Marriage Isn't Dead

If you have been around the past two decades, you know the internet is both a good thing AND a bad thing.  Anything negative has a tendency to be amplified online.  Why is that?  I’ve gone down certain rabbit holes and seen some of the dark corners where trouble lurks.  Groupthink can be a huge issue if you aren’t aware of it.  In this episode, I explain the main issue and how to avoid common pitf...

Men are simple creatures for the most part when it comes to Father’s Day.  Mother’s Day is a huge day for women, but men generally don’t feel the same way regarding Father’s Day.  I go over a few simple things you can do to make Father’s Day special for your man.  Men, I give you a few ideas to tell your woman you would like as well.   For more info visit:  ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marr...

Everyone entering a marriage has a goal of spending the rest of your life with someone.  Most people don't know what that looks like or how to get there.  Forget about the stats, surveys, and data for a few minutes.  Listen to a story of what I witnessed in my exam room not long ago… For more info visit:  ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instag...

88% of millionaires are self made.  75% of those people are entrepreneurs who own their businesses.  The vast majority of the other 25% are professionals like docs, lawyers, and CPAs.   So… what makes a successful person successful?  There are THREE common traits in millionaires.  I dive into the three P’s of success in this episode.  Every successful person I’ve ever known had all three P’s.  ANY...

Marriage statistics from 2022 were released recently. Those stats show an UPTICK in marriages from 2020 to 2022. Two million marriages occurred in 2022, which is the highest number since 2019. Does that mean marriage is making a comeback? Maybe... maybe not. I go over the stats and dive into the what, how, and why. Here's the article I referenced: https://www.usatoday.com/story/life/2024/03/18...

Nothing is more powerful than new relationship energy.  Most people think it goes away forever after a few years.  I disagree.  You can get a taste of new relationship energy when you GET OUT OF TOWN for a weekend!  I go over why, where, when, and how you pull off a great weekend away in this episode.   Maintaining a marriage can be difficult, but regular weekends away is a very powerful tool to k...

Mother’s Day is HUGE for women.  I go over a few tips and suggestions for any dude to pull off the best Mother’s Day ever for any woman.  Whether she enjoys services or gifts, I cover plenty of ideas to get the job done.  Enjoy and don’t forget to Subscribe and follow! For more info visit:  ⁠ https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram:  ⁠https://www...

I’ve seen numerous dating coaches, therapists, and red pill women talking about what men really want from a woman.  As a dude myself, you can boil it down to three simple things that start with the letter “S.”  This episode explores each of those characteristics in detail.  I meant this as a fun episode, but it rings true.   If you get offended easily, this episode is not for you.  Enjoy and don’t...

A story about Pablo Picasso is making the rounds on social media.  It's a great story and illustration about the value of self-worth.  If you have a skill and knowledge of something very few people offer and people need, you should do well financially!   I struggled with this concept early in my career as a medical professional.  I grew up very with very little and I felt bad about charging a...

In this episode, I describe a simple system I've used in coaching to liven up hundreds of bedrooms. This system works well for couples who still have a sex life, but it is dull and less frequent. This episode is filled with plenty of tips to take your sex life to places you've wanted to go but were too afraid to ask. Long-term relationships and marriage are THE places to explore your bedroom. Sex...

Conflict is inevitable in relationships.  The main difference between happy couples and troubled relationships is how they deal with those conflicts.  In this episode, I share a fun story that happened between my wife and I this weekend.  We are a pretty solid team, but we aren’t perfect. Listen up to hear how we dealt with a stressful situation and came out even better than we were before. This c...

In this episode, I go over 8 stages of marriage starting with Engagement.  Expect to hear about each stage, the common pitfalls and problems associated with each stage, and some remedies to make it easier for you to achieve marital happiness.  Most people only see the pitfalls AFTER they occur.  If you know the pitfalls before they happen, it will dramatically increase your chances of having a suc...

Ladies, no decision is more important than the man you choose as your partner in life. High quality men are out there in big numbers so how do you find them? Most relationship material will talk about red flags. In this episode, I will give you FIVE specific green flags to look for in a high quality men and how to test for those green flags. Don’t listen to those who say good men don’t exist. They...

I grew up with little to no material wealth in a humble environment. As an adult, I've done well financially and I've noticed a common phenomenon when it comes to materialistic things. When you purchase something nice like a home or really nice car, the novelty (shiny) has a tendency to wear off over time. It's great to have nice things and be successful, but it only makes you more com...

Men, no decision is more important than the woman you choose as your partner in life.  High quality women are out there in big numbers so how do you find them?  Most relationship material will talk about red flags.  In this episode, I will give you FIVE specific green flags to look for in a high quality woman and how to test for those green flags.  Don’t listen to those who say good women don’t ex...

Every relationship has three distinct stages. Understanding each stage can shed light on your past and present relationships. The last stage in particular is critical for happy long-term relationships to function. This episode can help explain possible problems you might be experiencing. For more info visit:  ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instag...

Anniversaries don't have to be extravagant to be effective. Scott goes over simple ways to make a big date memorable. Anniversaries are meant to be celebrated, but you can make common mistakes by being predictable and boring. Takeaways of this episode: -Anniversaries, both wedding and dating, are important to remember and celebrate in a relationship. -The KISS philosophy (Keep It Simple, Stupi...

Prenups are a divisive topic when it comes to modern marriage. When are prenups warranted and when can they be detrimental? If you are looking to get married or you are thinking about getting remarried, I give you some important things to think about in this episode! For more info visit:  ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram:  ⁠https://www.in...

The Manosphere. The Red Pill. MGTOW. Incels. All of these groups have hijacked male-improvement and are putting out a negative vibe regarding healthy masculinity and marriage. They aren't all bad, but I sift through the BS and give you a positive plan of action toward a better life as a man in this episode. For more info visit:  ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all p...

Fellas, do you have a dead bedroom or a stale bedroom?  Do you want to have a better sex life with your wife/girlfriend?  Many times, the lack of sex is caused by poor initiation techniques or bad timing.  Novelty is key to keeping your bedroom fun and hot!  In this episode, I go over 10 different initiation ideas you can do to adjust how you approach your woman sexually. For more info visit:  ⁠ht...

Fellas, do you have a dead bedroom or a stale bedroom?  Do you want to have a better sex life with your wife/girlfriend?  Many times, the lack of sex is caused by poor initiation techniques or bad timing.  In this episode, I go over a few things you can do to adjust how you approach your woman. For more info visit:  ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms!...

Going back to the gym, losing weight, updating your style, and generally feeling better about yourself is powerful, but it can lead to problems in your life. I discuss five common pitfalls I've seen while coaching people over the years. I also discuss how to side step these potential problems in an effort to maintain positive momentum in your life! For more info visit:  ⁠https://www.marriageis...

In this episode, I discuss the difference between assertive communication and being an asshole. I explain the spectrum of communication styles ranging from passive to aggressive, with assertiveness being the ideal balance of both. I highlight the characteristics of passive, aggressive, and assertive individuals, emphasizing the importance of boundaries, empathy, and integrity. I also address the i...

In this episode, I discuss the inevitability of screw-ups in relationships and how managing them can make or break a relationship. I talk about the importance of dealing with conflict and provide advice on managing them effectively. I also explore a few differences between men and women and how understanding these differences can lead to better communication. I also introduce the concept of the go...

Do you have trouble with Valentine’s Day gifts or gifts for any holiday for that matter?  Homemade gifts are a foolproof way to make just about any woman swoon.  If you lack the creativity or you are looking for something fresh to show you care about your woman, this episode is for you fellas!  I give you a list of ideas to choose from and the tools to make it happen with minimal time investment,...