Kay van Dunk
Love on the Brain
“Love on the Brain” is a podcast dedicated to helping single, divorced, and widowed women find their soulmates while staying true to their high standards. Each episode provides practical tips, advice, or heartfelt stories that guide you to reframe your questions and break the cycle of hopelessness, helping you attract the soulmate you deserve.
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Kay van Dunk
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Latest episode
May 22, 2025
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Episodes
am I ignoring the signs that this relationship isn’t it? 22.05.2025 12:31
Send a text Are you ignoring deal-breakers or brushing off bad behavior in the hopes that things will improve? In this episode, we explore the importance of discernment when it comes to relationships and how early red flags could be sabotaging your search for your soulmate. If you’ve been ignoring red flags or hoping that things will change, this episode is a must-listen. From emotional manipula...
should I bother with online dating? 15.05.2025 10:41
Send a text Online dating can feel like a chore—but does it have to? You’ll get a grounded perspective on when to use it, how to use it, and what the data actually shows about finding your soulmate online. Listen in to reframe your approach, regain confidence, and learn how to use online dating as a tool—not a crutch. If you’ve felt overwhelmed, disappointed, or just unsure if apps are worth your...
do I have to stay high vibe to attract love? 08.05.2025 11:15
Send a text You’ve been doing all the “right” things. Staying positive, visualizing, journaling...but love still hasn’t shown up. And now you’re wondering: is my energy the problem? This episode is for you if you've ever questioned whether your vibe is blocking your soulmate—or if you're just tired of the pressure to be high-vibe 24/7. Inside, we’re unpacking one of the most common (and...
guided meditation: your love story starts here 01.05.2025 15:25
Send a text What if it was already written? In this episode, you’re not just listening, you’re remembering. Through a gentle, immersive meditation, you’ll drop into the version of you who already knows how your love story ends. Not with waiting. Not with doubt. But with deep certainty, connection, and ease. You’ll feel what it’s like to wake up next to your soulmate, to live the love that’s alrea...
can I find love after 40? 24.04.2025 10:35
Send a text Feel like it might be too late to meet your soulmate? You’re not alone—and this episode is the reframe your love life’s been waiting for. If you’ve ever wondered whether being in your 40s makes finding love harder... or if your confidence, standards, and experience actually make you more magnetic ... this one’s for you. We’re exploring the question so many women silently carry—and offe...
Is something in my life holding love back? 17.04.2025 7:32
Send a text You’re doing the work. You’re open. And still… no soulmate. This episode explores a question that lingers beneath the surface for high-achieving women who know they’re meant for more—but can’t quite name what’s off . If you’ve ever thought, “Is it me?” or “What else do I need to fix?” —this one's for you. Highlights A mindset shift that removes the pressure to “fix” yourself A dee...
is it weird to still want love in this day and age? 17.04.2025 12:51
Send a text As more women step back from dating, we unpack why choosing to stay open to love, especially soulmate love, isn’t outdated… It’s powerful. If you've ever felt like your standards are too high or your heart too hopeful, this episode is your reminder that you're not alone. And you're not wrong for still wanting something extraordinary. Highlights Surprising new stats about...
how do I build my self esteem while I'm looking for love? 03.04.2025 10:35
Send a text Wondering how to build your self-esteem while you’re single? In today’s episode, we explore how to use your time as a single woman to boost your self-worth and confidence. Let’s shift from feeling incomplete to embracing the opportunity for personal growth that singlehood offers. Highlights: Embrace the Opportunity of Singleness – How being single can be your time to become the best ve...
is everyone in a relationship but me? 27.03.2025 7:10
Send a text Feeling like you're the last single one standing? In today’s episode, we’re exploring why it can seem like everyone else is in a relationship except you. Let’s break down the comparison trap, shift your perspective, and reconnect with the confidence that your soulmate is on their way. Highlights : Why comparison isn’t a true reflection of what’s possible for you How to spot relati...
have gender wars distorted my view of love? 20.03.2025 11:52
Send a text In this episode, we're diving into the impact of gender war discourse on your view of love. Whether it's influencer content, online debates, or the algorithm, it all boils down to negativity and division Highlights : How online debates create a false narrative about love and relationships. The danger of being trapped in echo chambers that feed negativity. Why stepping away fr...
why do I feel lonely even when I'm with loved ones? 13.03.2025 7:41
Send a text Feeling lonely, even when surrounded by loved ones? In today’s episode, we’re diving into why that happens and what you can do about it. Sometimes, even the people closest to us can’t fill that deep need for connection, and it’s important to understand why. We’ll explore how to reconnect with yourself, get clear on what you need, and shift your focus to build deeper, more fulfilling co...
how can I use afformations to find love? 06.03.2025 6:30
Send a text In this episode, we dive into how to use afformations to interrupt negative thought patterns and support your journey to finding love. They serve as a powerful tool to stay aligned with the possibility of meeting your soulmate, even during tough moments. Key Highlights: What afformations are and how they work to reframe negative thoughts. How asking the right questions can open new pos...
am I delusional? 12.02.2025 9:53
Send a text High standards in dating are important, but when do they cross the line into delusion? This episode unpacks the fine balance between having strong preferences and creating unrealistic expectations. Learn how alignment—not just a checklist—attracts soulmate love and why the magic of connection happens when you show up as your best self. Highlights: Rethinking High Standards – When expec...
New Year, New You 2025 01.02.2025 9:04
Send a text Stepping into a new year is the perfect time to reset how you approach love and attraction. Instead of forcing outcomes, this is the year to fine-tune your energy, clear subconscious blocks, and create space for soulmate love to unfold in the most aligned way. Highlights: Releasing the Pressure – How to shift from rigid expectations to a more expansive approach to love. Fine-Tuning for...
how do I deal with rejection? 14.01.2025 7:23
Send a text In this episode, we explore how to shift your perspective on rejection and view it as a redirection toward the right person. It’s not about your worth—it’s about fit. Each experience helps you refine what you truly want in a soulmate, moving you closer to your perfect match. Highlights: Rejection as Redirection: Why every “no” brings you closer to a “yes” and how it helps you clari...
What’s the secret behind Zendaya and Selena Gomez’s engagements? 07.01.2025 7:59
Send a text The recent engagements of Zendaya & Tom Holland and Selena Gomez & Benny Blanco have sparked a lot of conversations. People are quick to judge the men in these relationships based on looks, and the comparisons to their successful, glamorous fiancés are hard to ignore. But here’s the thing—there’s something much deeper happening in these connections. While the world focuses on...
why is it so hard to believe I’m worthy of love? 31.12.2024 8:02
Send a text In this episode, we explore how to shift your perspective on rejection and view it as a redirection toward the right person. It’s not about your worth—it’s about fit. Each experience helps you refine what you truly want in a soulmate, moving you closer to your perfect match. Highlights : Rejection as Redirection: Why every “no” brings you closer to a “yes” and how it helps you clarify...
What should I prioritize when looking for a partner? 24.12.2024 9:16
Send a text Finding your soulmate is about focusing on what truly matters. This episode explores the importance of non-negotiables, shared values, and long-term alignment in a relationship. Learn how to navigate distractions and stay true to your vision for soulmate love. Highlights: Focusing on Non-Negotiables – Identify what matters most to you in a partner and stick to it. Looking Beyond Sur...
Am I avoiding love to keep my independence? 17.12.2024 8:46
Send a text Feeling torn between wanting love and maintaining your independence? In today’s episode, we dive deep into the fear many successful women have about losing themselves in a relationship. We’ll explore the balance between autonomy and love, and how to attract a soulmate who truly supports your individuality while offering mutual growth and support. Highlights: Fear of Losing Independe...
Am I being too accommodating in picking a soulmate? 10.12.2024 7:36
Send a text In this episode, we dive into the question of whether you’re being too accommodating in your quest for love. We examine how societal pressures can push you to settle and how to find a balance between being open-minded and maintaining your standards. Highlights The challenge of balancing openness with personal boundaries in dating. Understanding your non-negotiables, dealbreakers, and p...
Am I being too picky about choosing a soulmate? 10.12.2024 7:38
Send a text Is there such a thing as being too picky when it comes to finding your soulmate? In this two-part episode, we explore the delicate balance between discerning standards and staying open to possibilities. If you're wondering whether your preferences might be limiting your chances at soulmate love, tune in for guidance on finding alignment in your relationship goals. Highlights: Navi...
Why haven't I met my soulmate yet? 03.12.2024 6:49
Send a text Feeling like your soulmate search has gone on forever? In today’s episode, we’re diving into why it can feel so hard to meet “the one” despite all your efforts. Let’s explore the common blocks that may be holding you back from aligning with soulmate love and shift into a mindset that truly invites in the love you’re ready for. Highlights: Identifying Internal Blocks – Explore the s...
Special Holiday Edition!: How do I get into the holiday spirit when I'm conflicted about being single? 26.11.2024 10:38
Send a text Navigating the holidays while single can bring up conflicting emotions, especially when family gatherings and social pressures intensify your longing for a relationship. In this episode, we’re flipping the script on the usual holiday stress and creating a self-preservation toolkit to help you feel grounded, joyful, and confident during this festive season. Highlights A practical sel...
What am I doing wrong in my dating life? 19.11.2024 9:47
Send a text Wondering if you’re doing something wrong in your dating life? Today’s episode of Love on the Brain takes you through a powerful mindset shift to help you stop self-blame and focus on aligning with your soulmate. Highlights: Recognize Dating Patterns – Identify and address recurring behaviors that could be blocking you from attracting soulmate-level love. Release Self-Blame – Shift...
Is there really someone out there for me? 12.11.2024 8:18
Send a text Wondering if there’s truly someone out there for you? If you're feeling disheartened after heartbreak or a long search for love, you're not alone. The fear of never finding your soulmate is real, but what if your soulmate is closer than you think? In this episode, we’ll talk about the one problem standing in your way when you start thinking like this. Highlights Breaking Fr...
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