Marriage Unfiltered

We faced some trials and struggles over the break, but we also got attacked by some fear and worry. The Fields and The Carters will open up about what has come flying at us in terms of fear, trials, loss, and victory. Through it all, we share what God is teaching us in these times. Scriptures share in this episode: Psalms 37:23-24, Proverbs 6:9 We are going to do some research and will come back i...

The fourth week of Advent focuses on "Love". The ultimate display of Love is celebrated this time of year. We discuss the importance of God showing His love for us by sending His Son. 1 John 4:9, John 3:16, Ephesians 1:4-6, Galatians 4:5-7, Zephaniah 3:14-17 Lest we keep it too serious, we get a little nuts with some Christmas Music and Holiday Movie Scenes. You will soon want to forget Jeff and L...

Where do you look to find peace? What ultimately brings joy? He hope this episode helps point you to a peaceful Christmas full of the Joy of Christ. We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com Or on Instagram at Marriage_ Infiltered _Podcast We hope to hear from you!   Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with...

This week, we will begin a discussion about Advent. Weeks 1&2 will be about Faith and Hope. How are these two different? How are they the same? The Fields and the Carters will discuss what Hope and Faith have meant in their marriages. We also throw in some fun discussion about Christmas traditions, games, and plans. Join us next week when we wrap up this discussion. Scripture From This episode: He...

If you want to hear us talk about expectations from the first season, go back to season 1 ep. 4 Have you shared expectations and been disappointed? Have you failed to share expectations and just hoped your spouse would know? Whew...then we're not alone. And neither are you. We are here to prove there is no "arriving". We are not experts, we are just sharing our own struggles and the tools we use t...

When  you put your issues out there, you need to prepare for attacks from the enemy. Lisa shares a little about what has gone down since she shared her heart about healing and dealing with family. Bryan admits to some similar reactions when he goes to his family's house. We hope this episode shows you that you are not alone when it comes to pressure with your family. We may share some challenges w...

When we don't agree about something, we can quickly invalidate the other's feelings. Each of us discuss an event from the past week where we could have ended up in a very hurtful blowup. When we see our mate's feelings for what they are, we can choose to fight for their heart. We also dive into what family and holidays can do to add pressure to our relationship. We need to choose each other despit...

Where to even begin on this one... We hope you will go back and listen to any episodes you missed. Share any questions and feedback you have from any of the episodes. Ask Bryan for more tips about beard growth. Get Jeff to talk politics. All this and more at your fingertips...just ask. Hit us up at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com or Instagram @Marriage_ Unfiltered _podcast this podcast is not affilia...

This week we interview Zac and Kelley Hall. You don't want to miss their story. We share parenting woes, marriage struggles, loss, victory and healing. Join us as we talk about what it looks like to voice non-negotiables. What IF the threat is challenged. Some special bonus mommy tips from Kelley included. #momtrick We would love to hear your questions and topic suggestions.  email us marriageunfi...

Does "fake it till you make it" really work? What a debate we had on this one. What does that mean and can it change you? What it does "apple stapling" mean? You can't just replace the rotten apples and expect a healthy tree. All this and more as we challenge each other and especially Jeff.  "Apple Stapling" comes from "Marriage" a book by Paul David Tripp This concept is actually found in scriptu...

This felt a little like a venting session about how difficult parenting can be, but turns out we have a lot to learn from the challenges our kids face too. We have to experience the refining process to really learn and change. If our motives are to just make some surface change or behavior modification, lasting change doesn't really occur. What happens when we just try to do things on our own or o...

We are clearly not theologians. Listen in as we debate what Jesus did and didn't do out of anger, what type of anger is okay and when is anger a sin. We also debate how some types of worship can make us uncomfortable and the negatives about social media. Please let us know if you have comments about this debate. Instagram at  marriage_unfiltered_podcast. email at marriage unfiltered@yahoo.com Scri...

Join us on Instagram @ marriage_ unfiltered_ Podcast Email us: marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com Episodes we revisit S1 Ep.1 Who we are and Why Unfiltered S1 Ep. 9&10 Unfiltered Love Languages & Unfiltered Digger Deep Into Love Languages S1 Ep. 12 Unfiltered Love and Respect S1 Ep. 14 Unfiltered Forgiveness S1 Ep. 24 Unfiltered Selfless Love S1 Ep. 25 Unfiltered Accountablity S1 Ep. 27 Unfiltered Battl...

Eric and Teresa Villanueva have been married 22 years, but they almost called it 3 years ago. Their story of hope and restoration is one that will inspire any marriage that feels like there is no hope. Eric joined us before on the "bro-cast" aka "Unfiltered Warrior" episode 22 Books mentioned on this episode: "Wild at Heart" by John Eldredge, "Captivating" by Stasi and John Eldredge, "The Power of...

Why do we turn to control? Listen this week as Lisa and Alissa break down where the desire to turn to control comes from. Then where they have learned to go when they are being controlled by the lie of control. "Fallen Eve" is taken from the book "Captivating" by Stasi Elderedge "The Cost of Control" by Sharon Hodde Miller The Marriage Unfiltered Postcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowshi...

In our last episode, you hear all about the impact of broken trust in the Carter Marriage. This week, the Fields open up about knowing the real truth and how that helped them survive broken trust in their relationship.  Here are some scriptures that you can look up on the topic of Truth and Trust: The Belt of Truth as a part of the Armor of God: Ephesians 6:13-20 Trusting God: Proverbs 3:5, Philip...

Notes were basically thrown out the window for this one, but you will still want to pay close attention to what a powerful conversation this one is. Join us next week for part 2. We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com Or on Instagram at Marriage_ Infiltered _Podcast We hope to hear from you!   Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This...

email us at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com follow us at Marriage_Unfiltered_Podcast on Instagram Thank you to Paul Tripp Ministries for this list of what Love is according to what Christ asks of us. We hope you will be challenged and inspired. 1. Love is being willing to have your life complicated by the needs and struggles of your husband or wife without impatience or anger. 2. Love is actively fig...

We reconfigured our mic setup, so bare with us as we try to have a conversation without hitting the mounts. We talk about what we have been up to this summer and what we are planning for the fall. Kenedi's Cakes can be seen on instagram at kks_ bakery _ Other names we drop and products, shows or places we mention: Kalahari Resort Tour de France Hiit4fit HotWorx Orange Theory Orange Leaf Survivor A...

We don't really have resources for this episodes. Much of it, we just pulled it out of nowhere...big surprise. LOL!  We are taking the summer off. (we are not sure what that means), but take this time to re-listen to some you missed or some of your favorites.  Email or DM us with your story about the silly fights you have had, the redemption in your marriage, the things you have learned in marriag...

God has equipped us to battle against the evil in this world. He has given us an armor, which includes the sword of the Spirit. This is God's Word. We used our "sword" this week by using all of the following scriptures: Ezekiel 28:12-19, Revelations 12:7-12, Revelations 12:4, 1 Peter 5:8, Daniel 10, Job, Ephesians 6:10-13, James 1:5, Matthew 6:5, James 1:2  Here is a prayer you can use to start ea...

All the wrong songs: We looked and found the actual songs we were trying to sing. Money..."its a gas"  Money by Pink Floyd played on Dave Ramsey  Sunny by Bonnie M Blinded by the light..."Revved up like a deuce" Blinded by the light by Manfred Mann's Earth Band Resources: John Eldredge Podcast Paul David Tripp Get out of Debt Statistics from Renolon.com Scripture: Ephesians 4:28, Luke 14:25, Malac...

The Good Girls Guide to Great Sex by Sheila Wray Gregoire The Good Guys Guide to Great Sex by Keith Ronald Gregoire and Sheila Wray Gregoire     This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com Or on Instagram at Marriage_ Infiltered _Podcast We hope to hear from you!   Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carter...

This week, we will get really raw about the little decisions that make our marriage rich and worth fighting for. We will also talk about the decisions that slowly deteriorate and eat away at our marriage. Books:  Marriage by Paul David Tripp Love Like That by Les Perrott Love and War by John and Stasi Eldredge. What Did You Expect by Paul David Tripp What decisions can you be in charge of today?  ...

We will dig into why Divorce is so painful. We will also talk about the way it has been talked about and handled among Christ followers. Can you get a divorce and still go to Heaven? Can you be remarried and still be used to further God's Kingdom. We take a stab at using scripture to answer these questions. We also talk about when you SHOULD at least separate. And, when you have no control over yo...