LRJ Podcast & Chill

People break up with their partner for many different reasons, such as their partners not satisfying their needs, infidelity (physical, emotional, financial, etc.), changes in circumstances (e.g. moving away), etc. In these cases when you want to break up with your partner, does that mean you don't love them anymore? With such a serious question, LRJ tries to dig deep to figure out what this q...

What is a Situationship? The term was created in Urban Dictionary in 2006 and according to the Cambridge Dictionary, a situationship is "a romantic relationship between two people who do not yet consider themselves a couple but who have more than a friendship." Meaning there is no label on the relationship with the person you are interested in and the people that are interested in you. A...

You and your partner are unique individuals with distinct expectations and desires from one another. What if your partner isn't happy with you and wants you to make more money and wants you to keep improving? When your partner requests or suggests changes in your behavior or habits, it can be challenging to differentiate between their demands and genuine areas for self-improvement. LRJ delves...

Congratulations to David on the arrival of his first baby! It goes without saying that having a baby brings sleepless nights and the challenge of figuring out how to balance raising a daughter with managing social and parenting life. LRJ has a conversation with David about his experiences before and after becoming a parent - discussing the challenges he faces and how he deals with them. Questions...

What is the meaning of life? We've all heard this question before, and it might be the most frequently asked question in the world. However, it seems like no one has the answer. What could the meaning of life be? Is it money, career, happiness, or love? In this episode, LRJ attempts to explore what this question means to us and the personal significance we find in life. Questions asked: - How...

In this episode, one of our listeners asked LRJ for advice on their relationship. Our listener's boyfriend initiated a breakup because he believes he is unable to provide the life she desires. She wants to get married, but her boyfriend doesn't want to waste her time. LRJ aims to investigate and understand the situation, offering suggestions for our listener's next steps. Questions ask...

Your partner is considered your other half, but how much are you supposed to share with them? Should you share your bank account details and passwords with your partner, or should you keep your phone password hidden from your partner indefinitely? There seems to be boundaries when it comes to privacy and transparency. In this episode, LRJ attempts to find where those boundaries lie. Questions aske...

The term "Body Count" in relationships refers to the number of people someone has slept with, and people often ask this question to other people and even their partner when they get to know them. Would you rather your partner have fewer partners in the past or more partners in the past? And is it important to know about the person's past in terms of their relationships? In this episo...

The term "Body Count" in relationships refers to the number of people someone has slept with, and people often ask this question to other people and even their partner when they get to know them. Would you rather your partner have fewer partners in the past or more partners in the past? And is it important to know about the person's past in terms of their relationships? In this episo...

收兵 (Sau1 Bing1) literally means "collect soldiers" and is a term used in Hong Kong to describe someone (usually a girl) who has guys doing all kinds of things in order pursue the girl in hopes of a relationship or maybe just to get in bed with her. Usually guys would buy gifts, offer rides, buy food, and even help fix devices/appliances for the girl. In this episode, we invite Kerry to discuss w...

Engaging in ongoing conversations with your romantic partner about finances is an endless conversation. How do you navigate everyday expenses such as rent, groceries, dining out, and travel costs? Moreover, how do you handle major financial matters such as joint bank accounts, downpayments, mortgages, and raising children? Additionally, are there alternative ways to contribute to the relationship...

Hong Kong and Australia are very different in terms of culture from lifestyle, work-life balance, and especially in dating. So what is it like to live and date in Hong Kong vs Australia? Is life better in Australia because work-life balance is better or is life better in Hong Kong because it is a lot easier to meet people? We talk with our guest, Tim (accountant by day, raver by night) to ask abou...

In this thought-provoking episode, LRJ delves into a fascinating phenomenon happening in China's parks. Discover a unique tradition where parents seek potential partners for their children, driven by concerns about their future marriage prospects. Why do these parents engage in this practice? What are the reasons behind their worries about their children's ability to find a suitable spouse...

Corporal or physical punishment is very common in Asian households by parents to discipline their children. However in Western culture, any physical pain or discomfort on the child by the parent is unheard of. In this episode, LRJ talks with Ayon, Quinson and Anson on their experiences being physically punished by their Asian parents and how they feel about their experiences afterwards. Questions...

LRJ welcomes back one of our favourite guests - Eric T, to talk about his experiences dating in his 30s. Many people on the internet nowadays comment on how bad dating is at the moment. Some of the issues include, ghosting, differing commitment levels, catfishing and more. In this episode, LRJ dives deep with Eric on these topics to understand more on how dating is like in the current landscape. Q...

There have been relationships that have ended because someone or both parties feel that they are "too comfortable" in the relationship. In this article by marriage.com, Rachael Pace (Expert Blogger lol) explains that being too comfortable in a relationship means feeling at ease with your partner without the desire for change or improvement. Have you ever been "too comfortable in a r...

In a recent SCMP article, divorce rates are increasing in Hong Kong, where 1 out of 3 people are getting divorced, and remarriages have tripled since 1991. LRJ sheds light on the shifting attitudes towards family, emphasizing the need for couples to receive necessary tools and guidance to navigate the complexities of relationships and marriage. Questions Asked: - Why are people getting divorced? -...

On the 29th of June 2023 the Supreme Court of the United States ruled Affirmative Action unconstitutional to end race-conscious admissions. In top universities, they have been pushing for racial diversity on campus to increase the number of African American and Hispanics, but now that number will decrease after the Supreme Court decision. LRJ goes into this topic to discuss our opinions and whethe...

Have you ever experienced a couple in Hong Kong getting a bit more intimate than you feel comfortable with in public? In this episode, LRJ dives into the strange topic of public display of affection (PDA) in Hong Kong and explore how it differs from various cultural perspectives. - Questions Asked: ○ Should any PDA be allowed? What are the limits? ○ What is the max level PDA that you would do and...

Modern era dating has become quite complicated where you have to know how to play the game. In this episode, we talk with Christina whom we have met through our friends from Dragonboat (Tina from LRJ episode 7). We talk with Christina about various topics about dating: online dating, dating preferences, ghosting, and etc. Questions Asked: - How did you get into Dragonboating? - How is it using dat...

When it comes to searching for a life partner, our preferences and types can vary. But how does it differ when we're seeking someone to marry? In this episode, LRJ delves into the qualities we look for in a spouse and explores the importance of non-negotiables. Join us as we navigate the intricacies of finding a lifelong partner. Questions Asked: - What criteria you have in a spouse? - What ar...

Taking a break from deep diving into relationship questions, LRJ asks each other some "light-hearted" topics (some also about relationships) to get to know each other a bit more. Questions Asked: - What is your go-to break-up song? - Should you tell your partner that they’ve gained weight? - Have you ever had a crush on a cartoon character or celebrity? - Do you think "once a cheate...

Going through a heartbreak or break-up is a universal experience, and everyone copes with it differently. In this podcast, LRJ explores their personal journey of healing from break-ups, sharing what strategies worked and what didn't. Join LRJ as they delve into the various ways people navigate through heartbreak, offering insights and valuable lessons along the way. Questions asked: - What are...

Many people long to hear the three special words "I love you" from their loved ones, especially those they are romantically involved with. In this episode, LRJ discusses the significance and timing of expressing love. Questions asked: - When do you say "I love you"? - Is there a difference between "I love you" and "love you"? - Does saying "I love you&q...

LRJ is taking a break from the relationship topics to talk about the benefits and risks of using saunas and steam rooms. Jon and Ryan dive deeper into the topic to share their experiences and thoughts on heat exposure therapy and why they do it. Questions asked: - Where did saunas originate from - Why do we feel good after using the sauna - Benefits of using saunas - Dangers of using saunas - Who...