Luxury State of Mind: Conversations on mindset, personal growth and luxury

You've done everything right. The education, the career, the title, maybe even the online presence people admire. So why does your own life still feel like it belongs to someone else? In this episode, Dammy breaks down what it actually means to live in alignment, and why reinvention (not a new job, not a new look) is the real work most women are skipping. She shares her own 20 year detour chas...

Watch the free Stop Hiding Start Showing Up webinar here — https://luxury-state-of-mind.kit.com/8c5920f836Have you ever felt like everyone else is getting their pick and all that is left for you is the option between worse and worser? In this episode of LSM On The Road, Dammy sits down for afternoon tea at Bangkok at Beltline to have a very real conversation about what to do when your situation tr...

Watch the free Stop Hiding Start Showing Up webinar here — https://luxury-state-of-mind.kit.com/8c5920f836Someone messaged Dammy and said she spent a long time watching people do what she wanted to do. Then two days before sending this message, she started anyhow. And things are already moving. In this episode, we are talking about why watching other people feels like preparation but is actually a...

Watch the free Stop Hiding Start Showing Up webinar here — https://luxury-state-of-mind.kit.com/8c5920f836The outside world is moving fast. Everyone is jumping into different lanes. And the more you follow someone else's strategy the more invisible you become. In this episode, we are talking about how to build a personal brand that no one else could copy — because it is built entirely from who you...

Watch the free Stop Hiding Start Showing Up webinar here — https://luxury-state-of-mind.kit.com/8c5920f836I have watched the Michael Jackson movie twice. Gone deep on the documentaries. And what fascinated me most was not just his talent. It was how he stayed devoted to his craft for decades without burning out. In this episode, I'm breaking down three things Michael Jackson did that we can ap...

Watch the free Stop Hiding Start Showing Up webinar here — https://luxury-state-of-mind.kit.com/8c5920f836You have been calling it an introvert thing for years. The reason you are not posting, not speaking up, not showing up in the spaces you are supposed to be in. But being introverted is a description of a personality. Being invisible is a choice. In this episode, I am breaking down three reason...

Watch the free Stop Hiding Start Showing Up webinar here — https://luxury-state-of-mind.kit.com/8c5920f836What would happen if the fear of what people think no longer robbed you of the growth and opportunities already available to you right now? In this episode I am sharing what 30 days of going live on LinkedIn every single day taught me — and it had nothing to do with followers or reach. It chan...

Watch the Stop Hiding Start Showing Up webinar replay — https://luxury-state-of-mind.kit.com/8c5920f836You have the vision. You have the drive. But you also have a full-time job, responsibilities, and a life that does not pause for your dreams. In this episode, I am sharing exactly how I have been building Luxury State of Mind while working a 9-5 — the real investment, the daily decisions, and the...

Ready to go from invisible to visible? Join the free webinar here — https://luxury-state-of-mind.kit.com/9812f0f665You have the talent. You have the skills. So why does it feel like opportunities keep passing you by? In this episode, we are talking about the real cost of staying invisible — and it goes much deeper than missed promotions or money. We are talking about the emotional cost. The exhaus...

You are not invisible. You are hiding. And the tricky part is most of us don't even know we're doing it. In this episode, we are breaking down the 7ways highly talented women unconsciously block themselves from the opportunities they actually deserve. Not because they aren't capable. Not because they aren't ready. But because somewhere along the way they learned that staying small...

Some seasons don't make sense while you're in them. But they're preparing you for everything that comes next. This is the full recording of the Luxury State of Mind Live Podcast Experience — a real, unfiltered conversation with women who've walked through burnout, uncertainty, and confusion and came out clearer, stronger, and more aligned on the other side. We talked about divine t...

Have you ever been moving forward and then hit a point where everything slows down — and you start wondering if you should even keep going? In this episode, I'm getting honest about facing disappointment and the nudges God and life send to keep you moving when progress feels invisible. We talk about:— What to do when you hit a lull in your progress— How to recognize the nudges that are trying...

You know exactly what you want. You know the impact you want to make. But if you're honest, you don't fully trust yourself yet. And that lack of self-trust is costing you more than you realize — it's costing you time, opportunities, and a life that actually feels aligned. In today’s episode, we’re going to talk about how to find your V.O.I.C.E.Because when you find your voice, you move...

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On this episode, we dive into what it feels like to follow the “expected” path—doing all the right things—but still feeling unfulfilled and like you’re living below your potential. You may have the success, the stability, the accolades… but deep down, you know there’s more waiting for you. We unpack what it really looks like to question the path you’ve been on, face the fear of failure, and notice...

The challenges you’re facing today aren’t setbacks — they’re opportunities to extract value and grow. On this episode, we explore how embracing challenges helps you become more of who you’re meant to be. You’ll learn the skills, mindsets, and habits that allow you to:Become more of yourselfDo more with your talents and resourcesCreate more value in your life and for othersTrying, testing, seeking...

As you move step by step, moment by moment, you’re becoming more. When you take risks, try new things, listen deeply, pivot, pray, and live your best today, you let the process of becoming shape you into the luxury woman you’re called to be. You don’t need another strategy or more goals on your plate—you need vision and patience. Show up daily, and over time, you’ll become more, do more, and ultim...

The secret to seeing progress today is not overthinking, but taking imperfect action. As a high-achieving, purpose-driven woman, it's your season to try. Try something new so you can become more of who you're called to be. Attend Conversations Over Dinner in Dallas: https://luma.com/3i0xkrxg Attend Conversations Over Brunch in Lagos: https://tix.africa/discover/luxurystateofmindJoin the wa...

Does it feel like your to-do list is growing longer by the day—heavier, louder, and harder to manage? The pressure keeps building, and no matter how capable you are, it feels like there’s no real release. As an ambitious woman who knows what she wants and is skilled at managing herself, the constant need to act, plan, and perform can quietly become a weight. And while discipline and structure matt...

If you’ve ever found yourself wishing you were different—more disciplined, more consistent, or just better in some way—this episode is for you. Most of us think growth comes from trying harder or wishing we had different qualities. But real change starts with one simple decision: choosing who you’re becoming. In this episode, we talk about the power of choice and how acting in alignment with the t...

It’s so easy to desire something deeply in one moment… and in the next, let the questions of how steal the joy of the very thing you just felt. In this episode, I share how to stop that in 2026. Learn how to rest in the expectation of what’s coming, even if you don’t yet know when or how. When you allow yourself to live in that space, you experience more joy, more alignment, and more anticipation...

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Schedule a discovery call: https://calendly.com/theplannter/1-1-luxury-state-of-mind-discovery-call Meet Paitra Pleasant — a marketing powerhouse with 9+ years of experience, brilliant at her craft, yet quietly reserved when it came to stepping into her own form of luxury: speaking . In this episode, she opens up about her journey working with Dammy to become a more visible, confident speaker. In...