Bryan Hooks , Paul Sargent

Marriage Is Tougher Than Woodpecker Lips

We want to create a community where men can share and learn from each other about marriage. We all know we can be better but how do we do that? Our thought on the matter is this: By sharing our experiences and asking questions we can create discussions to find the answers we need. Listen in while we interview men from around the world. Anywhere from engaged all the way to widowed, we can explore everything marriage has to offer. We can't wait to hear from you!

Author

Bryan Hooks , Paul Sargent

Category

Education

Podcast website

www.marriageistougher.com

Latest episode

May 5, 2026

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Episodes

Life Changes 05.05.2026

Most men don’t realize how a major life change can silently threaten the foundation of their marriage — unless they understand the unseen dynamics at play. Bryan Hooks shares a raw, honest look at his own decision to stop drinking, revealing how such a personal shift impacts him and his relationship in unexpected ways. In this episode, Bryan and Paul dissect the emotional rollercoaster that comes...

Marriage Foundations 24.02.2026

In this episode, Bryan and Paul discuss the importance of establishing a strong foundation in marriage. They explore how self-reflection, communication, and shared values contribute to a successful partnership. The conversation emphasizes the need for couples to identify what their marriage is built on, the role of healing from past experiences, and the significance of having open discussions abou...

She's Not The Problem 13.01.2026

Summary In this episode of The Marriage is Tougher Than Woodpecker Lips podcast, hosts Bryan Hooks and Paul Sargent discuss the complexities of communication in marriage. They emphasize the importance of shifting blame to problem-solving, understanding feelings, and adapting communication styles. The conversation explores the idea of reviewing past interactions, akin to 'game film' in sp...

Why Stay Married? 06.01.2026

Summary In this episode of The Marriage is Tougher Than Woodpecker Lips podcast, hosts Bryan Hooks and Paul Sargent explore the reasons behind staying married. They discuss the importance of commitment, the weight of responsibility, and the challenges that come with marriage. The conversation emphasizes love as a choice, the significance of self-love, and the impact of marriage on children. The ho...

Surprise Gift Tips 23.12.2025

In this episode of The Marriage is Tougher Than Woodpecker Lips podcast, hosts Bryan Hooks and Paul Sargent discuss the intricacies of planning surprise gifts for their spouses, particularly focusing on the importance of communication, involvement, and creating memorable experiences. They share personal anecdotes about their own experiences with surprise trips and the dynamics of family involvemen...

Husbandly Insecurities 16.12.2025

n this episode of 'The Marriage is Tougher Than Woodpecker Lips' podcast, hosts Bryan Hooks and Paul Sargent delve into the topic of husbandly insecurities. They discuss personal experiences and perspectives on how insecurities manifest in marriage, particularly focusing on financial provision and relational dynamics. The conversation highlights the importance of communication, understan...

Seeking Discipleship, Seeking Relationship, Seeking Community 09.12.2025

We hope you enjoy! Please reach out to us at: marriageistougher.com facebook.com/MarriageIsTougher instagram.com/marriageistougher/ Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideas Don't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!! This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands! Thank You, Bryan and Paul

TABLE THE CONVERSATION 18.11.2025

Join Bryan and Paul in this episode of "The Marriage is Tougher Than Woodpecker Lips" as they delve into the art of tabling conversations in marriage. Discover strategies for stepping away from heated discussions and effectively returning to the table with respect and an open mind. Whether you're a seasoned listener or new to the community, this episode offers valuable insights into...

The Path Of A Prayer Answered 28.10.2025

We hope you enjoy! Please reach out to us at: marriageistougher.com facebook.com/MarriageIsTougher instagram.com/marriageistougher/ Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideas Don't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!! This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands! Thank You, Bryan and Paul

Lessons Were Learned w/ Paul Montalvo 30.09.2025

We hope you enjoy! Please reach out to us at: marriageistougher.com facebook.com/MarriageIsTougher instagram.com/marriageistougher/ Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideas Don't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!! This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands! Thank You, Bryan and Paul

Doing The Best I Can, But Are You Really? 18.09.2025

We hope you enjoy! Please reach out to us at: marriageistougher.com facebook.com/MarriageIsTougher instagram.com/marriageistougher/ Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideas Don't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!! This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands! Thank You, Bryan and Paul

Praying For Your Wife 02.09.2025

We hope you enjoy! Please reach out to us at: marriageistougher.com facebook.com/MarriageIsTougher instagram.com/marriageistougher/ Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideas Don't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!! This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands! Thank You, Bryan and Paul

Don't Quit On Marriage 26.08.2025

We hope you enjoy! Please reach out to us at: marriageistougher.com facebook.com/MarriageIsTougher instagram.com/marriageistougher/ Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideas Don't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!! This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands! Thank You, Bryan and Paul

What Are You Committing To Ahead Of Your Vision? 12.08.2025

We hope you enjoy! Please reach out to us at: marriageistougher.com facebook.com/MarriageIsTougher instagram.com/marriageistougher/ Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideas Don't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!! This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands! Thank You, Bryan and Paul

Complimentary Friendships 05.08.2025

We hope you enjoy! Please reach out to us at: marriageistougher.com facebook.com/MarriageIsTougher instagram.com/marriageistougher/ Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideas Don't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!! This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands! Thank You, Bryan and Paul

"I'm Fine" What Does It Really Mean 30.07.2025

We hope you enjoy! Please reach out to us at: marriageistougher.com facebook.com/MarriageIsTougher instagram.com/marriageistougher/ Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideas Don't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!! This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands! Thank You, Bryan and Paul

Leadership Styles 15.07.2025

We hope you enjoy! Please reach out to us at: marriageistougher.com facebook.com/MarriageIsTougher instagram.com/marriageistougher/ Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideas Don't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!! This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands! Thank You, Bryan and Paul

How Was Father's Day Really? 01.07.2025

We hope you enjoy! Please reach out to us at: marriageistougher.com facebook.com/MarriageIsTougher instagram.com/marriageistougher/ Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideas Don't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!! This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands! Thank You, Bryan and Paul

What Do Father's Want For Father's Day? 17.06.2025

We hope you enjoy! Please reach out to us at: marriageistougher.com facebook.com/MarriageIsTougher instagram.com/marriageistougher/ Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideas Don't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!! This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands! Thank You, Bryan and Paul

Implementation 03.06.2025

We hope you enjoy! Please reach out to us at: marriageistougher.com facebook.com/MarriageIsTougher instagram.com/marriageistougher/ Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideas Don't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!! This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands! Thank You, Bryan and Paul

20 Years, Then Divorce?? 27.05.2025

We hope you enjoy! Please reach out to us at: marriageistougher.com facebook.com/MarriageIsTougher instagram.com/marriageistougher/ Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideas Don't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!! This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands! Thank You, Bryan and Paul

Self Reflection 20.05.2025

We hope you enjoy! Please reach out to us at: marriageistougher.com facebook.com/MarriageIsTougher instagram.com/marriageistougher/ Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideas Don't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!! This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands! Thank You, Bryan and Paul

The Things Left Unsaid 06.05.2025

We hope you enjoy! Please reach out to us at: marriageistougher.com facebook.com/MarriageIsTougher instagram.com/marriageistougher/ Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideas Don't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!! This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands! Thank You, Bryan and Paul

Should We Agree On Everything? 29.04.2025

We hope you enjoy! Please reach out to us at: marriageistougher.com facebook.com/MarriageIsTougher instagram.com/marriageistougher/ Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideas Don't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!! This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands! Thank You, Bryan and Paul

The Dad Bod Dilemma 22.04.2025

We hope you enjoy! Please reach out to us at: marriageistougher.com facebook.com/MarriageIsTougher instagram.com/marriageistougher/ Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideas Don't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!! This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands! Thank You, Bryan and Paul

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