Love, Brie

Hi! I'm back! at least for this week. Today's episode is a little more personal and raw!!! I’m sharing why I became a dating and relationships writer in the first place—and how my perspective on love, connection, and modern dating is evolving in real time. From where I think dating is headed to what I hope it could become, this is an honest update on what I’m learning (and unlearning). I t...

In this episode of Love, Brie , we’re spilling all the tea on dating younger men, age-gap relationships, and what love after 40 and 50 really looks like. I chat with Leslie Morgan Steiner , bestselling author and modern-love maven, about how dating younger men liberated her, challenged society’s rules, and gave her a whole new perspective on attraction. We dish on all the juicy stuff: the myths of...

In this episode, I reflect on my 2025 dating journey and the lessons learned along the way. From navigating textuationships to dating outside my usual type, I share how I embraced intentional dating and learned to value genuine connection. I explore why good grammar doesn’t replace real-life action, the importance of chemistry over “fine,” and why coffee dates sometimes need a playful twist. Plus,...

n this episode of Love, Brie , I’m diving into what it really feels like to navigate the holidays as a single 42-year-old woman — and how to actually enjoy it. If the season has ever made you feel behind, lonely, or like you need a partner to make things “magical,” this episode is your reminder that your life isn’t missing anything. You’re allowed to have a beautiful, meaningful holiday on your ow...

On this episode of Love, Brie , I chat with Annette Benedetti, a Portland-based sex and intimacy coach and host of the globally acclaimed podcast Talk Sex With Annette (ranked in the top 2.5% worldwide!). Annette shares her bold and fascinating personal experiment: having an orgasm every single day for a year. We dive into her journey, exploring how dedicating yourself to daily orgasms can help yo...

I don’t do well in the early stages of dating—and I’ve finally accepted it. In this episode of Love, Brie , I share what I’ve realized about myself: I thrive as someone’s girlfriend, but the back-and-forth uncertainty of “getting to know you” is draining. I get candid about my own dating life, the patterns I’m noticing, and how I’m navigating the unsteady world of modern romance. If you’ve ever wo...

This week on Love, Brie , we’re entering our Soft Girl Cuffing Season Era . Inspired by my recent Substack essay , I’m embracing this season with softness, warmth, and playful receiving energy — no chasing, no forcing, just trusting that the right connection will meet me where I am. In this episode, I share why I'm embracing my soft girl era at 42! As well as my soft girl Cuffing Commandments...

Does dating often feel like a horror movie? On this episode of Love, Brie, I sit down with author and podcast hotst Rory Uphold ( Crimes of the Heart , Sundance Fellow, TV writer) to talk about her upcoming book A FINAL GIRL’S GUIDE TO THE HORRORS OF DATING . We dive into ghosting, love-bombing vampires, and why some exes belong in the relationship graveyard. Plus, we swap personal dating disaster...

Confession: I swiped like a maniac on dating apps last week — and realized my needy energy was sabotaging my love life. In this episode, I get real about the subconscious patterns that make me overextend, chase the wrong men, and stay stuck on the ones who aren’t right for me. I share how I’m rewriting my dating life by: acknowledging my feelings, setting clear boundaries, cleaning up my matches,...

Dating used to terrify me. I didn’t know what I wanted, I was scared of rejection, and honestly? I was scared of letting someone into my life. But somewhere along the way, I realized dating doesn’t have to be a chore — it can actually be fun. In this episode of Love, Brie , I talk about how to bring joy, curiosity, and lightness back to dating without the pressure, burnout, or endless swiping. Bas...

This week, I’m joined by holistic sex coach and yoga instructor Jenna Switzer for a liberating conversation about sexuality in our 40s and beyond. We talk about why this stage of life can feel so freeing, how to care for ourselves and our pleasure, and what it means to put our sexual health and well-being first. If you’ve ever wondered what it looks like to embrace your desires, prioritize your pl...

Rejection stings, but it’s not the enemy—it’s actually a sign you’re on the right path in dating. In this episode of Love, Brie , I share how I’ve learned to reframe rejection as something to be proud of, not ashamed of. Every “no” isn’t proof that you’re failing—it’s proof that you’re showing up and moving closer to your “yes.” We’ll talk about why rejection is part of the process, how to get com...

Hi friends! Big news — my very first dating advice column with Yahoo Canada is out, and I couldn’t be more excited to share it with you. In this episode of Love, Brie , I talk about what it was like stepping into that advice-columnist role (spoiler: it feels a little surreal!) and why the old saying “happy wife doesn’t equal happy life” needs a serious update. Then I dive into my own recent first...

Dating these days is…a lot. From endless swiping on Hinge and Bumble to awkward talking stages that never seem to end, it can feel like finding love is a full-time job. That’s why I brought in matchmaker Cassindy Chao for this week’s episode of Love, Brie . We break down what a matchmaker actually does (hint: it’s not just setting you up on blind dates), why you might want to hire one, and how mat...

What’s it really like to date while writing about relationships, love, and modern dating trends? In this episode, I share my personal experiences navigating the dating world as a relationship columnist and writer. I dive into the challenges of dating, from first impressions to online dating, and how writing about love changes the way I approach men and romance. I also discuss the perks and pitfall...

Even relationship writers can miss the obvious red flags in dating. In this episode, I share the relationship blind spots that kept me from seeing the signs of unhealthy relationships, the dating mistakes I made, and why they were so easy to overlook at the time. You’ll hear how hindsight changes everything, why self-compassion matters more than self-blame, and the biggest lessons I’ve learned abo...

In this episode of Love, Brie , I’m diving into the messy, performative world of modern dating apps — from why I don’t think they’re a fit for me to what I’ve noticed about the lack of real connection they often create. I talk about how “traveling” has somehow become a placeholder for personality, and how we’ve started curating our dating profiles more for performance than connection. I also share...

In this episode of Love, Brie , I’m officially announcing my brand new dating advice column with Yahoo! Canada -- and yes, it’s specifically for those of us navigating love and lust in our 40s. I also give some juicy updates on my personal love life, including the latest on the surgeon situationship (it's done, but I learned some lessons!) and that mysterious missed connection at Starbucks (wa...

Let’s have a little come-to-Jesus moment, shall we? In this episode of Love, Brie , I’m delivering a much-needed pep talk for anyone hanging onto the hope that maybe he’ll change once he “commits.” Spoiler alert: he won’t . If he’s confused now, if he’s inconsistent now, if he’s not choosing you now — guess what? A relationship isn’t going to magically fix that. In fact, committing to a man like t...

today I’m talking about something I'm calling: my meeting season . That subtle, sacred shift from simply being single to knowing, or at least hoping, that you're entering the season where love shows up. The season of “almosts” turning into “oh, this could be something.” I woke up feeling a little heavy this morning — not because I don’t love my single life (I do, deeply), but because I’m human. An...

In this powerful episode of Love, Brie , I’m joined by intuitive energy healer Missy Toy Ozeas to explore how our subconscious blocks around love, dating, and even money are deeply interconnected. This conversation is part of my “Single Series” (originally aired on my previous podcast), and it’s one of the most insightful, eye-opening chats I’ve had around what’s really keeping so many of us stuck...

In this episode of Love, Brie , I’m diving into one of the most overlooked parts of modern dating: how to do intimacy without commitment — and do it like a grown-up. Too often, casual connections lack the honesty, respect, and emotional maturity that make them feel good for everyone involved. I talk about why it’s so important to take casual relationships seriously, communicate clearly, and be upf...

You don’t want him obsessed with you — you need to be obsessed with you . This week on Love, Brie , I’m diving into the dating trend that’s taken over TikTok and beyond: women saying they only want a man who's “obsessed” with them. And honestly? That energy is not it. Here’s the thing — you don’t actually want that. In this episode, I’m breaking down why that obsession talk doesn’t sit right with...

What does it mean to have a “breakup body”—and can it be more about healing than revenge? In this episode of Love, Brie , I sit down with certified life coach and spin instructor Bangs to talk about the powerful connection between movement, self-love, and being single . We unpack the myth of the breakup body, how to stop fighting your body, and why movement is the ultimate act of self-care . Bangs...

In this solo episode of Love, Brie , I go on a bit of a rant (surprise!) about the state of modern dating and what I’ve been noticing lately — more detachment, more aloofness, and a lot less actual connection. It feels like everyone is trying to date like a black cat : cool, mysterious, unavailable. But here’s the truth — that vibe might be aesthetic on Instagram, but it’s not sustainable when you...