Maintaining Your Badassness!

You keep saying that you are sick of his shit, and you are going to leave! It has been long enough, and you have suffered a long time. Don't take that crap with you in 2024! It is time to respect yourself and your temple. Follow us on Facebook @Maintaining Your Badassness for inspiration and uplifting stories.

As a matter of fact, start not accepting bullshit from other people. Don't' wait until the new year. We put up with so much crap from other people that we lose ourselves a little more each day. We lose our value because we allow people to disrespect us over and over. "After the pain, you come and love me, I can't explain why I still love you when you keep doing me like you do." Don't be like her a...

LOOK THEIR ASSES UP! Don't be so eager to date someone you just met especially if they are showing signs of instability. Most people think that you have to pay to find out stuff about a person's past. Look on the county web sites. These sites store public information about people, including their arrest record, civil suits, ticket history, marriage, and divorce history. Now Maria is charged with a...

Don't go back ladies! You will most likely regret it. After years, and months of you shedding tears thinking of ways to escape, why would you put yourself through that again. Looking at your kids with sadness, regretting putting them in that situation on the first place. Why would you go back? To go through the same thing you went through before? Your ordeal may be even worse this time.

If he does not put that much effort in spending time with you, if he does not have much to talk about on the phone besides your body parts, your lips, sexual topics, he is not that into you sis. If he tells you that we are both grown-ups and he wants to skip all of the talking even though you tell him that you don't feel comfortable meeting yet, run, he is self-centered. It takes at least three mo...

Words and actions from a man that tells you instantly that he is not into you! Save yourself from grief and walk away with grace.

Have you ever met someone and you think that ya'll hit it off like you two were meant to be together? Don't be surprised to know that there are a lot of false starts in relationships. Some false starts are intentional and some are innocent. Here is a story about an intentional false start when the guy is trying to rush the girl, but she ain't having it!

So I was talking to a "scoundrel" who happens to be of the male species at a restaurant where a group of us met. He just started to tell me of how he plays women and it all fun and games. He has not gotten caught yet because he is too smooth with his planning. Yes, he has an actual play book of how he approaches women, what type, they must have kids, etc.

This episode is an interview with "Faith." A woman who has recently left her husband after a few bouts of infidelity. She found out that he was sleeping with his sister who is a heroin addict. He brought home a few STD's and a baby that his sister almost had. Ignoring the "Red Flags" in the beginning with cause you hurt and pain in the end.

Stay tuned for my new podcast in addition to this one! This one will be based on a subject couples deal with daily that causes the break-up of their marriages. You will not want to not one episode of this one! Listen to the theme song.

There are many people being murdered by their estranged spouses, exes, disgruntled kids, and money hungry girlfriends! One of the most inconspicuous ways is poisoning their food and drinks. Listen to how people are getting caught and brought to justice in this episode. Learn how to spot the RED FLAGS and possibly save your own life!

Random RED FLAGS you should not ignore! Small lies have the potential to turn deadly and ruin your life. Listen to this segment and see if these scenarios applied to you or you have dealt with in the past. How did you handle it, did you end the relationship? If not, maybe you should have...

This is the case of Jennifer and Spencer, college sweethearts who started dating when they met at the college broadcast meeting. Although everyone viewed Saint Spence as perfect, we all know nobody is perfect. Jennifer's nightmare begins during their seventh year of marriage when she comes home and sees an arrest warrant that reads about her husband who was adored by everyone as a high-school teac...

When we see RED FLAGS and continue to ignore them! He is so handsome and has a great job! Her body is fine...and her face is perfect. He opened the doors for me, that is something I have not had in years!. She loves my kids, she bought them gifts and she takes them to the park.

Carla fell for this man who turned out to be a monster! Carla was a successful personal accountant who had plenty of clients in the Atlanta area who made her living very comfortable. The guy she fell for was a corrections officer who had a really bad temper. Carla experienced his temper, but she ignored it along with a few other things. Ignoring red flags cost her everything, including her life.

"What Lies Behind Us and What Lies Before US Are Tiny Matters Compared To What Lies Within US" Ralph Waldo Emerson. This quote is relevant to my self-healing three week experience I did recently. This experience enhanced my mind, my wordly experience, and my soul!

Part 2: This woman...wrote a children's book on how to deal with grief! Shortly after...she was arrested for her husband's murder. Often times we hear about people being murdered and the killer cashes in on the insurance policy they took out on the unsuspected dead. The odd thing is, if you find out someone has taken out a policy on you; you can't cancel it... Yep you heard me right! Listen to the...

Often times we hear about people being murdered and the killer cashes in on the insurance policy they took out on the unsuspected dead. The odd thing is, if you find out someone has taken out a policy on you; you can't cancel it... Yep you heard me right! Listen to the steps you must take to maybe get the policy cancelled.

If we fall down, we gotta get up! Most men destroy marriages...that is absolutely false... sometimes women destroy relationships intentionally. At times women are not ready for a relationship but, they are attracted to the physical, the mental, and the money. They don't want you as a whole, but they want somethings that you bring. In the case of 34 year old Julie from Jersey, she started to get ou...

Amy said that her and TJ were looking for ways to work together for five years pre 2020 when they landed a gig to work together on GMA3. They have been denied jobs working together and the latest job they were denied was DWTS. Yep...Dancing With The Stars turned down their request to dance for them.

So I have a perfect example of not going back to the past that almost broke you. I ended with this guy Feb 2020 after going back and forth in my mind whether he was being honest, deceitful, sincere, a law abiding citizen (my job depended on it), and faithful. I blocked him on all platforms...even Google pictures, yeah...Google pictures. He was not able to call, send me messages, requests. etc exce...

So, most of us think that relationships are destroyed by boys or men. That is absolutely false... sometimes women destroy relationships intentionally. At times women are not ready for a relationship but, they are attracted to the physical, the mental, and the money. They don't want you as a whole, but they want somethings that you bring. At times men call women crazy after the relationship ends, m...

1986-1991, she sought out men for revenge. Some of her victims were married, one was a cop, and most were scums in her eyes. To get a creepy sense of what she was like and to actually feel her rage, watch Monster (2003) starring Charlize Theron. Once you watch this movie, it will haunt you for years.

A woman married for three years constantly accused her husband of cheating. The saying goes...the person who is doing the cheating has the guilty conscious." These people become paranoid into thinking the truth will come out and that someone is being sneaky just like them. She even stooped to the level of accusing her teenage daughter of sleeping with her husband to ease her guilt. Beware if you a...

Although, we want to be smart with our money each month, we want to be smartest with our money in April. Why? Tax month and it serves as a reminder to double check your finances, stop paying extra tax, and invest in options that will benefit you long-term. Today we are creating a Smart Money Vision Board to keep track of the accounts bills are automatically paid out of and delete those subscriptio...