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What happens when one spouse steps away from a successful career and both partners have to redefine what it means to contribute? In this episode of Loving Me, Loving You, Loving Us, Memi and Dr. Lara sit down with Jerome and Kelly to explore the intersection of marriage, identity, finances, communication, and teamwork. After a unified decision for Kelly to leave her corporate career to provide mor...

**DISCLAIMER** This episode includes a candid discussion of suicide and mental health struggles. If you or someone you know is struggling, help is available 24/7. Call or text 988 (Suicide and Crisis Lifeline) for support. What does it look like when the person who is your safe space is the same one you almost lost? Marcus and Allison Smith sit down with Memi and Dr. Lara to share a love story tha...

What happens when the person you love sees your potential before you do? In this episode of Loving Me, Loving You, Loving Us, we sit down with Nnamdi and Ugochi for an honest conversation about what it looks like to love someone through growth, failure, faith, and becoming. Their love story was not picture-perfect. It included failed dreams, a rocky period of dating, understanding emotional differ...

In this deeply moving episode of Loving Me, Loving You, Loving Us, we sit down with Devin and Ashley Gray to share their powerful story of love, faith, and endurance through life’s hardest seasons. From 'Honesty Box' messages (IYKYK) to pivotal make or break moments before marriage, their journey was already layered. But early into marriage, everything changed. Devin was diagnosed with Crohn’s dis...

In this episode of Loving Me, Loving You, Loving Us, we sit down with husband and wife duo Miguel and Mia Djontu to explore what it means to build a marriage that grows alongside ambition, purpose, and business. From the importance of being equally yoked to the role of communication, therapy, and mentorship, Miguel and Mia share how intentional relationship work has strengthened both their partner...

In this powerful episode of Loving Me, Loving You, Loving Us, we sit down with The Anthonys to explore what it truly means to experience restoration in marriage. Love isn’t always picture-perfect. Sometimes it’s rebuilding trust after disappointment. Sometimes it’s choosing forgiveness when it’s hard. And sometimes it’s fighting for healing when walking away feels easier. In this conversation, we...

In this episode of Loving Me, Loving You, Loving Us, hosts Dr. Lara and Memi sit down with Selah and Russell Fugett for a powerful conversation on what it truly means to love through healing. From navigating alcohol recovery and emotional trauma, to the nuances of interracial marriage, to building a Kingdom-centered legacy, this episode dives deep into what it means to have a strong foundation to...

In this powerful episode of Loving Me Loving You Loving Us, we sit down with DMV-based couple Drs. Tony and Shewa Awoojodu, who’ve been growing in love since their college days. With two beautiful daughters and a foundation of purpose, and fun, they’ve faced challenges that social media could never tell you. Known for their beautiful aesthetic, power couple energy, and “good vibes only” motto, thi...

This week on Loving Me, Loving You, Loving Us, we’re sitting down with Lordley and Chinelo Okarter — a power couple putting purpose, God, and growth at the center of their love story. Lordley and Chinelo are living proof that love hits different when it’s aligned with something bigger. They’re all about investing in each other, pouring into God’s Kingdom, and making sure their marriage reflects th...

We’re kicking off our new Loving Me, Loving You, Loving Us series with a couple that embodies joy, culture, and connection — the Shofs! This Nigerian-American duo has captured hearts online through their vibrant lifestyle, family-first values, and effortless chemistry. In this episode, Dr. Lara and Memi sit down with the Shofs to unpack their love story — from navigating cultural expectations to b...