Mama Knows Best (Mostly)

Sometimes you get lucky with a good sleeper… and sometimes you’re this close to spending $1,200 on a sleep consultant just to survive the night 😅 In this episode, Carly and Becca dive into the very real, very debated world of sleep training. From “cry it out” to gentler approaches—and everything in between—we’re sharing what worked for us, what didn’t work, and the moments we questioned everythin...

We’re picking up right where we left off — because this conversation got too good to fit into one episode. In part two, we continue unpacking the balance between protecting our kids and allowing them the freedom to explore, climb, fall, and learn on their own. From playground equipment to everyday parenting decisions, we talk about the fine line between keeping them safe and raising confident, cap...

In this episode, we’re talking about the playground debate every parent eventually faces: do you step in… or let them learn? We share our mom philosophy when it comes to playground equipment, risky climbing, and those inevitable toddler falls. Are we the moms sprinting across the playground yelling “BE CAREFUL!” — or the ones watching from the bench letting our kids figure it out? We also dive int...

After a little hiatus, Carly and Becca are back—and if you’re in the thick of toddler life, you’ll understand exactly why. Between the terrible twos, big feelings, constant tantrums, and the wild ride that is potty training, life got loud… fast. In this episode, we’re catching up and getting real about what this stage has actually been like behind the scenes. The meltdowns, the patience-testing mo...

Even though they're moms, Carly and Becca are still just girls figuring out life for the first time; and thats something worth celebrating. In this episode, they open up about body image, the pressure to "bounce back" and why comparing yourself to younger versions of yourself pre-kids is a trap. Carly and Becca also share a surprising discovery that they have something very interesti...

In this exciting milestone episode, Carly and Becca celebrate a major moment—Vienna is officially walking! After lots of love, encouragement, and hard work at home, Becca helped her beat the pediatrician’s four-week walking goal… in just two. We’re talking proud mom vibes all around.  We also dive into the less glamorous side of toddler life: sickness on repeat. Carly shares her recent experience...

In this week’s episode, we dive into all things toddler milestones — from walking (or not walking yet), to potty training readiness, and the great mystery that is… pull-ups. Are they diapers? Are they underwear? We’re confused. 🤷‍♀️ We also talk about how freakishly smart our girls are getting — like, they 1000% understand what we’re saying now. It’s cute. And terrifying. Tune in for our unfilter...

In this episode, we dive into the messy, beautiful realness of motherhood starting with how and when we introduced peanut butter (and other tricky foods), navigating Carly’s emotional first day sending her daughter to daycare, and a raw moment from Becca about comparing milestones; because yes, we know we’re not supposed to, but it still happens. From sticky fingers to mama guilt, this one’s for a...

Summer’s here, and we’re talking all things beach trips with a toddler; from sandy snacks to pool safety musts. We’re sharing what worked (and what totally didn’t), plus how to keep your little one safe, cool, and mostly tantrum-free. Then, we’re getting real about daycare: the emotions, the logistics, and the unexpected guilt (even when you know it’s the right choice). Whether you’re navigating s...

What happens when mom and dad aren't on the same page? In this episode, Carly and Becca dive into the real (and sometimes heated) conversations that happen behind closed doors when parenting styles clash. From trusting your gut to figuring out who gets the final say, we're getting raw about those "we need to talk" moments in parenting. Because let’s be real—co-parenting isn’t a...

Carly and Becca, two first-time moms, totally unqualified and wildly underprepared (just like the rest of us). In this episode, they dive into the big questions no one seems to teach you: How do you discipline a baby who can’t talk yet? Is gentle parenting really the way to go, or are we getting too soft? What’s the right way to teach right from wrong and when do we even start? Oh, and while we’re...

Let's talk birth control - because apparently, the only method that's 100% effective is... not doing it. In this episode, Carly and Becca get real about hormonal shifts, why being off birth control can feel like waking up for the first time, and that moment when a surprise pregnancy test flipped the script (don't worry, it was a false alarm). It's honest, raw and just the right...

In this episode, Carly and Becca unpack their very different travel weeks - one with a baby, and one blissfully solo. From navigating TSA with a diaper bag and stroller, to peaceful airport coffees (yes, those still exist), they share the highs, lows and what it really looks like to travel as a mom. Plus, why taking time for yourself, even for just a weekend, isn't selfish - it's surviva...

In this episode, Becca and Carly are celebrating the beauty of laid-back mom hangouts—because you don’t need a fancy plan or a Pinterest-worthy agenda to have the best time with your mom friends. From real, unfiltered mom chats to spontaneous laughs, it’s all about enjoying the simple moments without the pressure to “do it all.” They also get into the unspoken rules of motherhood, like the dreaded...

In this episode, we’re getting real about screentime and electronic toys. From iPad kids to the challenge of helping kids find things to do without screens, we cover it all. Whether you're a fan of the digital babysitter or you prefer a more hands-on approach, we're here to share our thoughts and experiences—no judgment, just the truth. We also dive into the importance of creative play,...

From the exhaustion of never getting a "sick day" to the unsung need for a village, we're chatting about the realities every mom faces, whether you're a stay-at-home mom or juggling a career. We discuss practical tips for getting through daily tasks like food shopping with a little one in tow, all without letting mom guilt creep in. Plus, we highlight the importance of safety a...

In this episode, Carly and Becca get real about the wild side effects of pregnancy, from losing teeth and strange reactions to nail polish to dealing with carpal tunnel. They also dive into the tough topic of announcing a pregnancy on social media and why miscarriage still carries so much shame. Tune in for an honest, unfiltered conversation on navigating these highs and lows. Support the show

In this episode, Carly and Becca sit down with Emma, a first-time mom to a 14-month-old girl, who discovered she was pregnant halfway through her pregnancy! Emma shares how she managed to prepare for motherhood in fraction of the time most moms have, with help from her incredible village. She opens up about the strength of community and the importance of leaning on others during life’s most unexpe...

They say mother knows best - and they're right! This episode is all about leaning into your mom insticts, even when the world (or Google) makes you second guess yourself. Carly and Becca are sharing moment's they've learned to trust their gut, the times they've been SO right, and why what mom says...goes. Support the show

Mom life is scheduled chaos — where every plan revolves around nap time, bedtime, or whatever unpredictable curveball your baby throws that day. Carly and Becca break down the mental gymnastics of trying to commit to anything when you’re living life in 2-3 hour windows. From last-minute cancellations to the constant fear of messing up the sleep schedule, they’re talking about why making plans as a...

In this episode, Carly and Becca chat about what happens to your relationship with your spouse after having a baby. We dive into the unspoken truth of how motherhood can feel isolating like you’re carrying the full weight of responsibility, even though you both made this baby. Why does it feel like moms automatically take the mental load while dads get to just help out? We’re also talking about wh...

In this episode, Becca and Carly dive into the never-ending debate: stay-at-home mom vs. working mom. From the frustration of earning a degree only to be judged for staying home, to the heartbreak of leaving a sick little one behind for work - both sides come with their own set of challenges. No matter which path you're on, the mom guilt is real, the judgment is unavoidable and the struggle i...

Breastfeeding, formula feeding, combo feeding—oh my! The mom world loves a good debate, but let’s be real: the only right choice is the one that keeps your baby (and your sanity) intact. In this episode, we’re getting real about the pressure, the guilt, and the endless opinions surrounding how we feed our babies. Spoiler alert: Mama knows best, and “fed is best” isn’t just a saying—it’s survival....

In this episode Carly and Becca dive into the messy world of postpartum boundaries - what they swore they'd enforce, what completely fell apart, and what actually made a difference. From sick visitors to unsolicited advice, they're sharing the hard lessons, surprising wins and the newfound appreciation for their own mothers! If you've ever struggled with saying "no" (or re...

Becca and Carly share their very different birth experiences - Becca's 24 hour labor ending in a NICU stay without that magical first moment, and Carly's c-section that brought an instant, life-changing connection. The raw, unexpected realities of birth - no filter. Support the show