Me Second

⁠FOLLOW US⁠ ❤️‍🔥 BI-WEEKLY GAME SHOW Welcome to our bi-weekly game show, where every other week we pick a theme, play by our own rules, and see who gets angriest first. Today's game: Mount Rushmore. It has no ranking, just the top four. Buckle up. Round 1: Minor inconveniences that push you to the edge. Round 2: Professions that would be scary if everyone told the truth. A lot of nonsense, sense...

https://linktr.ee/mesecond Conspiracy Theories: Aliens, Moon Landings & Government Secrets 👽🌕 Aliens at Area 51? The moon landing was staged? And we're just supposed to trust the government?  Cute. This week on Me Second , Rachel and Quel are questioning everything—from Bob Lazar and classified secrets to suspicious moon footage and why our brains love a good conspiracy. Are we uncoverin...

✨FOLLOW US: linktree.com/mesecond ✨ Apparently adulthood comes with a lot of rules nobody remembers agreeing to. Which side of the bed do you sleep on? Why does voicemail feel like a hostage situation? And when did a ring or an expensive wedding become the official receipt for love? In this brutally funny, deeply honest conversation, Me Second takes a wrecking ball to the social scripts around m...

https://linktr.ee/mesecond Why do we blow out candles on a birthday cake? Why do we throw perfectly good money into fountains? Why are men’s nipples just… nipples, but women’s nipples require an emergency response? 😂 In this episode, we started questioning all the completely normal things humans do that become VERY weird the second you actually think about them. Turns out, a lot of “normal” is ju...

https://linktr.ee/mesecond Apparently, we’re yearning again. But what exactly are we yearning for ? This week, we get into romance, desire, dating apps, mystery, vulnerability, and whether having unlimited access to everyone has completely screwed up our ability to long for anyone. Can you know too much about someone too soon? Does desire need a little uncertainty? Is vulnerability sexy—or have we...

Follow us, tell your mom to follow us, brat. CLICK HERE , DARE YOU. "Am I living by someone else's design?" Rachel and Quel dive into the messy, funny, and surprisingly deep ways we lie to ourselves about worth, independence, and what we think other people are really thinking. From therapy and relationships to conflict, busyness, and society’s obsession with validation, this episode...

https://linktr.ee/mesecond What if the chaos in your life isn’t just happening to you—what if part of you keeps choosing it? Using The Odyssey as our roadmap, this episode of Me Second explores the monsters, detours, temptations, and sirens we encounter in modern life. We talk about why peace can sometimes feel more uncomfortable than chaos, why we’re drawn back toward things we already know will...

follow us around 👽 FORGIVE, FORGET OR FXCKING CUT. ❤️‍🔥 Forgiveness isn’t the same as staying. In this episode, we get real about accountability, apologies that actually mean something, and the line between healing and enabling. From cheating to public humiliation to repeated betrayal, we break down what’s forgivable, what isn’t, and why sometimes the hardest part is trusting your own boundary....

https://linktr.ee/MESECOND Who are you if you strip away your job, your relationship, your hobbies, your beliefs—even your memories? That question drives this episode of Me Second, as Rachel and Quel try to figure out what actually makes you, you. We use words like personality, identity, authenticity, and “self” almost interchangeably—but are they really the same thing? And how much of what we cal...

FOLLOW US! ❤️‍🔥 Attachment styles, overthinking, love languages, religious trauma, and the eternal question: can you be partially colorblind—or are your eyes just oppressed? In this episode, Quel & Rachel begin with a simple conversation about attachment styles and promptly turn it into a full-scale philosophical spiral about identity, labels, relationships, self-trust, and why people despera...

https://linktr.ee/mesecond What if humanity had to start over? If you could build a brand-new civilization from scratch, who would you bring—and what kind of world would you create? In this episode of Me Second , Rachel and Quel draft the people they'd choose to rebuild society before diving into a much bigger debate. Quel believes we could create a civilization without politics, hierarchy, or...

STALK US EVERYWHERE ❤️‍🔥 Most of us walk around with hidden fears—fear of being misunderstood, of vulnerability, or even of death itself. But what if facing our darkest truths could unlock a deeper sense of peace and authenticity? In this chaotic yet profound episode, Quel and Rachel explore the wild terrain of self-awareness, the paradox of suffering, and the eerie beauty of mortality that unite...

BDSM? Not exactly what Rachel signed up for. ❤️‍🔥 A philosopher and a licensed therapist take a BDSM quiz... and the results are exactly as awkward (and hilarious) as you'd expect. Take it for yourself & report back.. don't be stingy. https://bdsmtest.org/ Rachel quickly discovers she's about as vanilla as they come, while Quel ends up somewhere on the opposite end of the spectrum...

Honestly, this episode is a GEM. GOLD. MAGNIFICENT. We bounce around from BDSM, Violence, Harm, Death, and Conflict. In this episode Rach ranges from crying at Quel's theory to telling them to fxck off. It's a doozy, and we love it. GET IN LOSERS. WE'RE GOING MAD. XXOO Q&R Insight into the dynamics of BDSM tests The spectrum of violence in personal and professional relationships The concept of...

IF THEY WANTED TO, THEY WOULD... RIGHT? This week we're picking a fight with the internet's favorite psychology phrases. "If they wanted to, they would" or "time heals all wounds". Some of these ideas are empowering. Some become excuses. And some sound profound until you actually have to live by them. A therapist and a philosopher attempt the impossible: deciding which self-help mantras deserve to...

This week Quel & Rach play some exposing games about themselves - TWO TRUTHS & A DEFENSE MECHANISM. LISTEN IN BRATS.

Most people think love, self-awareness, and even growth come in tidy, predictable packages. But what if the deepest truths are found in chaos, contradiction, and unfiltered honesty? In this eye-opening episode, Rachel and Quel peel back the layers of societal expectations, exploring what it really means to love yourself, be vulnerable, and challenge the status quo — even when it feels uncomfortabl...

GET IN LOSERS, WE'RE GOING INSANE. A philosopher & a licensed therapist unlock the wildest, most unfiltered insights into the mind of two deep-thinking creatives. They explore the boundaries between magic, trauma, intuition, and reality. This episode is a raw, no-holds-barred conversation that will make you question what you believe is possible — and what you’ve been told to ignore. This episo...