Marry Me

Lessons on lessons learned from this year-long quest t0 find my husband. We're back for part 2 of the 12 lessons I learned in the past 12 months.  If you missed the part 1, go and check it out before you listen to this one. AH, I can't believe this is the penultimate episode of the whole podcast.  I'll save the goo-goo-gah-gah emotions for the next/final episode. Love you x Spoiler alert: Being si...

It's been one hell of a year, but we did it!  Like... it's actually done. AH! So, it's only right to take some time to reflect and review the biggest lessons that I've learnt from this past year!  12 lessons in 12 months. (This is part 1 where we're reviewing the first 6 lessons. Part 2 is next episode.) Spoiler alert: Adam Driver has taught me a lot.  Week 50 of 52, complete! Thanks for listening...

We're back at it again with OUR FINAL CARRIE BRADSHAW HATERATION EPISODE... I mean... Marry Me in the City episode. These are the episodes where we use the iconic Sex and the City TV show as a springboard to explore modern themes of love, sex, relationships, and dating. This week, we are joined by our recurring guest, Penelope, my lil sister, to discuss and rate three of Carrie's iconic relationsh...

AHHH!!! This is the last ever Marry Me Progress Report !!!!!!!!!!!!! Spoiler alert: I haven't found a husband.  Week 48 of 52, complete! Thanks for listening! x Host & Producer: Daisy Chakoo Original Music: Daisy Chakoo Instagram: @DaisyChakoo A Mantaa Media Production © Patreon- patreon.com/DaisyChakoo YouTube- https://youtube.com/@daisychakoo

This is basically live taping of me spiralling and unspiralling about whether or not I wanna be a Charlotte (become a mother and wife) or be a Samatha (live my life to the fullest without any expectations of becoming a mother or wife). This is definitely one of my most favourite episodes as it really captured this new era of life I am in... and it's all thanks to you... my virtual-parasocial-thera...

I was seeing someone and now I'm not. I tell you all about it and how it's led me to being a proud member of the Vasectomy Warrior Association (VWA). Spoiler alert: I'm actually alright.  Week 46 of 52, complete! Thanks for listening! x Host & Producer: Daisy Chakoo Original Music: Daisy Chakoo Instagram: @DaisyChakoo A Mantaa Media Production © Patreon- patreon.com/DaisyChakoo YouTube- https:...

I've had a sneaky suspicion for a while that I'm a secret tradwife... so today is the day we find out. In this episode, I take a TRADWIFE QUIZ (link below) to get to the bottom of this, once and for all. We then discuss what my expectations of being a wife are, for myself.  Spoiler alert: It's giving Lily van der Woodsen meets Sophia Amoruso. Week 45 of 52, complete! Thanks for listening! x Host &...

It's time for Marry Me: Progress Report, July edition!  This is our monthly series (first Wednesday of every month) where I'll be answering the same 10 questions to keep track of how the experiment is going.    If you haven't already, have a listen to the previous Progress Report episodes to keep up. Spoiler alert: If I like you, I'll wanna put my tongue in your ear... don't kink shame me, ok?  We...

I've been living a secret life, undercover, along the western coast of the Iberian Peninsula... But all of that is changing. And we hope for the better... please Baby Jesus.  Spoiler alert: Keir Starmer and I bout to go together, real bad. Week 43 of 52, complete! Thanks for listening! x Host & Producer: Daisy Chakoo Original Music: Daisy Chakoo Instagram: @DaisyChakoo A Mantaa Media Productio...

How mad is it that one day, I'll have my last ever "first date"... and maybe I already have? Hehe We talk about this as well as how my approach to first dates has changed over the years and my favourite first dates (I offer an honorary "first date" that got me all hot and flustered hehe).  Spoiler alert: Quarantine + Hatred + Red Wine = A night to remember. I highly recommend.  Week 42 of 52, comp...

urrrrrrrrggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh "MICHAEL PATRICK STAR", Prime Ministers of HBO, Magistrates Courts of Hollywood... how did we get here? It's not too late to stop this train before it falls off the cliff competely... just end the suffering, NOW! PLEASE! Marry Me in the City - These are the episodes where we use the iconic Sex and the City TV show as a springboard to explore modern themes of love, s...

It's time for Marry Me: Progress Report, June edition!  This is our monthly series (first Wednesday of every month) where I'll be answering the same 10 questions to keep track of how the experiment is going.    If you haven't already, have a listen to the previous Progress Report episodes to keep up. Spoiler alert: Ciara is a big inspiration in my life right now... #CiaraEra Week 40 of 52, complet...

Look... I just felt like celebrating the sunshine by revelling in other "people's" problems... I'm human and I'm trash sometimes, forgive me.  So... here's to another episode of MARRY ME THERAPY!  The episodes where I answer "your" dilemmas... shock horror, another podcast answering dilemmas. If you want to take part in this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, send your dilemmas to marrymepod@gmail.co...

Knock knock... Who's there? Eliza... Eliza who... Eliza Thornberry, back at it again with an episode in the wild. This time... in my favourite park... talking all things Black Love! As we mature, we're realising what matters more and more in a romantic partnership. Spoiler alert: Skepta.  Week 38 of 52, complete! Thanks for listening! x Host & Producer: Daisy Chakoo Original Music: Daisy Chako...

It's time for Marry Me: Progress Report, May edition!  This is our monthly series (first Wednesday of every month) where I'll be answering the same 10 questions to keep track of how the experiment is going.    If you haven't already, have a listen to the previous Progress Report episodes to keep up. Spoiler alert: He's gotta be Black!  Week 37 of 52, complete! Thanks for listening! x Host & Pr...

I'm sick. I'm sorry. I'll be back with you next week though. Pray for me... in tongues if you can. Thanking you in advance!  Spoiler alert: Stock up on your antihistamines and Loranzepang! Week 36 of 52, complete! Thanks for listening! x Host & Producer: Daisy Chakoo Original Music: Daisy Chakoo Instagram: @DaisyChakoo A Mantaa Media Production © Patreon- patreon.com/DaisyChakoo YouTube- https...

Are you finding it hard to juggle dating multiple people? Is it hard to remember who is the taurus and who is the pisces? Do you find it hard to manage your attachments to all your Feeld dates?  Well... I don't have the solution for you, soz, but let's chat and commiserate about it all.  Spoiler alert: Mnemonic devices are the way forward.  Week 35 of 52, complete! Thanks for listening! x Host &am...

This week we are talking all things SEGGS (I'm writing it the TikTok way cause... the algorithm?! lol) Should you get on the boat and experience the motion of the ocean while putting on lotion before locking it down? Do you believe in soul ties? Does it affect building a sturdy foundation?  We discuss all this and more in this episode. Spoiler alert: I'm the new appointed Chief Ambassador of Coitu...

Everyone's talking about women and men and bears in the woods so I thought I'd do the same but unpack what that means when you still wanna lay in a bed with a man at the end of the day. Like, is it safer to marry a bear or a man? Like, really?  Spoiler alert: The bear 🐻 no chef.  Week 33 of 52, complete! Thanks for listening! x Host & Producer: Daisy Chakoo Original Music: Daisy Chakoo Instag...

January, February and March were months in the year of our Lord 2025 and I dated and #GROWTHed and learned a lot in those months... so we discuss all of that in this episode... enjoyyyyy!  Spoiler alert: boring men are NOT my portion... ITNOJ!!! 🙏🏾 Week 32 of 52, complete! Thanks for listening! x Host & Producer: Daisy Chakoo Original Music: Daisy Chakoo Instagram: @DaisyChakoo A Mantaa Medi...

It's time for Marry Me: Progress Report, April edition!  This is our monthly series (first Wednesday of every month) where I'll be answering the same 10 questions to keep track of how the experiment is going.    If you haven't already, have a listen to the previous Progress Report episodes to keep up. Spoiler alert: Ovulation is not only a tool for procreation, it can also be an enemy of progress;...

Nicki said... "Let's go to the beach beach"... so I did! This episode was recorded live at the beach, while I had an out-of-body, existential, transcendental experience! Spoiler alert: I like the beach. Week 30 of 52, complete! Thanks for listening! x Host & Producer: Daisy Chakoo Original Music: Daisy Chakoo Instagram: @DaisyChakoo A Mantaa Media Production © Fisayo's blog entry- https://us15...

Want it to feel like spooky szn all year round? Well... be single lol. Here's part 2 to the dangers of being single. Spoiler alert: it's bad but it's not that bad after all.  Week 29 of 52, complete!  Thanks for listening! x Host & Producer: Daisy Chakoo  Original Music: Daisy Chakoo Instagram: @DaisyChakoo A Mantaa Media Production © Patreon- patreon.com/DaisyChakoo YouTube- https://youtube.c...

It's been scientifically proven* that being single is the absolute most dangerous thing any person can willingly be... especially when actively out here in these streets! So today we discuss the top things one should be aware of as a single pringle, ready to mingle! Get your notepad and pen ready cause I'm spitting gems... as a veteran and longtime survivor!  Part 2 out next week :)  *it hasn't Sp...

It's time for Marry Me: Progress Report, March edition!  This is our monthly series (first Wednesday of every month) where I'll be answering the same 10 questions to keep track of how the experiment is going.    If you haven't already, have a listen to the previous Progress Report episodes to keep up. Spoiler alert: I HAVE A HARRY GOLDENBLATT FETISH AND I'M NOT AFRAID TO SAY IT!  Week 27 of 52, co...