Loved Her First

Sometimes life gets busy, our thoughts get loud, and we just need a moment to breathe and talk. In this episode, I’m slowing down and catching up, no notes, no outline, just honesty. We’ll talk about life lately, how I’ve been feeling, and what God’s been showing me in the middle of it all. This one’s a reminder that you don’t have to have it all figured out to still be walking with God. Even in t...

In this episode of  Loved Her First , I’m diving into what it truly means to  be right where God needs you to be  and how that connects to  practicing what you preach . 🌿 Inspired by a conversation with my sorority sister, Ikeiko, and a powerful Sunday school lesson, this episode is a reminder that our words and actions should align with our faith. You don’t have to rush God’s timing, you are exa...

In this episode of  Loved Her First , I’m continuing our journey through  The Bait of Satan  by John Bevere, diving into Chapter 2. This chapter unpacks how offense can trap us, affect our hearts, and distance us from God’s purpose. Together, we’ll read, reflect, and talk about learning to recognize offense before it takes root. 💭✨ Reflection Questions: • What does it mean to  recognize  offense...

In this episode, we’re diving into what it really means to be “too busy for God.” Life gets hectic—work, school, family, social media—but when busyness starts pushing God to the side, something’s off balance. I’ll be sharing ways we can slow down, simple ways to spend time with Him without pressure, and why connecting with God doesn’t have to be perfect or scheduled to be powerful. Scriptures: Mat...

In this episode of  Loved Her First , I’m talking about how God will sometimes start to separate us from certain people, habits, and distractions so He can bring us closer to Him. When God has a greater purpose for your life, the things that once excited you may suddenly feel empty, and the things that once consumed your time may no longer satisfy you. This separation isn’t punishment—it’s prepara...

We all make plans, but God’s plans are always greater. In this episode, I share scriptures, reflections, and personal stories on trusting His will even when it doesn’t match what we pictured. It’s about stepping back, surrendering control, and allowing God to direct our steps because what He has for us is far better than anything we could plan for ourselves. Scriptures: Jeremiah 29:11 Proverbs 16:...

In this episode of  Loved Her First , we dive into Ecclesiastes 3: 1-15 and reflect on the reminder that  “to everything there is a season.” Life comes with seasons of joy and pain, planting and harvesting, building and letting go. No matter what season you find yourself in, God’s timing is perfect and He makes all things beautiful in His time. Join me as we talk about trusting God’s timing, findi...

Offense is something we all face, but how do we deal with it without letting it take root in our hearts? In this episode, I begin reading  The Bait of Satan  by John Bevere and walk through what offense really means, why it’s called a “trap,” and how God’s Word teaches us to respond with forgiveness and grace. Together we’ll look at key scriptures like Luke 17:1, Proverbs 19:11, Ephesians 4:31–32,...

College is a season full of new opportunities, challenges, and transitions, from classes and friendships to organizations. In this episode, I’ll be sharing my personal journey of balancing faith with campus life, including joining a sorority while staying true to who I am in Christ. We’ll talk about identity, pressure, purpose, and how to keep God at the center no matter where life on campus takes...

This episode of  Loved Her First  explores the connection between mental health and faith, how the two can coexist and strengthen each other. I’ll share encouraging Bible verses, personal reflections, and invite two very special guests, my mom and dad to share their wisdom, experiences, and God centered perspectives on caring for both the mind and the soul.

In this episode of  Loved Her First , I’m opening up about the day I got baptized—what led me there, the shift it brought, and the journey that followed. From feeling God tug on my heart in the quiet moments to wrestling with change, this is a look at what it truly means to surrender. If there’s anything you want me to dive deeper into or a topic you’d like to hear more about, feel free to drop a...

Welcome to the first-ever episode of  Loved Her First . In this honest, heart-opening conversation, I’m sharing where the name of this podcast comes from, why it means so much to me, and how my journey with God brought me here. I’ll talk about what led me to start this podcast, how baptism changed me, and why I believe your story—yes, yours—matters, no matter how big or small it may seem. This spa...

Welcome to Loved Her First, the podcast. I’m your host, Jaylah Barlow, and I’m so grateful you’re here. This isn’t just a podcast — it’s a space for real stories, spiritual growth, book readings, and honest conversations about faith, healing, and God’s love. The first episode premieres July 22nd, and I can’t wait to grow with you. Be sure to follow and turn on notifications so you never miss a mom...