Men Becoming Better Men

Most men think money is about numbers—but money is really time . In this episode, Bob Wischer (The Relationship Engineer) breaks down why the traditional “work hard, save, retire someday” path often creates dependency and stress, and how financial freedom is better measured by cash flow and experienced through time control . You’ll learn simple retirement math using the “25x expenses” guideline, t...

In this episode, I talk about male loneliness in midlife, why most men have acquaintances instead of brothers, and how to build an inner circle after betrayal. You’ll get a practical Brotherhood Scorecard (reliability, consistent contact, growth check-ins, mutual investment, protective respect), plus the Brotherhood Boundaries Audit —four questions that clarify what real friendship requires. One-w...

In the Men Becoming Better Men Season 8 finale, host Bob Wischer sits down with the legendary Dr. Robert Glover, author of No More Mr. Nice Guy and founder of Integration Nation , for a powerhouse conversation on breaking free from the "nice guy" trap, reclaiming masculinity, and building true connection. This episode is packed with game-changing insights, including: ✅ Why No More Mr. N...

In this episode of the MBBM Podcast, I sit down with Jason Lang, an embodiment coach, men’s group facilitator, and certified No More Mr. Nice Guy coach. We tackle one of the biggest lies men tell themselves—that success, relationships, and purpose are best achieved alone. Jason shares his personal journey from social anxiety to leadership, why men’s groups are essential for growth, and the hidden...

Welcome back to the Men Becoming Better Men Podcast , where we tackle the real struggles men face—losing connection with your spouse, feeling like a stranger in your own life, and wrestling with self-discipline when no one's watching. This week, I sit down with Mark Collins , founder of Freedom for Life and author of Life Mastery: Living Life by Design, Not Default. Mark has helped countless m...

In this powerful episode of Men Becoming Better Men , host Bob Wischer sits down with Rick Cheatham , a retired firefighter, speaker, and transformational life coach, to uncover his extraordinary journey from addiction, betrayal, and tragedy to personal redemption and purpose. Rick shares: 🔥 How a porn addiction nearly destroyed his marriage—and what saved it. 🔥 The wake-up call that forced him...

In this episode of Men Becoming Better Men , we tackle the gut-wrenching reality of feeling alone and trapped in a life you worked so hard to build. Drawing from my personal experience of 15 years stuck in a marriage where resentment and guilt consumed me, I share the hard truths about how abandoning yourself to make others happy only leads to isolation and frustration. We explore why your family...

In this episode of Men Becoming Better Men , Bob Wischer, The Relationship Engineer, sits down with Dan Storey, a renowned author, motivational speaker, and master practitioner of neuro-linguistic programming (NLP). Dan shares his transformative journey from a competitive athlete to one of the top natural physique bodybuilders in the world. Together, they explore how understanding behavioral psych...

In this episode of Men Becoming Better Men , Bob, The Relationship Engineer, sits down with Andrew Heatherly, founder of Wiser Divorce Solutions and host of The Gray Divorce Podcast . Together, they unpack the financial and emotional challenges of navigating midlife divorce and how to turn adversity into a path toward personal growth and purpose. Andrew shares actionable insights on avoiding commo...

In this episode of Men Becoming Better Men , Bob, The Relationship Engineer, dives deep with Jonathon Aslay, one of America's top midlife dating coaches and author of What the Heck is Self-Love Anyway? . They discuss the journey of self-discovery, healing from emotional wounds, and how finding purpose can transform your life. From navigating the challenges of online dating to cultivating emotional...

Feeling like you were abandoned or cast aside after divorce? You’re not alone—and there’s a way forward. In this powerful episode, Bob welcomes Josh Tomioni, coach, podcast host, and father of three, to discuss the hard truths about navigating life’s toughest transitions. From overcoming contentious divorces to rebuilding purpose and identity, Josh shares his journey of failure, healing, and redis...

In this deeply personal episode, I share my untold story of navigating a 19-year ill-fated marriage, battling depression, and losing myself to bad habits and a lack of purpose. From being out of shape and isolated to finding my true calling and rebuilding my life, I’ll walk you through the drastic changes I made to reclaim control. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a life that doesn’t align with who yo...

In this compelling episode of Men Becoming Better Men , The Relationship Engineer sits down with Sophia Torrini, a certified neuro-change consultant and emotional freedom technique (EFT) practitioner trained by Dr. Joe Dispenza. Sophia shares her powerful journey of overcoming chronic illness and limiting beliefs to lead a purpose-driven life, helping others do the same through neuroscience, traum...

In this transformative episode of the Men Becoming Better Men podcast, The Relationship Engineer is joined by Matt Cook, a health and sex researcher with over 25 years of experience and the head of the largest alt health online university. With insights that have helped over 80,000 people, Matt dives deep into how men can reclaim their purpose, improve their relationships, and achieve peak health...

In this episode of The Men Becoming Better Men Podcast , we get real about the silent struggles many men face in their marriages—constant criticism, emotional disconnection, and the toll it takes on your mental health. I share my personal story of living under relentless pressure, feeling trapped in a 14-year dead bedroom, and the path that led to deep depression. But more importantly, I reveal ho...

In this powerful episode of Men Becoming Better Men , host Bob Wischer and guest Patrick Casey tackle some of the toughest questions men face today: discovering purpose , overcoming fears , and navigating life's biggest challenges . Patrick opens up about his own journey toward purpose, the obstacles he's overcome, and the strategies he's used to confront fears and find growth. This episode is pac...

In this episode, I'm joined by speaker, podcaster and coach Kevin Palmieri and we dive deep into the journey from feeling like a failure to reaching next-level success. We'll explore the urgency of stepping into your true purpose, maintaining self-awareness, and overcoming the fear of disappointing others—especially other men. With personal stories and practical advice, we'll challenge you to asse...

We kick off our first special guest interview with Felice Mathieu a highly experienced marriage and family coach who has dedicated over 25 years of his life to studying relationships. We discuss life's purpose and meaning, facing our fears and how men should be more like Clark Kent then trying to be Superman. To connect with Bob, email: menbecomingbettermen@gmail.com or visit www.menbecomingbetter...

Struggling to keep promises to yourself or feeling like you’re living a double life? In this episode, I break down the real reasons why your personal integrity is holding you back and reveal the steps to rebuild trust in yourself. It’s time to stop making excuses and start living in alignment. Ready to become the man you’re meant to be? Tune in now!

How many of you are feeling frustrated, ignored, or completely disconnected from your wife? How many of you are avoiding even trying anymore because you’re tired of being rejected or feeling like a failure? This isn’t about the number of times you’re having sex—it’s about that nagging emptiness that makes you question, ‘Is this really what my marriage has become?’ If this hits home, then you need...

Are you feeling like life is just a monotonous cycle of work, home, and sleep—without any real sense of fulfillment or excitement? Do you find yourself chasing success, only to feel empty once you achieve it? In today’s episode, I’m getting brutally honest about the one thing that’s likely missing in your life—Purpose. You see, when a man doesn’t have a clear sense of purpose, everything else beco...

Anger…we all have it, from the guy who cuts you off in traffic, to coworkers who don’t do their jobs, and on and on, I could list dozens of situations that get my blood boiling. But my question to you today, is why?

Men need intimate relationships with both women and other men. We are not made to do life alone. Tune in to hear both the male and female perspectives on this topic! Contact us at menbecomingbettermen@gmail.com to provide feedback or ask questions of Bob or Nicole!

For men to realize what is causing a lack of control of one’s thoughts and emotions and is a serious degradation of personal power! To connect with Bob, visit ⁠www.menbecomingbettermen.com⁠ or email menbecomingbettermen@gmail.com or join the MBBM private Facebook group: ⁠ https://www.facebook.com/groups/overc... For Nicole: Join her community The RISE of the Masculine Private Facebook Group:⁠ http...

This weeks podcast is Nicole with her special guest Steve Love. He experienced a profound awakening almost 10 years ago. He will be opening up and sharing how years of suppressed anger lead to rageful outbursts, contemplation of suicide and ultimately the end of his marriage. He will be sharing his own 4 stages of anger, how he moved through the rage and diffused his anger and the commonality of “...