Love How Deep Marriage Podcast

Isaiah 43:18–19: Letting Go of the Past and Trusting God's New Thing   Heather from "Love, how Deep" shares her favorite Bible passage, Isaiah 43:18–19, and breaks it down phrase by phrase.   She explains that "forget the former things" doesn't mean erasing memories, but choosing to give past hurts, mistakes, and even good things to God so He can heal and move you into a new chapter. She emphasize...

Why Jesus Was Alone: Prayer, Rest, and Preparation Heather from Love How Deep reflects on how being alone can feel recharging or lonely, then explores times Jesus was alone in the Bible and what it meant. She cites Matthew 4:1–2, where Jesus is led into the desert to fast for 40 days, face temptation, and prepare for ministry, modeling resistance through God's Word. In Luke 6:12–13, Jesus spends t...

Living by the Spirit: The Fruit of the Spirit as a Marriage Roadmap Heather from Love. How Deep. asks what it means to "live by the Spirit," referencing Galatians 5:16 and the fruit of the Spirit in 5:22, describing it as one fruit with nine "segments" that reveal spiritual health and godly character. She applies each segment—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness...

In the conclusion of her two-part testimony, Heather goes deeper into the "aftermath" of a destructive marriage. This isn't just a story of surviving abuse; it's a masterclass in how God "recycles" our deepest pains into our greatest purposes. Heather discusses the struggle of letting down "The Mask," the fear of trusting again, and the divine orchestration that led to her marriage with Brian. If...

Part 3: The Hard Road to Freedom: Legacy from the Ashes Recovery isn't a straight line; it's an onion. In the final installment of this series, Heather walks us through the "after"—the actual divorce, the realization of abuse, and the slow, intentional construction of a new life. This is where "Love How Deep" was born. Summary: In our final episode, we explore the messy reality of starting over. H...

Episode 2: The Turning Point: Finding a Face in the Fire Most people wait for their circumstances to change before they seek peace. Heather did the opposite. In this episode, she recounts the moment she stopped praying for her marriage to be fixed and started praying for her soul to be found. Summary: Episode 2 takes us into the eye of the storm. While her marriage was at its most "horrific" and t...

Part 1: The Hidden Crisis: When "I Do" Becomes a Lie What do you do when the person who promised to love you forever suddenly becomes a stranger? Heather opens the vault on her early years, revealing the painful transition from a hopeful 21-year-old bride to a woman living a double life. This isn't just a story about a breakup; it's a masterclass in recognizing the "silent" red flags of a destruct...

Episode Title: What Every Husband Gets Wrong About Marriage Podcast: Love How Deep Hosts: Brian & Heather Episode Summary: Fellas, are you feeling the pressure of being the spiritual head of your house? In this episode, Brian puts the men on the hot seat—but with a lot of grace. He breaks down the common pitfalls of husbandhood, from the tendency to retreat into an "isolated cave" to the misunders...

Episode Title: Am I Measuring Up as a Wife? The Proverbs 31 Standard Podcast: Love How Deep Hosts: Heather & Brian Episode Summary: Does the Proverbs 31 woman make you feel "about an inch tall"? You aren't alone. In this episode, Heather and Brian dive into the famous (and often exhausting) biblical standard for wives. Heather shares how modern women are juggling a "12-lane highway" of responsibil...

Episode Title: Peeling Away the Layers in Life and Love Podcast: Love How Deep Hosts: Heather & Brian Episode Summary: A cold winter drive and a vibrant blue sky led Heather to a "Google rabbit hole" about a mysterious white tree. In this episode, Brian and Heather explore the American Sycamore and why its peeling bark is the perfect metaphor for how God works in our lives and marriages. From "arm...

Episode Title: The Marriage Problem Nobody Talks About | Prayer Podcast: Love How Deep Hosts: Heather & Brian Episode Summary: Why is it that we can talk to our spouses about everything—from finances to what's for dinner—but the moment we suggest praying together out loud, it feels "weird" or "awkward"? In this episode, Brian and Heather tackle the silent struggle in many Christian marriages: the...

Episode Title: The Love Spiral: Finding Your Way Up Podcast: Love How Deep Host: [Your Name] Guest: [Guest Name/Expertise, if applicable] Episode Number: [00X] Episode Summary Have you ever felt like your relationship is stuck in a downward spiral? One small disagreement leads to a week of cold shoulders, and suddenly you're tallying up every mistake your partner has ever made. In this episode, we...

Creating a Purposeful Marriage: The Power of a Mission Statement   In this episode, the host discusses the importance of having a clear mission statement in a marriage to prevent drifting and to build a purposeful life together. Sharing personal anecdotes, the host emphasizes the value of mutual support, understanding each other's dreams, and creating a spiritual foundation based on Christian prin...

Avoiding the Roommate Phase: Daily Deposits in Marriage   Brian from Love How Deep discusses the dangers of the 'roommate phase' in marriage, where couples become excellent at logistics but lose their emotional connection. He introduces the concept of the Daily Deposit Principle, highlighting the importance of consistent, small acts of kindness and attention to build 'emotional bank accounts.' By...

Bridging the Communication Gap in Relationships   Brian from Love How Deep offers advice for couples struggling with communication problems in their relationships. He discusses why communication often breaks down and how to address underlying issues rather than surface disputes.   The episode introduces practical strategies like the 'ten-second buffer' and creating a 'vulnerability culture' to fos...

Have you ever received a beautifully wrapped gift—complete with the perfect bow and silver paper—and just let it sit there? Of course not! The excitement of a gift comes from opening it to see what's inside. In this episode, Heather shares a powerful metaphor: Your marriage is a gift from God. But often, life gets messy. The "cats" of life chew on the bow, the paper gets torn, and sometimes we get...

Get Our Online Course on The Power of Forgiveness Here: https://www.lovehowdeep.com/the-power-of-forgiveness-online-course In this episode, Brian and Heather from Love How Deep discuss the impact of small issues on marriage rather than the large, dramatic events. They emphasize the importance of 'bearing with each other' and addressing grievances in a loving and forgiving manner. Referencing Colos...

Get our Free Communication Guide Here: https://love-how-deep.kit.com/practical-communication-strategies In this Love How Deep episode, hosts Heather and Brian explore the biblical scripture from 2 Corinthians 9:6-7, traditionally associated with financial generosity, and reinterpret its application within the context of marriage. They emphasize 'sowing seeds' of spiritual fruit—love, joy, peace, p...

Get The Online Course on The Power of Forgiveness Here: https://www.lovehowdeep.com/the-power-of-forgiveness-online-course Letting Go of Past Mistakes in Marriage | Lessons from John 8 In this episode of 'Love How Deep,' hosts Brian and Heather delve into the challenges of bringing up past mistakes in marriage conflicts. They reference the biblical passage from John chapter 8, where Jesus addresse...

Get the Love How Deep Newsletter: http://www.lovehowdeep.com/newsletter In this episode, Heather and Brian from Love How Deep address a common struggle many couples face: feeling that their marriage isn't what they hoped it would be. They dive into an unconventional scripture from Philippians 3:12-14, exploring how its teachings can be applied to strengthen marriages. Heather and Brian analyze the...

Click Here to Get our Online Forgiveness Course: https://www.lovehowdeep.com/the-power-of-forgiveness-online-course In this episode, Brian and Heather from Love How Deep discuss the importance of taking online courses to improve communication and connection in marriage. They share their personal experiences with online courses and highlight the benefits such as gaining wisdom, understanding, and k...

Check Out our Marriage Communication Webinar Here: https://www.lovehowdeep.com/communication-experience-webinar Is a Marriage Webinar Right for You? | Love How Deep Podcast Episode 110 In this episode of the Love How Deep Podcast, hosts Heather and Brian explore the benefits and relevance of marriage webinars for couples at any stage of their relationship. Whether you're newlyweds or have been mar...

Big or Small Hurt in Your Marriage: Take Our Forgiveness Course With Your Spouse Today: https://www.lovehowdeep.com/the-power-of-forgiveness-online-course In this episode of Love How Deep, solo host Brian Mayer addresses husbands who aspire to be the spiritual head of their households but struggle with knowing how to do so. Brian shares personal experiences and offers practical advice on how to le...

Welcome Back to the Love How Deep Podcast! In this episode of the Love How Deep podcast, host Brian Mayer sits down with special guest Christopher Falconer, an author and expert on cultivating enduring love in marriages. They delve into the essence of lasting love, drawing from real-life experiences and biblical principles, particularly from 1 Corinthians 13. Christopher shares personal anecdotes...

Managing Money as a Couple: Balancing Finances and Family Values with Gino and Julia Barbaro  In this episode of The Love How Deep Podcast, hosts Brian and Heather Mayer dive into the important topic of managing money as a couple without compromising family values. Joined by special guests Gino and Julia Barbaro, the conversation covers their personal journey of overcoming financial challenges and...