Marianne DeMello-Smith
Message in the Middle: Midlife Women, Reinvention & Personal Growth
Message in the Middle is a podcast for women navigating the challenges, transitions, and reinventions that often come with midlife. Hosted by Marianne DeMello-Smith, each episode explores the messy, meaningful moments that shape who we become. Through honest conversations with experts, authors, thought leaders, and everyday women, you'll discover practical insights, inspiring stories, and new perspectives on what it means to grow through life's most difficult seasons. Whether you're facing a career change, caregiving responsibilities, health challenges, grief, relationship shifts, menopause,...
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Jul 11, 2026
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Episodes
Retirement, Reinvention, and the Search for Purpose with George Jerjian 11.07.2026 46:20
Retirement is something many of us prepare for financially, but few of us prepare for emotionally. What happens when the career that shaped your identity, routines, and sense of purpose suddenly disappears? And how do you rediscover yourself when the role you carried for decades is no longer there? In this episode, Marianne sits down with George Jerjian, an Emmy Award-winning producer, author, and...
Why Your Gut Isn’t Healing (And the Truth About Parasite Cleanses) 04.07.2026 46:59
There’s no shortage of advice when it comes to gut health right now. Parasite cleanses. Heavy metal detoxes. Protocols that promise to fix everything in a matter of weeks. And if you’ve been dealing with bloating, fatigue, constipation, or symptoms that never quite resolve, it makes sense why those promises are so appealing. But what if some of the things you’re doing to heal are actually putting...
You Built the Life. So Why Does It Feel Like You've Outgrown It? 27.06.2026 45:56
There comes a point in midlife that can feel both confusing and surprisingly unsettling. You've built a life. A career. A reputation. Maybe a family. You've worked hard, made sacrifices, and checked many of the boxes you once thought would lead to happiness and fulfillment. And then one day you find yourself wondering: Why doesn't this fit the way it used to? Not because you've...
Alli O'Malley on the Hidden Face of Abuse and the Truth About Recovery 20.06.2026 51:32
Sometimes the hardest experiences to recognize are the ones we are living through. Many women think intimate partner violence only looks one way. They picture obvious warning signs, visible injuries, or situations that seem dramatically different from their own. But what happens when the harm is subtle? When it shows up as constant self-doubt, walking on eggshells, losing trust in your own instinc...
From Broken to the Big Stage: Scott Scovill on Fear of Failure and Reinvention 13.06.2026 47:07
What if the thing standing between you and the life you still want isn’t talent, timing, or confidence—but tenacity? In this episode of Message in the Middle , Marianne sits down with entrepreneur, creative director, and author Scott Scovill to explore what it really takes to keep going when fear, failure, and self-doubt tell you to stop. Scott’s story doesn’t follow a traditional path. He went fr...
The Identity Gap: Who You Were vs. Who You’re Becoming with Dr. Sarah Andreas 06.06.2026 46:49
There’s a moment in midlife that many women recognize, even if they’ve never had the language for it. You’re no longer who you used to be… but you’re not fully who you’re becoming either. In this episode of Message in the Middle , Marianne sits down with Dr. Sarah Andreas, artist, educator, and author of Step Into the Ether , to explore what she calls the identity gap . That in-between space where...
You Don’t Have to Change Everything to Change Your Life | Michele Kehrer on Clarity, Resilience, and Brave Shifts 30.05.2026 38:07
What if the answer isn’t to change everything… but to change just a few things that change everything? In this episode of Message in the Middle , Marianne sits down with Dr. Michele Kehrer, business growth coach, entrepreneur, and four-time cancer survivor, to explore what it really means to find clarity in the middle of chaos. After building and selling a successful physical therapy practice in d...
Why You Still Feel Stuck (Even After Doing the Work) | Somatic Healing with Melanie Smithson 23.05.2026 50:03
There’s a moment many women reach in midlife where they realize something frustrating… They’ve done the work. They understand their patterns. They’ve processed their experiences. They can talk about their past with clarity and insight. And yet, something still feels stuck. In this episode of Message in the Middle , Marianne sits down with somatic psychotherapist and author Melanie Smithson to expl...
It’s Not Too Late to Change Your Life: Debbie Weiss on Letting Go of the Victim Mindset 16.05.2026 47:38
What happens when you wake up one day and realize your life doesn’t look the way you thought it would? In this episode of Message in the Middle , Marianne sits down with Debbie Weiss, best-selling author, speaker, and host of the Maybe I Can podcast for a deeply honest conversation about what it really takes to change your life in midlife. After decades of caregiving, personal loss, infertility, a...
The Real Reason You React The Way You Do In Relationships (And How to Change It) 09.05.2026 42:19
In this episode of Message in the Middle , Marianne sits down with therapist, relationships coach, and emotional safety expert Diane McDowell to explore a powerful reframe: What if the challenges in your relationships aren’t about communication or compatibility… but about emotional safety? Because when emotional safety is missing, everything changes. You can know the tools. You can have the aware...
The Relationship That Changes Everything: Learning to Show Up for Yourself in Midlife 02.05.2026 43:41
What does it actually mean to be in a good relationship with yourself? Not the version you perform for the world. Not the one built on how much you get done or how little you ask for. The one underneath all of that. The one that shapes how safe you feel in your own body, how you respond when things fall apart, and whether you extend even a fraction of the compassion to yourself which you so freely...
Stuck in the Same Patterns? How to Work with Your Subconscious Instead of Fighting It 25.04.2026 47:45
If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking, “Why do I keep doing this?” or “Why can’t I just change this pattern?” Then this episode is for you. Because the truth is, most of us aren’t stuck because we’re broken. We’re stuck because we’re trying to change at the level of the conscious mind… while the real drivers of our behavior live somewhere deeper. In this conversation, I’m joined by clinical hyp...
Rebuilding From the Inside Out: Jo Rye on Rebuilding Identity, Clarity, and Courage After Crisis 18.04.2026 40:53
What do you do when everything in the life you knew changes unexpectedly? In this episode of Message in the Middle , I’m joined by Jo Rye, founder of Clarity & Courage, executive coach, and author, who shares what it really looked like to rebuild her life after surviving a brain hemorrhage just days after losing her grandmother. This isn’t a story about reinvention. It’s about starting from a...
From Obedience to Inner Authority: Rediscovering Self-Trust with Toni LaMotta 11.04.2026 49:08
In this episode of Message in the Middle , Marianne sits down with Toni LaMotta to explore what happens when we lose trust in our own inner voice and how we begin finding it again. After spending sixteen years living under a vow of obedience as a Catholic nun, Toni gained a deep understanding of authority, surrender, and the subtle ways our voices can fade into the background. Today, she is a high...
Resilience Is a Choice: Adriana Cowdin on Reinvention, Chronic Illness, and Starting Again 04.04.2026 35:40
For many women in midlife, reinvention feels like something that should happen at the beginning of a new year, after a major life change, or once everything finally settles down. But what if the truth is simpler and harder at the same time? What if reinvention begins with one decision? In this episode of Message in the Middle , Marianne sits down with entrepreneur, executive coach, and author Ad...
It’s Not You vs. The World. It’s You vs. You | Emotional Fitness with Shaun Zetlin 28.03.2026 56:27
In this episode of Message in the Middle , I sit down with Shaun Zetlin, master fitness trainer, author, and creator of Emotional Fitness , for a powerful conversation about redefining strength. After more than two decades helping people build physical strength, Shaun’s work has evolved into something deeper, exploring how emotional fitness shapes the way we think, feel, and show up for our lives....
Redefining Success, Sobriety, and Self-Awareness in Midlife with Ann Karber 21.03.2026 44:40
In this episode of Message in the Middle, Marianne welcomes Anne Karber for an honest and reflective conversation about the midlife moment when everything appears fine on the outside, yet something feels quietly off. Anne is an entrepreneur, author of The Life Hack Playbook, and host of the Let’s Get Naked Podcast. Known for her grounded, no-BS approach, Anne helps people understand how self-aw...
You’re Not Stuck. Your Nervous System Is Protecting You. 14.03.2026 50:42
Many women reach midlife having done years of personal growth work. They’ve read the books, gone to therapy, practiced mindset tools, and still find themselves feeling stuck. Not broken, exactly. Just not settled. Not at ease. In this episode of Message in the Middle , Marianne is joined by Ranbir Puar for a conversation that reframes what healing actually looks like. Together, they explore why mi...
What If Healing Doesn’t Have to Wait? Emma Churchman on Trauma and Resilience 07.03.2026 30:57
What if healing from trauma didn’t have to wait until life finally slowed down? What if recovery could happen in real time, right in the middle of uncertainty, responsibility, and everyday life? In this episode of Message in the Middle, Marianne is joined by Emma Churchman, nationally certified trauma chaplain, leadership mentor, executive consultant, and founder of the Trauma Recovery Certificati...
When Being Busy Stops Working: Curiosity, Connection, and Midlife Leadership 28.02.2026 45:17
So many women in midlife are craving something they can’t quite name. It’s not another productivity system. It’s not better time management. And it’s definitely not one more thing to add to an already full plate. It’s genuine connection. In this episode of Message in the Middle , Marianne is joined by Dr. Mickey Fitch-Collins, a leadership development expert who believes that when we center human...
Rewiring the Mind in Midlife: Hypnosis, Curiosity, Manifestation and the Power of Imagination 21.02.2026 46:58
In this episode of Message in the Middle , Marianne sits down with Clinical Hypnotherapist, imagination advocate, and award-winning author Michelle Walters to explore how hypnosis, curiosity, manifestation, and imagination can help women in midlife rewire long-standing subconscious patterns. Michelle shares the deeply personal story that led her from a successful career in digital marketing into h...
You Don’t Have to Earn Your Worth: Ruth Hirshberg on Burnout, Boundaries, and Believing You’re Enough 14.02.2026 45:07
So many women in midlife are quietly carrying an exhausting belief: that their worth is something they have to earn—through productivity, perfection, and putting everyone else first. In this episode of Message in the Middle , Marianne is joined by registered social worker, meditation and breathwork teacher, and founder of The Self-Worth Solution , Ruth Hirshberg , for a deeply honest conversation...
Thriving Through Chronic Illness: Relationships, Resilience & Staying Connected with Lisa Gray, LMFT 07.02.2026 37:12
What happens to a relationship when chronic illness enters the picture? For many women in midlife, a diagnosis doesn’t just affect the body, it reshapes roles, routines, identity, intimacy, and the emotional fabric of our closest relationships. And without the right support, even the strongest partnerships can quietly shift from connection to survival mode. In this episode of Message in the Middle...
Turning Heartbreak Into Art: Nikki Allen on Healing, Identity & Reinvention 31.01.2026 38:31
In this powerful conversation, Marianne sits down with author and creative visionary Nikki Allen , whose novel Loved You, Hated You began as a song, became a screenplay, and ultimately transformed into a raw, emotionally charged exploration of heartbreak, identity loss, and choosing yourself again. Nikki opens up about surviving an emotionally abusive relationship, the kind that doesn’t leave phys...
From Fight, Flight, or Freeze to Ease: Reconnecting with Your Nervous System with Kelly Hale 24.01.2026 47:17
If you’ve ever felt like your body and your mind were working against you—stuck in stress, burnout, or exhaustion—this episode is for you. Marianne sits down with Kelly Hale , a wellness practitioner with over 25 years of experience as an occupational therapist, restorative movement specialist, and nervous system regulation expert. Kelly’s not your typical wellness voice—she’s a self-proclaimed fo...
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