Make More Love Not War

It’s easy to look at someone else and think…Man, they must have it easy because they are beautiful, rich, smart, well connected with tons of privileges that I don’t have. They must be happy all the time as they skip through their magical life while I grind out every single inch as I push my boulder up a very steep rock mountain like Sisyphus. It may even be impossible to see the struggles others h...

Sexual fetishes play a major role in many people’s lives but for some people they make no sense. I’m sure many of you have heard of one of the most popular fetishes, the infamous foot fetish. If you are not into feet, this may sound like the craziest thing in the world. Why would someone get off looking at a girl’s sweaty dirty feet? This just sounds like the most bizarre behavior to some people....

In our last podcast titled “Real Men Know She Comes First with Ian Kerner”, Ian explained to us the importance of using oral sex to fully please a woman. He calls it “Core Play” because that’s what brings the most pleasure to women. He also created the word “Cliteracy” and tells men that there are no more excuses for being “Ill-cliterate” with women. Ian Kerner says “Down with ill-cliteracy! The t...

In the world of psychology, there are people that push the boundary of knowledge that transcend our understanding of the human experience to a new level. People like Sigmund Freud, Carl Jung, John and Julie Gottman and Abraham Maslow have been able to capture a behavior humans unconsciously do and articulate it into a theory that allows us all to evolve past the emotions that are steering our live...

Imagine being a fly on the wall at a winery as a group of women explore their inner thoughts with NO filter. This is exactly what we do in our series Wine With Wine. This is "Girl Talk" that is not for those with delicate ears. Let us transport you to a forbidden wonderland that explores the crazy things that happen in modern relationships. Grab your popcorn and enjoy!

If you are like me, you have been in a relationship that seemed perfect on paper but turned out to be terrible in real life. You have the same interest, background but for some reason it just doesn’t work. This can cause you to be confused when this so-called perfect relationship falls apart. If you are also like many of us, you don’t make this mistake just once but several times. You find yoursel...

When you hear the word meditation, an image of a wise old monk setting on top of a mountain with his legs crossed, back straight, eyes closed, hands resting on his knees with the index and thumb touching might pop into your head. He’s in some kind of magical trance that takes years of training to control the mind well enough to achieve. Many of us in our go go go modern world often feel like we ar...

“Domination's the name of the game in bed or in life, They're both just the same, Except in one you're fulfilled at the end of the day, Let's play master and servant”. This is how Depeche Mode described what is now called “Kink” in their hit song “Master And Servant”. When I first heard this song as a teenager, I had no idea what they were talking about. I just thought it was a cool song from one...

When most people talk about evolutionary psychology they will give the example of a caveman in the wilderness that hears a rustle in the bushes. This caveman from 1 million years ago can think it is just the wind or a lion that’s about to eat him. Without knowing this caveman will have three ways to react; fight, flight or freeze. Even though we are now modern super sophisticated homosapiens that...

At the end of the movie “Schindler’s List”, Oskar Schindler met with the 1,200 Jewish workers he forged identification papers for and bribed Nazi officers into releasing from the concentration camp Auschwitz to work in his Nazi ammunition factory to declare they were all free to go. During this very emotional scene, Schindler is saying good-bye to his good and trusted friend that was the financial...

When you hear the term “Pick Up Artist” you may picture a cheesy guy telling embarrassingly bad lines to a girl like….”Did it hurt? When you fell from Heaven?” Or “If I could rearrange the alphabet I would put U and I together.” Or even more ridiculous “Are you from Tennessee? Because you’re the only 10 I see!” I’m pretty sure that these so-called “Pick Up Lines” never actually picked anyone up. B...

Life has a funny way of putting obstacles in our path that seem impossible but end up being the best thing that has ever happened to us. Marcus Aurelius the great Roman Philosopher Emperor wrote, “The impediment to action advances action. What stands in the way becomes the way.” A famous parable called “The King and the Boulder” also illustrates this point In ancient times, a King had a boulder pl...

Why are so many smart successful women still single? They have it all….great job, beautiful house, amazing friends but their romantic life is either non-existent or it’s so bad that calling it a train wreck would be an upgrade. So what’s the deal? Modern men claim they want smart, successful and independent women…but do they really? The lab data and the real world practice are not adding up. It ap...

Did Jesus have SEX!?!...WHAT! Did he get married?....COME ON NOW! People are starting to believe that this is true based on the Gnostic Gospels. What’s the Gnostic Gospels you ask? The Gnostic Gospels are Gospels that were condemned from being in the New Testament. These gospels were hidden from the world for almost 2000 years. They were found buried in an area 200 miles south of Cairo Egypt in 19...

Single and searching in the modern app and online dating world is constantly evolving at a speed that may be quicker than people can keep up with. Every generation has it’s challenges to find love but today’s way of ordering a boyfriend like a pizza is new. Wow he’s hot and he’s not. Swipe left no no no swipe right. I love this guy….even though we have never met. Do I call him back…or text him…or...

Many women want to know if guys really like to go down on them or are they just putting in some time before they move onto what they want. Let’s be honest ladies….we LOVE oral sex but many of us can’t fully enjoy it because we are worried that he doesn’t like it, I smell down there, he must think my pussy is weird looking especially with his front row view right now, will he think I’m a slut if he...

Sex Addiction has become a modern buzz word that has given powerful men a “Get out of Jail Free” card when they are caught cheating on their wives. We have all seen the famous men that get caught cheating then go to an expensive rehab center to cure them from this “demonic force” that has taken over their lives. It’s happened so many times in the past three decades that it’s become a punch line on...

What does Sex Worker mean to you? Does it make you think of some underworld where drug addicted women trade their bodies for another hit of heroin or meth with no regard to their future or anyone else? Or do you think of a middle class Soccer Mom taking care of her kids, managing her own company and creating a charity? It may be time to move past the Hollywood version of a Sex Worker. Today’s mode...

Where do men go when they are searching for meaning? The need for meaning and purpose is an intrinsic part of a life that is completely satisfying and has no regret. The difficulty for many men is they feel obligated to suppress inner issues like childhood trauma, wants, dreams, desires and emotions to appear strong to the outside world. Sometimes you can have everything in your life in the right...

Ladies learn how to give yourself multiple orgasms, how long should you wait before having sex the first time, how to put a guy into a "Sexual Coma", learn why day dates are good if you are in a new relationship and much more. Imagine being a fly on the wall at a winery as a group of women explore their inner thoughts with NO filter. This is exactly what we do in our series Wine With Wine. This is...

Zach Brittle, LMHC, a Certified Gottman Therapist and the best selling author of "The Relationship Alphabet" is an expert at helping couples achieve long-lasting relationships with practical methods to better connections. During this podcast Zach will give you tools to help communicate better, get a 5,000 to 1 return on your relationship investment, repairing methods to prevent an argument from de...

Paul Averill the host of The ManBits Podcast learned some great lessons through adventures that took him around the world. The ManBits Podcast has a high level vision of reducing incidents of suicide globally, through content based strategies in mental health, physical health and financial know-how driving positive change and positive habits. Paul’s experience is in coaching, training and leadersh...

Dr. Duana Welch is known for using social science to solve real-life relationship issues. Her first book, Love Factually: 10 Proven Steps from I Wish to I Do, is now out globally in five languages. Love Factually for Single Parents [& Those Dating Them] is the second book in the series, coming out on January 7, 2019. Both books rely on science rather than opinion to help men and women find and kee...

Anxiety is a pretty normal part of our fast paced world and it's rather adaptive. It's something that a lot of us feel. But what happens if it becomes so overwhelming that you can't function? When you worry about everything and you feel like it's all out of control? Also trauma effects how you deal with the world and your relationships. How do we deal with these things personally and with a partne...

Imagine being a fly on the wall at a winery as a group of women explore their inner thoughts with NO filter. This is exactly what we do in our series Wine With Wine. This is "Girl Talk" that is not for those with delicate ears. Let us transport you to a forbidden wonderland that explores the crazy things that happen in modern relationships. Grab your popcorn and enjoy!