Maybe It's Me

SEND IN YOUR PROBLEMS SO MAYBE IT’S NOT ME! sometimes rejection doesn’t feel like rejection. sometimes it feels like confirmation. in this episode, I unpack a closed door, a dead phone, dating in atlanta, and the strange ache of wanting to be seen in rooms that don’t know what to do with you. it’s about gay loneliness, desirability, femininity, shame, humor, and the exhausting performance of tryin...

SEND IN YOUR PROBLEMS SO MAYBE IT’S NOT ME! i haven't talked about love in a while, not because I found it, not because I hate it, but because i think my feelings got tired of trying to understand it. this episode is about love, betrayal, friendship, romance, mariah the scientist, and realizing that sometimes the people who say they care about you can still be the ones holding the knife... ma...

SEND IN YOUR PROBLEMS SO MAYBE IT’S NOT ME! hi guys! let's not act like this is something new with me being away. ANYWAYS! in this episode, i’m talking about men, brotherhood, and the weird fear that shows up the moment male closeness looks a little too… close. from game chats to coming out to the performance of masculinity, i’m unpacking why men crave other men’s approval so deeply... and wh...

SEND IN YOUR PROBLEMS SO MAYBE IT’S NOT ME! what if the stuff we call “entertainment” is really just modern-day performance? in this episode, i talk about Baddies , reality TV culture, and how Black pain, chaos, and humiliation keep getting packaged, sold, and consumed for profit.  this isn’t about canceling anybody. it’s about waking up. if this makes you uncomfortable… good. press play. :) make...

SEND IN YOUR PROBLEMS SO MAYBE IT’S NOT ME! this wasn’t planned. it just needed to be said. maybe it’s me. make sure to follow me on my socials ౨ৎ : instagram! also my brand instagram  ੈ✩‧₊˚: MAYBEITSMEIG

SEND IN YOUR PROBLEMS SO MAYBE IT’S NOT ME! i know, i know, i've been doing a real bad job with this relationship we have... i feel like an avoidant boyfriend (not like i don't have any experience with one haha.....) anyways, hopefully this is a good summary of everything that you've missed regarding me and i hope santa got you something this year. <3 make sure to follow me on my...

SEND IN YOUR PROBLEMS SO MAYBE IT’S NOT ME! i don't know who's out of their minds at this point... me, you bitches or B.O.B? oh well, i guess we'll find out soon enough. sorry for the vulgar language but sometimes it's necessary.  make sure to follow me on my socials ౨ৎ : instagram! also my brand instagram  ੈ✩‧₊˚: MAYBEITSMEIG

SEND IN YOUR PROBLEMS SO MAYBE IT’S NOT ME! a candid dive into my mind of push-and-pull with intimacy, control, and the art of letting go. from craving solitude to longing for a love that keeps its distance, in this episode i explore what it means to hold on, set free, and wonder if the bird that's prone to fly will ever come back. make sure to follow me on my socials ౨ৎ : instagram! also my...

SEND IN YOUR PROBLEMS SO MAYBE IT’S NOT ME! Young Thug titled his album Business Is Business, and I recently encountered a conundrum with the phrase. What does it really mean? Is it survival… or selfishness? In this episode, I discuss how this mindset manifests in real life, from friendships to work, and why I refuse to succumb to the loser mentality.  Business might be business, but we're hu...

SEND IN YOUR PROBLEMS SO MAYBE IT’S NOT ME! in this episode, i’m talking about how lust became the main character in today’s dating scene. i'm not condemning, we’re human — but let’s be real: standards are disappearing, mystery is dead, and it feels like love is on back order. is this just a culture shift… or a romance recession? let’s get into it! make sure to follow me on my socials ౨ৎ : in...

SEND IN YOUR PROBLEMS SO MAYBE IT’S NOT ME! it’s been a year since i cut out something that was rotting me from the inside. the healing hasn’t been pretty—no clean stitches, no fast recovery. but i made it to the other side! this episode is me taking the bandages off. still bruised, but finally breathing. swipe in, lay back, and let’s dissect the aftermath. scalpel, please! 🧑🏽‍⚕️ make sure to fo...

SEND IN YOUR PROBLEMS SO MAYBE IT’S NOT ME! hey mim members! (idk) in today’s episode, we’re getting real about something that’s been bothering me for a minute—the way the gay community has become so shallow and surface-level. from hookup apps ruining real connections to onlyFans culture pushing body image struggles, we’ve normalized a way of life that’s more about validation than authenticity. wh...

SEND IN YOUR PROBLEMS SO MAYBE IT’S NOT ME! wow, i can't believe i hit 1,000 downloads. here's my personal thanks to each and every one of you, i hope you all are enjoying this little project i decided to start myself... hopefully it grows even more than i imagine. thank you, thank you, THANK YOU! i don't even know what to say, but hopefully this helps.. bye!  make sure to follow me...

SEND IN YOUR PROBLEMS SO MAYBE IT’S NOT ME! some people support, and some just watch —but in the words of mariah...why you so obsessed with me? 🥲 in this episode, i dive into the weird energy of people who lurk but never engage, "friends" who lowkey compete, and how even family can be on that same type of time. oh, and did i mention my cousin called the cops on me ? yeah, it gets messy...

SEND IN YOUR PROBLEMS SO MAYBE IT’S NOT ME! so proud to announce that we are now on YOUTUBE ! ahhh *screams* thank you guys so much for supporting me and making me feel a little important , make sure you check it out and tell me what you think! :) more videos are coming soon!!! after years of silence, we’re finally sitting down to have the conversation we never had… until now. ja and i were best f...

SEND IN YOUR PROBLEMS SO MAYBE IT’S NOT ME! well, well, well, i'm back again. on a roll now huh? 😂 in this episode, i’m talking about the fear of judgment, cancel culture as the new-age stoning, and why we’re all so scared to admit our shit stinks. I share my own struggles with social media trolls, addiction to external validation ( yeah, I said it ), and what it took for me to stop performi...

SEND IN YOUR PROBLEMS SO MAYBE IT’S NOT ME! in this episode of Maybe It’s Me , i unpack the difference between being seen and truly being accepted. from societal expectations to challenges within the queer community, i explore how these dynamics shape our sense of self and relationships. join me as i reflect on the impact of masc-for-masc culture, femme-phobia, and the journey to embracing authent...

SEND IN YOUR PROBLEMS SO MAYBE IT’S NOT ME! As we wrap up 2024, this episode is all about reflecting, surviving, and thriving through the end of the year. I’m diving into how to protect your peace during the holidays with tips on setting boundaries and navigating family drama. We’ll also revisit the cultural reset moments that defined 2024—spilling ALL the tea on the biggest trends and scandals. P...

SEND IN YOUR PROBLEMS SO MAYBE IT’S NOT ME! well, well, well... as soon as I think I'm coming back like Jordan in his flu game, life always wants to show me that an ass-whooping has no name on it, especially regarding me. come listen to my hectic life update with the addition of a new segment: MAYBE IT'S YOU! a text-hotline where you can talk about whatever and whoever with anonymity and...

SEND IN YOUR PROBLEMS SO MAYBE IT’S NOT ME! let's save the theatrics for the next episode, it's time for business. thank you for waiting but i am OFFICIALLY back! *rubs hands like birdman*  make sure to follow me on my socials ౨ৎ : instagram! also my brand instagram  ੈ✩‧₊˚: MAYBEITSMEIG

SEND IN YOUR PROBLEMS SO MAYBE IT’S NOT ME! there's no introduction, no description, let's just get into it. special shoutout to you, you know who you are.. hope you enjoy! (: make sure to follow me on my socials ౨ৎ : instagram! also my brand instagram  ੈ✩‧₊˚: MAYBEITSMEIG

SEND IN YOUR PROBLEMS SO MAYBE IT’S NOT ME! in this episode, I deep dive into the evolution of music and explore how it transformed from the golden eras to today's hit-or-miss landscape. from the impact of streaming and social media to the role of technology and changing listener habits, I break down the contributing factors that reshaped the soundtrack of society. whether you're a nosta...

SEND IN YOUR PROBLEMS SO MAYBE IT’S NOT ME! hey! i just want to send my condolences for being so nasty and so rude last week, y'all didn't deserve that. because of that, i decided to let you guys in on what makes a REAL LOVER cave in! (even though there's way more that i left out)  plus, the love island reunion is right around the corner, so this is on par with this week, enjoy! :)...

SEND IN YOUR PROBLEMS SO MAYBE IT’S NOT ME! it's mercury retrograde so i have nothing to say. this week's episode is yap-filled on who's going to hell in my eyes, hope you enjoy!  :)  make sure to follow me on my socials ౨ৎ : instagram! also my brand instagram  ੈ✩‧₊˚: MAYBEITSMEIG

SEND IN YOUR PROBLEMS SO MAYBE IT’S NOT ME! I want to say sorry in advance if I don't sound the best today. I am running off one hour of sleep and have been up for 36 hours.. help me. Today's topic is accountability! Here, I discuss how life throws curveballs, but I also have to own up to the part I play. I hope you enjoy it! :) make sure to follow me on my socials ౨ৎ : instagram! also m...