Marriage Isn't Dead

In this episode, I explore the ongoing debate between the appeal of a 'dad bod' versus a 'six pack.' I share my personal fitness journey, emphasizing the importance of confidence over physical appearance. I discuss the balance between maintaining health and avoiding obsession with fitness. Chapters 00:00 Dad Bod vs. Six Pack Debate 02:43 Personal Fitness Journey 04:38 Confidence Over Physical Appe...

I discuss the financial implications of weddings in the modern age heavily influenced by social media. Wedding costs are at an all time high with extravagant expenses. I offer practical advice on how to save money on a wedding while maintaining elegance with some cost-effective alternatives. I share personal experiences and insights on how a more modest wedding can lead to better financial stabili...

It’s a common misconception that happiness is tied to future milestones like paying off debt etc. I share personal experiences and insights, emphasizing the importance of living in the moment and finding joy in the journey rather than fixating on future goals. I discuss the significance of setting short-term goals, the illusion of fulfillment upon achieving long-term aspirations, and the necessity...

I have heard “Don’t go to sleep on an argument” many times. It’s not good advice. This episode gives you five different reasons why it’s bad advice. While quick resolution of arguments in relationships is very important, challenges posed by sleep deprivation can make things worse. I share personal experiences and insights on how being tired can escalate conflicts and hinder effective communication...

I discuss the intricate relationship between libido, stress, and personal well-being. I share my personal journey through struggles with depression and how I found a path to recovery. I emphasize the importance of managing stress and anxiety, boosting self-confidence, and maintaining a positive and fun atmosphere in relationships to enhance intimacy and connection. _____________________________ Wh...

In this episode, I share my personal insights of the joys of our 20 year marriage.  I highlight ten different reasons why I love being married after two decades. I emphasize the importance of shared experiences, family dynamics, financial stability, teamwork, intimacy, and unconditional support in a marriage. My aim is to inspire others to appreciate the beauty of committed relationships and offer...

I discuss the essential steps to forming a business, including choosing the right structure, selecting a business name, filing for registration, opening a bank account, and managing finances. I emphasize the importance of legal compliance and financial tracking to ensure the success and legitimacy of a business. I share my personal experiences and insights on the freedom that comes with business o...

In this episode, I share my personal experience with Homeowners Associations (HOAs), discussing both the positive and negative aspects. I summarize my own neighborhood's dynamics, particularly regarding conflicts that arise from differing perspectives on property use. Particularly, my son's motorcycle activities. I emphasize the challenges of HOA governance, the frustrations of indirect complaints...

I discuss the significant impact of taking things personally in both  your personal and professional life. I share a few personal examples of how taking things personally can effect your life. I emphasize the importance of emotional regulation and understanding that others' actions often reflect their own issues rather than being a personal attack. I provide actionable strategies for maintaini...

I discuss the profound impact of fatherhood and the importance of engaging with children. Being a good father involves including children in activities YOU enjoy, your kids may or may not like the same thing. I share personal stories about my father and how they apply to my own children. I give you tips on engaging with sons and daughters, highlighting the significance of spending quality time tog...

“Men aren’t men anymore” is something you hear often. Masculinity coaches have sprung up all over the internet. WHY? Societal changes over the last century have contributed to insecurity among men, due to the absence of ONE thing. In this episode, I go over why masculinity has suffered and what you can do to find positive role models to foster personal growth and confidence. ______________________...

Scottie G discusses the evolution of dating apps, emphasizing their role as meeting platforms rather than just dating tools. He highlights the importance of valuing one's time, making oneself more attractive, and transitioning from online interactions to face-to-face meetings. Scott provides practical advice on improving dating profiles and the significance of personal presentation in the onli...

Scottie G discusses the importance of developing a positive mindset in the face of adversity. He shares personal experiences of a challenging week and emphasizes that it's okay to have bad days. Scott highlights the need to appreciate the bad times in order to truly appreciate the good ones. He encourages listeners to reset their mindset and focus on having more good times than bad and HOW to...

Family is everything in the end. Scottie G goes over a heartwarming true story about his grandmother and daughter to illustrate the importance of keeping in contact with your roots. Extended family is important especially when it comes to raising your kids. The 21st Century has changed families dramatically but that doesn't mean you have to abandon traditions. This story is a testament to trad...

Scottie G discusses the issue of grifters in the relationship and self-help sphere, cautioning viewers to be careful about the information they consume. He advises finding mentors in real life who are happy and successful, rather than relying solely on online gurus. Scott shares his own background and experiences, offering guidance to viewers and emphasizing his desire for them to achieve life-lon...

Scottie G addresses the importance of having an abundance mindset and avoiding a victim mentality. One simple sentence can help with this mindset. He emphasizes that successful people are open-minded, flexible, and learn from others. He challenges the notion that society is crumbling and highlights the advancements and conveniences of modern life. Scott encourages listeners to focus on what they c...

Scottie G addresses the misconception that professional women are not good wife material. He shares his personal experience as a professional man married to a professional woman and emphasizes the importance of intelligence and compatibility in a spouse. Scott also highlights that professional women can be feminine and successful at the same time. He encourages listeners to be cautious of the advi...

Tinder is a polarizing and popular dating app with 400 million downloads worldwide. It is the most popular app among ages 18 to 34. Men match with only 0.6% of their swipes, while women match with 10% of their swipes. Why is that? Dating apps like Tinder are here to stay and can be used as a supplement to traditional methods of meeting people. Listen up for a different, and positive spin on dating...

Gen Z seems to have trouble with dating because they don't know HOW to date. The fear of rejection is a major obstacle for men when approaching women. Scottie G goes over a great way to approach people in an effort to start a dialog. Successful guys understand that rejection is part of life and they accept it. This episode is an attempt to help you find romantic success! ______________________...

In this episode, Scottie G discusses the negative impact of consuming news and how it can contribute to stress. He shares his personal experience of overcoming news addiction and the positive effects it had on his mental well-being. Scott emphasizes the biased and sensationalized nature of news media and encourages listeners to turn off the news to reduce stress. Replacing news consumption with se...

In this episode, Scottie goes over an excellent question in the Marriage Isn’t Dead private group.  “Keeping score” in a marriage or any relationship is when people think they do more than their partner.  Obviously this has the potential to cause issues.  MANY relationships have ended due to this issue.  Join Scottie as he discusses strategies to eliminate the competition within your relationship...

Description: Everywhere you turn, you hear about how men and women aren’t getting married anymore.  My comments section is littered with men who are totally discouraged with marriage.  So… why do many MEN stay out of the marriage game now?   In this episode, I dive into five BIG reasons why men stay single.  There are many others, but these are the five biggest I’ve seen in coaching and my day to...

Everywhere you turn, you hear about how men and women aren’t getting married anymore.  Maybe the marriage rates are lower, but that doesn’t mean people aren’t getting married anymore.  Four million people get married annually in the US alone. In this episode, I dive into five BIG reasons men get married.  There are many others, but these are the five biggest when you look at the data.  Check it ou...

Description: If you are miserable at work, it will make your life miserable.  Many clients I talk to are unhappy with their work.  I go over a few examples of situations I’ve been through and then give you plenty of tips to get control of your professional life! For more info visit:  ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram:  ⁠https://www.instagr...

Over the course of my life, being happily married for two decades, and my relationship coaching experience, I’ve recognized a single trait common in the happiest couples.  Join me in this episode as I describe this common trait and how you can learn the same skill. For more info visit:  ⁠https://www.marriageisntdead.com⁠ “Marriage Isn’t Dead” on all podcast platforms! Instagram:  ⁠https://www.inst...