Menisms

What does it really take to be the “perfect” girlfriend? And more importantly… does she even exist? In the final episode of the season, the guys dive into the expectations men place on women, the pressure to “perform” perfectly in relationships, and the age-old conversation that starts it all: men and women are different. From communication styles to emotional needs, this episode unpacks the tensi...

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We’ve all heard the loud, flashy pickup lines that usually end in a drink being thrown or a very awkward "read" receipt. But what about the subtle moves? The ones that actually work so well that women won't even admit they’re falling for them? In this episode of  Menisms , we’re pulling back the curtain on the "Best Rizz" that bypasses the radar. We’re talking about the low...

What actually keeps a man thinking about you when you aren't in the room? In this episode, we’re pulling back the curtain on the male psyche to reveal the 10 subtle, non-sexual traits that men find absolutely magnetic—but almost never talk about.  They'd shock you. Feel free to leave us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? ⁠⁠⁠⁠👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms.gle/5WkU...

The pressure to perform is real — and most men suffer in silence. In this episode of Menisms, we're going deep on one of the most common yet least talked about experiences in men's sexual health. Whether it's the frustration of not being able to get or maintain an erection, or the embarrassment of ejaculating far sooner than you'd like, these are experiences that have affected more...

In this episode, Dammy Twitch and Beverly Osu open up about their unconventional journeys from unexpected career pivots to navigating fame, pressure, and purpose. They unpack the realities of Nollywood, life after Big Brother, working with top-tier artists, and the personal philosophies shaping their paths. It’s honest, layered, and deeply reflective. Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions,...

A brutally honest (and hilarious) breakdown of the things men do that make absolutely no sense, yet they will defend with their chest. From ego to conditioning to pure vibes, this episode unpacks the why behind the behaviour. Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? ⁠⁠⁠⁠👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠    Follow the guys: Isyomar: h...

In this episode of Menisms, the guys sit down with the ladies from Binti Talks to unpack one of the most debated questions ever: can men and women really just be friends? From blurred boundaries to hidden feelings, they get into real-life scenarios, uncomfortable truths, and the moments when “just friends” starts to mean something more. Is it possible, or are we all just pretending? Expect honest...

"Do what you love and you'll never work a day in your life" is the ultimate career lie. In this episode, we discuss the moment a creative dream becomes a logistical nightmare and why monetising your hobbies can actually kill the joy that made them special in the first place. Enjoy. Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? ⁠⁠⁠⁠👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms....

We're joined by two of Nollywood's finest – Tobi Bakre and Demi Banwo, and we unpack deep conversations on the deep and most times unsaid struggles that men face. Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? ⁠⁠⁠⁠👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms.gle/5WkUNhx1fzPbubpy7⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠    Follow the guys: Isyomar: https://www.instagram.com/isyomar/ Murewa: https://x.com...

There are some silent, unspoken things that turn us off the moment we spot them in a situationship or even a potential partner. The guys share personal experiences on this and more in this new episode of your favourite podcast. The conversations are real, funny and lowkey relatable at the same time. Enjoy. Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? ⁠...

In this episode, the Menisms guys dive into the idea of a “marriage window” and whether it actually exists. From turning 30 and feeling societal pressure, to family constantly asking when you’ll bring someone home, the conversation explores why many men delay marriage today. The guys also share personal experiences about women they almost married in their 20s and discuss whether finances and moder...

The dilemmas in this episode are wild! 😂 Why is it that even as grown adults, we still hear our parents' voices in our heads before making a personal choice? We’re sharing the raw, hilarious, and sometimes painful stories of getting our first tattoos—from hiding them under long sleeves for years and so much more. You're in for a great ride. Enjoy. Feel free to drop us a comment. Got quest...

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In this episode, we unpack our real experiences with Valentine’s Day — from secondary school teddy bears to uni heartbreaks… and even the infamous Prado moment. We talk about the pressure men feel to always be the giver, whether Valentine’s is just capitalism in disguise, and what actually makes a gift meaningful. Is Valentine’s about love… or performance? Subscribe to our YouTube channel and watc...

In this episode, we step into a time machine to a world before high-speed Wi-Fi, Tinder, and the "talking stage"—the era of analogue love as we knew it. From the high-stakes pressure of scratching a ₦200 Econet recharge card to the sheer audacity of taking a bike to a movie date at The Palms, we break down why dating in 2009 felt more "real" than the digital chaos of 2026. We explore the transitio...

The guys talk IShowSpeed and the whole drama that surrounded his Nigerian leg of his Africa tour, sex before marriage, sexual compatibility and the how social media is somewhat defining who or what the 21st century men should be like and more in this episode. Enjoy Subscribe to our YouTube channel and watch the video pod on Thursdays here 👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://youtube.com/@MenismsPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Feel free...

In this episode, we unpack a controversial question many couples avoid: does being the sole financial provider excuse someone from daily house chores?  The Lads also share stories of Heartbreak, and how they recovered, If ever? 😔 Enjoy. Subscribe to our YouTube channel and watch the video pod on Thursdays here 👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://youtube.com/@MenismsPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Feel free to drop us a comment. Got q...

Menisms in back... We meet our new co-host Isioma Okey-Nwosu and our OG co-host Murewa. Talk about Detty December, marriage pressure and 2026 expectations. Ladies and gentlemen. Strap in, Menisms season is upon us!!! For those who missed our earlier post. Menisms and Michael have mutually decided to part ways. The decision was made on friendly terms, and we’re grateful for everything he brought to...

Trust us when we say this episode is different. We unpack one of the wildest listener dilemmas we’ve ever received, and it sparks a brutally honest conversation about masculinity, male sexuality, identity, loyalty, and modern relationships. There are no filters here. Just raw perspectives, controversial takes, and unfiltered energy from start to finish. Enjoy. Subscribe to our YouTube channel and...

This episode is packed with honest advice, personal anecdotes, and a fresh perspective on relationships, finances, and self-worth in the modern world. Enjoy| Subscribe to our YouTube channel and watch the video pod on Thursdays here 👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://youtube.com/@MenismsPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experiences? ⁠⁠⁠⁠👉 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://forms...

Ever wondered how many people are truly dating their "spec" outside of social pressures? This episode of Menisms, unpacks listener questions that touch on the heart of modern relationships, navigating breakups and the importance of personal growth during your "come-up" phase.  They also get real about the financial aspects of dating and offer advice on where and how to genuinel...

This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in the evolution of African music, the psychology of success, and a refreshingly honest dialogue about masculinity and mental well-being.  Subscribe to our YouTube channel and watch the video pod on Thursdays here 👉 ⁠⁠⁠https://youtube.com/@MenismsPodcast⁠⁠⁠   Feel free to drop us a comment. Got questions, feedback or want to share your experienc...

On this episode, Michael and Murewa dive deep into the complexities of adulting, money, and relationships. They kick things off with a candid discussion about blowing a "first million" and the lessons learned (or not learned!) about financial boundaries. Subscribe to our YouTube channel and watch the video pod on Thursdays here 👉 ⁠⁠https://youtube.com/@MenismsPodcast⁠⁠   Feel free to drop us a co...