is a whirlwind of chuckles and enlightenment. This episode promises a rollercoaster of laughter, a-ha moments, and soul-searching reflections. So, grab your...

Daniel and Garet explore the intricate dynamics of giving and receiving in relationships. From friendships to dating and even in the bedroom, they delve into how the balance—or imbalance—of giving and receiving can shape our connections and emotional well-being.    Topics Discussed: Strangers: A simple smile or nod can make a big difference. Friendships: The balance of giving and receiving should...

The intricate web of perceptions, authenticity, and the impact of empty promises in our social interactions. Daniel and Garet explore the concept of "faking it till you make it" and how it intertwines with our self-presentation, especially in the realms of social media and personal interactions. The discussion meanders through the nuances of maintaining authenticity in various scenarios, from casu...

In this heartfelt episode, we discuss our personal coming out stories and the challenges we faced. Talking about the concept of "coming in" as a celebration of one's authentic self, rather than seeking external validation - can we switch the language and take more ownership of our story? Throughout our chat, we emphasize the importance of sharing experiences, fostering understanding, and promoting...

Dive into the myths surrounding the "bottom's diet" and the intersection of food, body image, and sexuality within the LGBTQ+ community. The hosts debunk misconceptions, emphasizing the importance of a balanced diet and self-care for intimate well-being. They explore the concept of "gay dinner," redefining it as a celebration of community, inclusivity, and self-love. The episode is a feast of insi...

Ever felt the pressure to stick to a timeline that doesn't resonate with you? Whether it's career goals, relationships, or personal milestones, we're here to tell you that it's okay to rewrite the script. Tune in to discover how to live life on your terms, free from societal expectations. In this episode, we're diving deep into the concept of life timelines and how they can be both liberating and...

Certified love and relationship coach joins us, Trevor Kuhn, popularly known as Love Daddy Trev on social media. Get ready to explore the intricacies of dating, the taboos, the stigmas, and the age-old question: should you have sex on the first date? We're not just talking about dating; we're exploring the journey of finding authentic love. From the pressures of the dating scene to the importance...

Are you ready to turn your gay dreams into reality? We're here to guide you through the maze of barriers and into a life you love. In today's episode, Daniel and Garet explore the concept of "gay dreams" and how to make them come true. We discuss the importance of identifying your dreams, overcoming barriers, and setting achievable goals. Whether it's career aspirations, relationship goals, or per...

We explore the intersection of healthcare and the LGBTQIA+ community with Dr. Carlton, a gastroenterologist based in San Diego. From the importance of sexual health to the nuances of queer healthcare, Dr. Carlton shares his expertise and personal journey in a way that's both educational and relatable.   Topics Covered: Dr. Carlton's journey into gastroenterology and queer health The importance of...

Silence!! Bring back our girl... Hollywould Star! RuPaul's Drag Race Down Under Season 3 contestant Hollywould Star joins us for an exclusive Modern Gays' interview! We chat about her start in drag, moving to Australia and how to find the support you need to succeed.   Topics Discussed: Hollywould Star gives us an exciting insight into her journey in drag, illustrating the significance of living i...

The profound subject of change and evolution... From personal stories of self-discovery to practical strategies for embracing change, this episode is a heartfelt exploration of growth and identity. Whether you're seeking inspiration or looking to understand the dynamics of change in your life, this episode promises to be a thought-provoking journey. In this episode, Daniel and Garet discuss the in...

Drawing from their personal narratives, Daniel and Garet share intimate experiences and insights about the fear of disappointing others, particularly in the context of coming out and embracing their authentic selves. They navigate the delicate balance between accommodating others and prioritizing their own needs, highlighting how this equilibrium significantly shapes their sense of control, happin...

Check out this heartfelt and humorous journey as we explore the concept of "home" from a uniquely queer perspective. From feng shui and house numerology to the importance of community and self-expression, this episode dives into what makes a house a home. Whether you're moving, settling in, or just reflecting on your space, this episode is packed with insights, laughs, and a touch of fabulous flai...

We venture into the gray areas of oversharing and personal boundaries, setting the stage for a compelling conversation. Will you discover you're an oversharer or someone who keeps things close to your chest? In this episode, we navigate the landscape of today's oversharing culture. From reality TV celebrities spilling intimate life details to our social media feeds filled with minute-by-minute upd...

Have you heard these myths about Barbie as a role model for self-acceptance and empowerment? Myth 1: Barbie is only for girls. Myth 2: Barbie only promotes unrealistic beauty standards. Myth 3: Barbie lacks substance and is just a pretty face. But what if we told you that the truth is far more empowering and inclusive? Stay tuned for the eye-opening truth about Barbie's role in fostering self-acce...

Appreciate the profound impact of a diverse pool of friends on broadening your horizons and empathic understanding. Sail through the intricacies of forming and maintaining friendships within the landscape of being gay. Reveal how shared understanding among the gay community acts as a fulcrum that strengthens bonds. Recognize the necessity of defining boundaries and expectations to sustain healthy...

Have you ever caught yourself wondering where your day went? Or how did your perception of time drastically change from your twenties to your thirties? We have, and we're here to tell you it can feel like a whirlwind, but it doesn't have to. We'll share our personal experiences and discuss how being intentional with our time can improve happiness and fulfilment. It's all about finding the right ba...

We had the privilege of sitting down with Megan Watson, Australia's leading celebrant, who shared invaluable insights on everything from attraction versus true love, to connecting with wedding vendors, and the transition from dating to marriage. Our own wedding photographer, Katie Harmsworth, played a significant role in our special day, and Megan helped us understand how that connection was based...

We explore the concept of "DINKS" - Dual Income No Kids - and the idea of forgoing having kids in favor of living a life of potential luxury and adventure. Listen in as we discuss the challenges many gay couples face when considering starting a family and how a lack of education and resources may influence their decision. We also look at the adoption and surrogacy process for LGBTQ+ families, disc...

We deep-dive into the complexities and nuances of love, questioning the notion of love at first sight and exploring the roles of attraction and lust in relationships. Through personal anecdotes and societal expectations, hosts Daniel and Garet provide a well-rounded understanding of love, especially in the context of queer relationships. They discuss love languages, the differences between attract...

We deep-dive into the various dimensions of Pride, a term often oversimplified by commercial festivities and flamboyant parades. Drawing from personal journeys, hosts Daniel and Garet share heartfelt letters to their younger selves, triggering a powerful conversation on Pride’s multifaceted significance. Beyond the rainbow glitter and party spirit, this episode reveals the real essence of Pride: c...

Explore the discussions on the symbolism of the rainbow flag, the monetization of LGBTQ+ pride celebrations by corporations, and the concept of 'rainbow washing'. Understand personal experiences of workplace inclusivity, and delve into the examination of brands' performative allyship. Learn about the implications of the commercialization of Pride and the significant role of consumer responsibility...

Let's unpack the enigmatic social phenomenon known as Tall Poppy Syndrome. Ever felt undermined for your success? Garet shares his striking experiences with this syndrome upon his move to Australia, revealing how it shaped his self-expression. Meanwhile, Daniel, from the dance community's perspective, takes us through his journey of maintaining individuality amid conformity. They delve into the po...

Delve into the vibrant LGBTQIA+ scene of Sydney with Ben Grubb, an influential journalist and editor at The Sydney Morning Herald and founder of Gay Sydney News. The episode explores Ben's transition from traditional journalism to social media platforms, highlighting the rise of digital news tailored for Gen Z and millennials. Ben shares insights into Sydney's gaybourhood and nightlife, comparing...