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Love Bombed

Society EN ↓ 34 episodes

Vicky Pattison investigates romance fraud, exploring extreme cases of love bombing, lies and psychological manipulation. Victims share their stories and experts discuss how we, as a society, can affect change. Series 4. WifeHunterUncovering one the UK’s most prolific Lovebombers, Raymond McDonald. Despite a court ban he is still on dating apps and talking to women. One of them is us. Previously on Love Bombed: Series 3. Love Bombed Presents...BetrayedVicky Pattison explores double lives, mental trickery, manipulation and love. Series 2. Who is Alex? A story of survival after a woman nearly los...

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Latest episode

Mar 20, 2026

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Episodes

WifeHunter: 6. Whose Problem is Ray McDonald? 20.03.2026

Vicky Pattison wonders what it would take to stop Ray MacDonald offending, after his seven jail sentences imposed to-date, across two decades. Vicky looks at the court system and its limitations, laws surrounding dating apps and asks whether there’s anything that could prevent Ray from pursuing the women he targets. Love Bombed: WifeHunter presented by Vicky Pattison. Writer and Producer: Jane Dow...

WifeHunter: 5. Waiting for answers 13.03.2026

Ray McDonald agrees to an interview after being rumbled using dating apps under a false name. Meanwhile, Vicky catches up with some of the women whose lives have been turned upside down by Ray and discovers why it’s so hard for victims of romance fraud to rebuild their lives. Love Bombed: WifeHunter presented by Vicky Pattison. Writer and Producer: Jane Downs and Barney Rowntree. Investigative rep...

WifeHunter: 4. A Date with Ray 06.03.2026

Ray McDonald is out of prison. He’s already broken his restraining order banning him from dating apps and is on a website posing as “Rob from York”. Vicky’s production team arrange a date with his latest alter ego. They witness first-hand the tried and tested love bombing techniques that Ray has used for years before finally confronting him. Love Bombed: WifeHunter presented by Vicky Pattison. Wri...

WifeHunter: 3. The Making of a Conman 27.02.2026

Vicky Pattison explores Ray McDonald’s past, asking those who know him best why they think he has spent decades scamming people. Vicky asks whether time spent in the army may have given Ray the skills to be a better conman and hears how his refusal to deal with any fallout from his lies has affected his family life. Love Bombed: WifeHunter presented by Vicky Pattison. Writer and Producer: Jane Dow...

WifeHunter: 2. Morning ‘til Night 20.02.2026

As the extent of Ray McDonald’s repeat offending starts to become clear, Vicky discovers he has been released from his latest sentence. Vicky hears from Susan who went to school with Ray McDonald in County Durham. She grew up with him but that didn’t stop him from ruining her life. Love Bombed: WifeHunter presented by Vicky Pattison. Writer and Producer: Jane Downs and Barney Rowntree. Investigati...

WifeHunter: 1. Hit by a Train 13.02.2026

Vicky Pattison meets Caroline, who lost her home after matching with prolific romance fraudster Raymond McDonald on a dating site. McDonald was posing as Mark Swift, a stressed-out chef with a seriously ill daughter. Within six months he had proposed, emptied Caroline’s bank account and left her with suspected PTSD. Caroline was in court when McDonald was sent to prison for defrauding her and thre...

WifeHunter: Trailer 12.02.2026

Vicky Pattison uncovers one the UK’s most disturbing and prolific Lovebombers, Raymond McDonald. Discover how one man has been able to repeatedly invent new personas online and use them to scam unsuspecting women for more than twenty years. Despite a court ban he is still on dating apps and talking to women. One of them is us. Have you been love bombed? Tell us your story at lovebombed@bbc.co.uk ....

Love Bombed Presents: Betrayed: Bonus: Celebrity Scammers 10.02.2025

Vicky Pattison talks to author Becky Holmes who has turned the tables on scammers who pretend to be celebrities. They attempt to contact “Elon Musk” and recreate conversations with “Mick Jagger” and “Keanu Reeves” - all spelling and grammatic errors are the fraudsters own. If you have been affected by a scam or fraud, there's help available via bbc.co.uk/actionline on the 'Fraud & Scams" page....

Love Bombed Presents: Betrayed: 5. Michelle 10.02.2025

A passionate love affair, a clash of cultures, was Michelle's relationship really a romance fraud? Have you been love-bombed? Tell us your story at lovebombed@bbc.co.uk . Visit bbc.co.uk/actionline for help and support on issues raised in this series.

Love Bombed Presents: Betrayed: 4. Suzanne 03.02.2025

A lockdown friendship sent Suzanne and her business into a spin.

Love Bombed Presents: Betrayed: 3. Rod 03.02.2025

A betrayal by a friend dashes the retirement dream of former aid-worker Rod.

Love Bombed Presents: Betrayed: 2. Fionna 31.01.2025

An online relationship with someone who seemed familiar threatened Fionna and her family.

Love Bombed Presents: Betrayed: 1. Priya 31.01.2025

Priya thought he was the love of her life, so why did he want her family heirlooms?

Love Bombed Presents: Betrayed: Trailer 27.01.2025

Vicky Pattison explores romance fraud, deception and mental manipulation with people who want to speak up to help expose this crime. Plus a bonus episode with author Becky Holmes who turns the tables on the scammers that lurk online pretending to be celebrities.

Series 2: Who is Alex?: 9. What's Next for Sarah? 13.02.2024

Sarah shares why she wanted to tell her story.

Series 2: Who is Alex?: 8. Fake Tech 13.02.2024

Exploring how technology can mask someone’s identity. Anna Rowe, LoveSaid website co-founder, shares how scammers are staying one step ahead. Featuring “This is not Morgan Freeman: A Deepfake Singularity”. Concept and deep fake by Bob de Jong. Freeman's voice is imitated by the Boet Schouwink.

Series 2: Who is Alex?: 7. Talking to a Ghost 13.02.2024

A former scammer based in Nigeria shares his secrets about the world of West African romance fraud.

Series 2: Who is Alex?: 6. Policing Romance Fraud 13.02.2024

Follow DI Duncan Wynn from Thames Valley Police and his “high harm unit” as they investigate and support victims.

Series 2: Who is Alex?: 5. At the Police Station 13.02.2024

Sarah suspects something isn't quite right when she asks Alex for proof of his identity and he sends a passport in a different name. Contains themes of mental distress and suicide. Visit bbc.co.uk/actionline for sources of help and support.

Series 2: Who is Alex?: 4. A Valentine’s Day to Remember 13.02.2024

Sarah is going to the airport to meet Alex for the very first time. He has sent her the details of his Lagos flight from Nigeria and Sarah is waiting in Arrivals full of anticipation and excitement.

Series 2: Who is Alex?: 3. Late Night Online 13.02.2024

Alex and Sarah get more intimate sharing sexy images, they also make birthday plans for Alex's 12-year-old daughter, Cassie. With insights from forensic linguist and criminologist Dr Elisabeth Carter of Kingston University.

Series 2: Who is Alex?: 2. Falling in Love 13.02.2024

Sarah is looking for a loving relationship outside family responsibilities, Alex and her share lots in common, with promises made to build a life together. Could this be love?

Series 2: Who is Alex?: 1. My Dream Man 13.02.2024

Sarah meets “Alex” online after a friend persuades her to sign up to dating website.

Series 2: Who is Alex?: Trailer 13.02.2024

Vicky Pattison explores the story of a woman who was the target of an online fraudster.

Series 1: Who is James Scott?: 9. Why Did He Do It? 13.02.2023

Businesses from across Tyneside line up with Coleen and Karen to help bring Greg Wilson to justice. Vicky asks "what was in it for him?" and explores how the deception continues to affect those who were caught up in it the most. Have you been love bombed? Tell us your story at lovebombed@bbc.co.uk . Writer/Producer: Jon Douglas. Technical producer: Ollie Peart. Online Producer: Rachael Smith. Exec...

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