Mastering Coaching Skills

When big emotions come up for us, we often tell ourselves something along the lines of, "I don't have time for this," especially if it happens out in public or around other people. It might present as heaviness or tightness in your chest, a catching in your throat, or that feeling that you'll cry if someone just glances your way. The truth is the emotion will bubble up and spill over into your lif...

It may feel great to you to opt out of doing certain things. For me, this list includes cold plunges and scheduling early morning meetings. However, what do you do when you say you don't want to do something, but you want the result it could create for you? This is the piece most people aren't willing to dig into, and I'm showing you how to start today.   Discover what to do when you want a partic...

How do you manage your energy in your coaching practice? I often talk about tips for improving your coaching skills, but this week's episode is focused a little more on the practicalities of actually running your coaching practice. Of course, your energy ultimately affects how you show up as a coach, so it's really a vital lesson in coaching skills too.   Discover why sometimes you're on and somet...

If you find yourself saying, " It's not working ," whether in relation to trying various things to get your business gaining momentum, or in relation to something that was previously successful in your business that has now stopped working, this episode is for you. There's one powerful but uncomfortable question you must ask yourself in this situation, and I'm offering it to you in this episode.  ...

Over the past two episodes, we've discussed how to help your overthinking clients , and how to serve your clients when they're stuck in a place of over-feeling . This week, we're expanding on this series by exploring how to help your clients who are over-strategizing, taking all the action, and not getting the results they want.   Discover how to help your over-strategizing, over-actioning clients...

Last week , I showed you how to help your overthinking clients when they get stuck in unhelpful thought patterns. This week, I'm diving into the second part of this series, sharing how you can show up for your clients when they're spinning in their feelings but they aren't aware they're doing it.   Learn how to identify when your client is stuck in their feelings, and I'll show you how to get your...

What do you do when you have clients who get stuck in overthinking? When your client is in their own head, as if they could sit around and get lost thinking about things forever, they might perceive this as a good thing. Sure, thinking is important. However, it presents a huge challenge for you as a coach when your clients are stuck in overthinking, and they're not even aware of it.   Tune in this...

How do you really feel while coaching your clients? This question matters far more than you might currently realize. I'd say it's actually one of the most important things you can ask yourself. It's a simple question, but if I could share just one thing with you, it would be why this question has a massive impact on how you show up for your clients and yourself in your coaching practice.   Discove...

Jennifer Dent Brown is a health, life, and weight-loss coach and she's here to share what she calls the F-It Strategy for dealing with those moments where you have a goal you know you want to work towards, but you're just not feeling it, your motivation has dropped, and you don't know how to deal with it.   Tune in this week to discover how to deal with a lack of motivation. Jennifer Dent Brown sh...

There is one huge mistake I see coaches making all the time, and this week, I'm showing you how to avoid it. It's time to make some important decisions in your coaching business. I show you how to get clear on what you want, understand your capacity, and start being authentic in formulating your coaching business. You'll learn how to spot where you're making it more difficult to become a successfu...

To celebrate the anniversary of The Coach Lab, I'm back with another three amazing clients who are here to share their wisdom and stories from inside the program. Lisa Stryker is a life coach for leaders. Lynn Schreiner is a self-described life coach, entrepreneur, mom, grandmother, and creative who helps women with their thoughts. Lynda McDonell is a financial business coach who helps women busin...

Are you open to improving your coaching? You might not talk about it or consider it in this exact language, but this comes up for coaches all the time. Some coaches tend to make negative feedback mean something about themselves, but one of the secrets to amazing coaching is a willingness to always be improving.   Discover why feedback from your clients is never something you should avoid. I'm disc...

This month marks the two-year celebration of The Coach Lab, and to keep the good vibes going, I've got something a little different. I've interviewed some of my clients from The Coach Lab, and they're here to discuss what it's really like in there and the impact this container has had on their coaching skills.   Regina Sloan is a nurse and a general life coach for women. Jess Johnson is a courage...

We have some exciting things coming up on the podcast in March 2024. This marks the two-year anniversary of the launch of The Coach Lab, my foundational skills, lifetime access program for coaches where I dive deep into what it takes to actually run a coaching business day to day, and we're celebrating over here for the next month.   Go behind the scenes in The Coach Lab and discover what life is...

If you're a coach and your client has a bunch of different goals that aren't related to each other, how do you know where to start? Do you create a strategy so they can achieve their goals one by one, or can you set them off to tackle a few goals at a time? Of course, there are a few possible answers depending on your specific client and your preferences as the coach, but I'm going through all of...

I've built a free video series around the reality of not achieving our goals as coaches, showing you how to avoid making the same mistakes or catch yourself when you're getting stuck in the drama of missing your goal. I'm sharing part one of the video series right here on the podcast. This is all about either making mistakes and moving past them as quickly as possible or avoiding these mistakes al...

If you choose to coach for free, there are things you want to be aware of and decide ahead of time. This week, I'm discussing the two sides of offering complimentary coaching and what to take into consideration beforehand.   Discover some reasons why I think integrating free coaching into your practice can be beneficial for you. You'll learn how to craft a clear vision of what your free coaching c...

I see many clients struggle with flexibility in various ways. Some are too flexible, while others are the opposite and have a very strict program. If you think you need a perfectly organized system in your coaching business or sessions, let me tell you that humans don't always fit into such systems and things don't always go as planned.    Discover how to be a flexible coach and why that is a powe...

Too many coaches feel unsure of themselves when interrupting their clients. However, this is a skill you can learn, and although it takes some practice, learning when to interrupt your client is one of the secrets to communicating in a way that has the potential to change your clients' lives.   Discover when it's the right time to let your clients keep talking and why interrupting them might be a...

How do you deal with overwhelm and other negative feelings when you aren't getting the results you want? And how do you help your clients process their feelings when things aren't going their way? This is a vital coaching skill and, if this is something you need to work on, today's episode is for you.   Discover how to handle the overwhelm that inevitably comes up when we aren't hitting our goals....

I believe there is one skill that stands out above all the other skills and tools that you need as a coach, whether you're new or you've been around for a while, and whatever niche you're in: the ability to listen. This is a non-negotiable if you want to be an amazing coach.   Discover why listening is the most important skill you can have as a coach. I'm sharing what gets in the way of being a go...

Whatever your goals are, and no matter how you help your clients set and achieve their goals, there is always room to refine your process. If you feel like there's something getting in the way of you feeling amazing about your goals, today's episode is for you.   Discover some of the biggest goal-setting mistakes I see coaches making and how to avoid them. Learn how to set goals that are aligned a...

January is a time when most of us feel inspired and motivated to set new goals for the year. But this week, it's time to forget everything you thought you knew about goal-setting and dive into a radical new way to conceptualize goals, both for you and your clients.   Listen in this week to hear a treasure trove of ideas for revolutionizing the way you approach goals in 2024. I'm walking you throug...

Wrapping up your year with celebrations and acknowledging why celebration is important is a great way to close out 2023. I know it's easier to celebrate when you've had an amazing year, but even if you've had a tough time over the past 12 months and you haven't hit your goals, you shouldn't miss the opportunity to celebrate.   Find the things you need to celebrate this year, even if you haven't ac...

Your values are one of the most important things in your coaching and in your coaching business. Getting clear on your values is one of the very first things we do inside my certification because it sets the tone for everything moving forward. However, there may be a couple of things you're missing when it comes to deciding on your values.   Tune in this week to discover what values really are and...