Loving Relationships for Women of Color

This week's podcast is all about soothing the itch to fix so we can pull people closer rather than pushing them away. Specifically, I ask/answer... Where does the itch to fix come from? Why is it problematic? How do we soothe it so it doesn't become an angry rash? Have you grown tired of only being with partners or in relationships you have to carry? Do you want to know what it's like to run along...

Horny or not, it may be time to put our lady bits and man parts away. Tonight on the podcast, I'm talking about how Covid19 and contagion has many of us valuing life over orgasms in a way we've not seen since the start of the AIDS epidemic. This is especially important if you're into butt stuff. Also, find out some steps to develop a relationship while social distancing. 

If you've gone through year after year single but wanting a relationship, you may be wondering wtf. How do I turn what I want into what I have? In this show, I talk about how getting out of our own way is an art form and you are creative enough to master it. 

10 Ways the quarantine can make it easier to create healthy, sustainable love. Want to know how you can turn your singlehood or bad relationship into healthy, real love during this pandemic? Let's talk about all of the opportunities that being in quarantine provides for people who want to have a sustainable, deep-level romantic connection. 

What modern single women have to give up if they truly want a healthy sustainable relationship. Yes, I'm going down the list. No, it's not what you think. I'm here to support your transformation from single woman to woman in a healthy relationship. 

The narratives that we tie to money and the effects they have on our ability to have healthy romantic relationships, in or out of a pandemic. What's your relationship with money? What are you dealing with during this pandemic when it comes to money and your partner?

What are the signs I look for to determine whether a client is really relationship ready? Are you really ready for a relationship? Here's why you may not have the one you want... yet. #askforcandy #relationships #dating #matchmaking

The future is now and right now we have every reason to learn how to get even more creative with our digital intimacy. Months ago I would have said "Digital intimacy, that's not a thing. It's an oxymoron." My how a pandemic can alter one's beliefs. Listen til the end where I give steps to have an awesome, connective video date from the point of view of a relationship coach and professional matchma...

Find out the three questions to ask yourself before deciding you are ready for a relationship. Also, what to do if you've been told you're "too independent" to find a man. 

Guest Co-Host Patrick L. Riley stands in for Nneka for the friendship show. It's Women's History Month and Patrick's book "That's What Friends Are For" Celebrates all the famous and notorious women who've inspired him. Oprah Winfrey, Diana Ross, Patti Labelle, Tracee Ellis Ross, Taraji P. Hensen, and many many more. We also talk about the influence our friendships can have on our romantic lives an...

It's Black History Month!! Join Candice Harper & Nneka Celebrities Bell for "10 Secret Practices of the Happiest Black Women"  What are you putting into practice in your daily life? Have you ever felt like it's hard to maintain your happiness and mental health? If so, welcome to the club. Tomorrow night we're going to share some practices, come share yours as well or just listen in. 

We breakdown the real purpose of Valentine's Day whether you're single or in a relationship and share our thoughts on the romantic film starring Issa Rae and Keith Stanfield. 

Candy and Nneka  breakdown Tiffany Grace Reyes' article from LovePanky.com  The Happy Couple’s Guide to Social Media Etiquette Should friends "friend" your lovers? How much relationship info is too much? Between you and your partner, are you the only one "In a Relationship" online

How many times have you been married? Got kids? What about Ex's? What have you been through? What's your romance history? Is it helping your current relationship? Is it helping you in your singlehood? Listen in. Nneka and I are joined by Pam and it's a chit chat for the ages. 

Candy and Nneka talk about what's it like to maintain sexy while your body and mind is changing. Also, listen 'til the end for Nneka's new fashion segment "Nneka's fav thing this Weeka". 

It's our 100th EPISODE!!! We're talking about making matches and picking partners. What's your criteria? If you're in a committed relationship that's happy and healthy, what did you do to attract your partner? Join the convo. 

Candy and Nneka ask and answer questions about Love & Addiction. *Find out how to assess whether you're with an addict. *What to do if you're deeply committed to an addict. *How to define love for yourself in a way that frees you from a partner's addiction. #love #addiction #relationships #healthyrelationships #personalgrowth #sefacceptance 

Meet my new co-host and find out what's in store for 2020! We're covering all the hot topics. 

What's a spiritual way to overcome clashing with your Mom? Especially if she's incredibly toxic. Coach Jeselle Eli joins me and we get into our own resentments, experiences, and resolutions. Want to get out from under a negative relationship with your Mom? Don't miss this episode. #mothers #motherdaughterrelationships #healthyrelationships #healing #podcastsabouthealing #personalgrowth #shame Orig...

The beautiful co-star of "Scary Mommy Speaks" The Scary Mommy Podcast, Ashley Hearon-Smith stopped by the show and we talked about what it means to be a shame-free Mom in the Millenium and how it is possible to be BFF's with your Mom after working through some things.  Originally recorded 9.30.19 #scarymommy  #motherdaughter #momlife #relationships #healthyrelationships #lovepodcast #hea...

 The Coochie Coach, Nikki Brown and I talk about the boundaries of "appropriateness" and whether adult butt cheeks really hurt children. #selfexpression #parenting #sportingevents #femalesexuality #femaleempowerment #buttcheeks #podcasts #wocpodcasters

Transformational Relationship Coach John Kenny and Candy talk about the number one way to recognize whether you're in a toxic relationship. Hint: It's not about what your partner does. We also talk the 6 tips for having a healthy relationship. #relationships #dating #personalgrowth #selfcare #healthyrelationships

Tonight, yoga teacher and plant-based nutritionist Serena Sabela and I talk about wellness, sexiness, and healthy relationships.  This Winter we're cuddling up and talking about Love & Relationships around the World!! Ever wonder what practices and modalities people around the world are using to live healthier and love their relationships? We're talking to people from Bali, Melbourne, Sao...

Want to pull yourself up out of the darkness. Wondering how to deal with your Mom AND Mothering. This is is our last Mother/Daughter healing themed episode for the Season. Come join the convo as Dr. Lindsay Weisner takes us through the 10 Steps as outlined in her upcoming book "10 Steps to Happy". 

We're healing Mother/Daughter relationships all through the Fall. One of the big buzzwords is "boundaries". If you are the adult child of a narcissistic parent or the parent, come join the conversation.