Man Alive

Sexual energy is powerful but can also wreak havoc when it is unconsciously expressed. Many men mistake containment for suppression, which leaves them feeling dull and powerless. Cultivating the capacity to contain your energy allows for more choice, power and intimacy!

Many men are confused when asked to feel their heart! What does that mean and how can you actually do it? This week's guest, Bryan Reeves, is your perfect guide!

Men who identify as "Nice Guys" don't have to live with their desires at arm's length. If you're stuck in Nice Guy patterns, there is hope! In fact, Nice Guys are my favorite, because they have an incredible foundation of care and love. When balanced with sensuality and presence, it is the perfect recipe for personal fulfillment and attracting great women. 

This episode is my response to a client who recently asked how to still be seen as powerful and masculine as he shared his emotions.

When we learn to shift the ways we self-sabotage, in our love and business lives, we can reach new levels of success, personal satisfaction and impact! Today's guest has gone to the depths of his own psyche and soul to bring you tools to empower yourself.

Performance anxiety is common for most men, but it can be a thing of the past. Today's guest helps men overcome this anxiety by teaching tools for men to become better lovers and have more pleasure themselves in the process. 

When you integrate your heart into your sex life, not only does it go from what can feel like "fast food sex" to "gourmet sex," it also becomes connected, healing and transformative. Today's Man Alive podcast guest talks about bringing depth into sex and sensuality.

If you are a heterosexual man who does not understand female arousal, your sex life will not improve and your relationships will suffer. Today's guest is the author of  She Comes First:  The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman . Learn what it takes to have more pleasure and connection in your sex life.

Disappointment in one's love life is a common experience these days. Divorce rates are high and many people are attempting to figure out where we've gone wrong - culturally and personally. Today's guest has supported clients to heal their love lives and create healthy relationships for over 30 years.

Though most of us start out with the deck stacked against us in how we are taught to mentally and emotionally approach life, we can unfuck our approach to life and set ourselves free to live healthier and happier.

We can unconsciously add stress to our lives with the stories we tell ourselves about our experiences. While this realization can be painful, it is also a doorway to incredible amounts of freedom and possibility. Today's podcast guest  co-wrote a documentary film entitled: "Is Your Story Making You Sick?" We discussed the potential for relief from pain and stress. 

The concept of masculine/feminine dynamics in relationships can be viewed through overly simplistic lenses. Today's guest goes deep into the nature of humanity to illuminate the benefits of both masculine and the feminine, and how balancing them can bring us together in healthier, more authentic ways. 

Sadly, the average orgasm lasts between 10 and 51 seconds. You are not limited to this quick burst of pleasure though! You could orgasm for hours, and experience a heightened state of pleasure. Find out more as we talk about what orgasm actually is. 

How does sex become great? In Shana's new book, Honest Sex, she counters the common misperception that we are  outgrowing marriage and long term relationships by bringing an issue she has found with her clients and her own relationships -- many of us have not matured enough to create the emotionally-connected, sexually-satisfying relationships we long for. Honest sex is a pathway to deepen connect...

Intimacy can be scary, as it relies on being vulnerable. It can also be confusing if we don't know how to let down our guard or create the safety needed to reveal our tender parts. But without intimacy, relationships fade and spark fizzles. Zoë Kors has created a map to intimacy that any person can follow and everyone benefit from. Whether you are just discovering intimacy or want to go as deep as...

Being honest about who you are is one of the foundations of  a relationship that strengthens and deepens over time . The more you know yourself, the less likely you'll be to lose yourself, in an attempt to keep the peace or make someone else happy. 

In honor of the release of my new book,  Honest Sex , this episode is one in a series of podcasts focused on bringing honesty to various aspects of sex and relationships. Today's episode covers the vulnerable topic of talking about erectile issues. Our guest, Shari James, supports men who want to overcome erectile issues without male enhancement pills.

Being isolated as a father is not good for dads. It is also not good for dad's kids or romantic relationships. Instead of having women in mommy groups and dads going it alone, today's podcast guest is supporting dads to live a connected dad life!

Many men were not taught how to properly use their masculine power, which is detrimental for them and everyone around them.

Playing small in life keeps life small and often unsatisfying, or even painful. Breaking out of the fear and resistance to being bigger is not always an easy task though. 

Today's Man Alive podcast guest, Zan Perrion, is internationally recognized as one of the most original and insightful voices on relationships and seduction in the world today.

Today's Man Alive podcast guest, Mark Divine, combines the wisdom of warriors with the wisdom of monks to teach people to become powerful and inspiring leaders. 

Being a dad is Being a dad is simultaneously one of the most amazing and challenging things you can do in your life. Today's Man Alive Guest, Larry Hagner, helps you bypass the pitfalls many men fall into that can take away your happiness, health and sanity. 

Learning to love without a roadmap makes it incredibly challenging to have a satisfying relationship. Katie Hendricks, along with her husband Gay Hendricks, has been teaching people to give and receive love better for 50 years!

Optimal sexual performance becomes less of a "sure thing" as you age. To make sure you remain sexually healthy and powerful, check out Men's Sexual Health Coach Brian Ayer's wisdom and daily practices.