Marriage Puzzle

Love isn't just a feeling — it's a daily choice. In this episode, we continue our series on Paul David Tripp's "Marriage: 6 Gospel Commitments," unpacking Commitment 4: giving yourselves to a lifestyle of love. We cover the danger of keeping score in marriage, and simple daily habits that build real, lasting love. Practical, faith-based marriage advice for real couples. Chris...

Unity in marriage isn't automatic — it's a daily commitment. In this episode, we continue our series on Paul David Tripp's book Marriage , unpacking Commitment #3: building a marriage of unity. We talk about why proximity doesn't equal unity, how the word "why" quietly creates defensiveness in conflict, and what phone passwords and bank accounts reveal about trust. Get a...

We're back with Commitment #2 from Paul David Tripp's Marriage: 6 Gospel Commitments Every Couple Needs to Make — making your marriage's growth a daily commitment. We talk weekly marriage check-ins, love languages, and the 4 types of connection every couple needs. Get a copy of the book at: ⁠https://www.marriagepuzzle.com/books⁠ Follow the podcast and share this one with a married frie...

Marriage doesn't expose your spouse — it exposes you. We kick off a new series through Paul David Tripp's book Marriage: 6 Gospel Commitments Every Couple Needs to Make , starting with Commitment #1: a lifestyle of confession and forgiveness. We unpack why "I'm sorry, but..." isn't a real apology, why sex should never substitute for reconciliation, and why forgiveness is a decision, not a feeling....

Healthy communication is such an integral part of marriage. In this episode, we break down some differences between healthy and unhealthy communication. Practical, honest, and rooted in scripture — real tools for healthy marriage communication. Follow the podcast and share this one with a married friend who needs to hear it. Facebook: ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Inst...

We're answering your real marriage money questions: how to value a stay-at-home spouse's contribution, whether you need "permission" to spend money you earned, and what to do when your wife makes more than you. Plus, the life insurance number most one-income families never think to calculate. Honest, practical, faith-filled money talk for married couples. Follow the podcast and s...

In this episode, we dig into one of the most common (and most avoidable) wedges in marriage: finances. If money has ever been a source of tension in your marriage, this episode is for you — and your spouse. Follow the podcast and share this one with a married friend who needs to hear it. Facebook: ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/m...

Our 7-year-old daughter taught us more about forgiveness in one bedtime meltdown than any marriage book ever has. In this episode, we unpack the difference between apologizing and forgiving, why pride turns "I'm sorry" into a standoff, and how to set a boundary without creating conditional forgiveness. If this episode helped you, share it with another couple and be sure to follow Mar...

In episode 106, the second installment of our Q&A series on pornography and solo intimacy, we dig into some of the toughest questions couples wrestle with but rarely say out loud. Does adult content quietly reshape what we expect from sex with our spouse — and can it chip away at attraction over time? Is pornography a bridge that draws a couple closer, or a wall that keeps them apart? And when...

Is watching pornography cheating, a harmless outlet, or a destructive addiction? In this episode, we tackle one of the most polarizing topics in marriage: solo intimacy vs. shared intimacy, and what happens when one spouse initiates and the other rejects. We ask (and debate) the hard questions: Is it healthy to choose solo satisfaction over your spouse when you're in the mood? Does one spouse&...

When your spouse gets home after work, what do they need most: connection or space? One of the most common marriage conflicts doesn't happen during a major disagreement—it happens during the first few minutes after one spouse walks through the door. In episode 104 of the Marriage Puzzle podcast, we're discussing attachment styles, emotional needs, and why some people recharge through conne...

Episode 103 of The Marriage Puzzle Podcast The way you talk about your spouse might be strengthening your marriage—or slowly tearing it apart. In this episode, we discuss why speaking positively about your spouse is one of the most powerful ways to build a stronger marriage. The words we speak don't just affect our spouse—they shape the way we see them. When we constantly focus on flaws, frust...

Colossians 4:6 (NIV) "Let your conversation be always full of grace..." Episode 102 of The Marriage Puzzle Podcast Last week, we challenged couples to sit down and ask three simple questions: • What feels heavy right now? • What can I take off your plate? • What responsibilities need to be redistributed? This week, we did our homework. During our weekly marriage check-in, we had a conver...

Episode 101 of The Marriage Puzzle Podcast Have you ever looked at your spouse and thought, "How do they not see everything I'm carrying?" Many couples don't argue because one person is doing nothing. They argue because one person feels unseen. In this episode, we discuss the invisible load in marriage—the mental, emotional, and organizational responsibilities that often go unnot...

Have you ever heard someone refer to a coworker as their "work wife" or "work husband"? Many people see work spouses as harmless workplace friendships, but could these relationships be creating emotional distance in a marriage? In episode 100 we discuss the growing trend of "work spouses", how emotional affairs often begin, warning signs couples should watch for, and...

After an 18-month break, we’re finally back behind the microphones. In this episode, we open up about the season that pulled us away from the podcast, the challenges our family has been navigating, and what life has looked like behind the scenes during our time away. We also share the weekly and monthly marriage rhythms that have helped us stay connected through busy, stressful, and unpredictable...

In this episode, we explore the final chapter of From This Day Forward by Craig and Amy Groeschel, titled Never Give Up. Marriage is a commitment that requires perseverance, especially when times get tough. We discuss practical ways to stay committed, navigate challenges, and build a relationship that stands the test of time. Whether you’re facing struggles or simply looking to strengthen your bon...

💍 Can you truly protect your marriage from infidelity? In this episode, we explore practical ways to safeguard your relationship emotionally and physically, inspired by Chapter 4, Stay Pure, from Craig Groeschel's book From This Day Forward. We’ll share actionable tips to help you: - Set boundaries that build trust. - Avoid emotional and physical temptations. - Stay connected with your spouse dai...

In this episode, we explore how to keep the spark alive by having fun together. Inspired by Craig Groeschel’s From This Day Forward, we share simple ways to bring more laughter and joy into your marriage. Facebook: ⁠ ⁠https://www.facebook.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriage.puzzle⁠ ⁠ Youtube: ⁠https://www.youtube...

We are reading the book: From This Day Forward by Craig & Amy Groschel. In this episode we're talking about tips we learned from the second chapter. Check out the video from our friends Jonathan & Kim Portillo regarding their upcoming mission trip to South AfricaCheck out the To Be Men Podcast by my friend JonathanDo you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lac...

We are reading the book: From This Day Forward by Craig & Amy Groschel. In this episode we're talking about tips we learned from the first chapter. Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it comes to finances? Schedule a Discovery Call with Juli &am...

In this episode we are talking about 3 things we would go back and tell ourselves as newlyweds. Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it comes to finances? Schedule a Discovery Call with Juli & Thomas to learn how to solve the complex marriage puz...

In this episode, we dive into the stories of Joseph and Potiphar’s wife from Genesis 39 and David and Bathsheba from 2 Samuel 11. Drawing from the insights of Bob Reccord’s Beneath The Surface, we explore how these two biblical figures handled temptation differently and the lasting impact on their lives. Discover practical lessons on guarding your thoughts, actions, and emotions to protect your re...

In this episode, we dive into how social media can shape your marriage, highlighting both its benefits and challenges. Tune in for practical strategies to use social media in a way that strengthens your relationship and fosters deeper connection. Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a dif...

We're giving you 6 questions to spark conversation with your spouse around the topic of sex in your marriage. Subscribe to the podcast to make sure you're notified when a new episode is released. Make sure you check us out on social media too. Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a differ...