Love Always, Jess

In this episode, I discuss the unique financial challenges that men face today, rooted in societal expectations and traditional roles. I share personal anecdotes about sleep issues due to noisy neighbors and the stress of early morning routines. I emphasize the historical and ongoing pressures on men to be providers, the societal trends reinforcing these expectations, and how these pressures impac...

In this episode, the discussion revolves around the top six common sexual concerns for women, including low or no sexual desire, pre-orgasmic primary and secondary issues, dyspareunia, body dysphoria, and sexual inhibitions. Causes, such as aging, relationship conflicts, body image issues, fatigue, history of abuse, lack of sexual education for partners, and sexually repressive upbringings are exp...

In this episode, we discuss various challenges that men face regarding their sexual health and performance. They cover six common concerns: erectile dysfunction, body dysphoria issues, early ejaculation, low or no sexual desire, sexual inhibition, and delayed ejaculation. The episode provides insights, possible causes, and potential resolutions for each concern. Listeners are encouraged to seek pr...

In this deeply personal episode, I discuss how grief can profoundly affect both financial situations and sexual relationships. Sharing from personal experience, the episode covers the emotional and financial challenges faced after the passing of a loved one, and how the stress and sadness can lead to unexpected financial decisions and impact one's sex life. It is important to take the time to proc...

In this episode, we discuss the nuances of gender identity, biological sex, sexual orientation, and gender expression. This is your invitation to explore without judgement. Tune it for guidance for those exploring your sexuality, and diving into the importance of self-acceptance and understanding. The episode also covers practical advice for supporting friends and family members who are navigating...

In the final episode of the 'Sex and Money with Jess, I reflect on the 24-episode journey thus far, expressing gratitude to listeners and summarizing the series' insights. This episode is all about personal sexual exploration, encouraging listeners to revisit the questions from episode 23 to better understand their own and their partner's sexual needs. I share my own personal experiences with soci...

In this episode, I encourage you to take a reflective approach to your sex life by answering a series of thought-provoking questions. Communication and self-awareness are so key to having a great sex life in this episode I provide a list of questions for you to reflect on with yourself or with your partner. These questions are designed to help you explore and open yourself up around your sexuality...

In this episode, we dive into the often taboo topic of self-exploration and self-pleasure. This is a subject that can evoke a range of emotions from discomfort to excitement. Societal and familial reactions to children's natural curiosity about their bodies can create lasting feelings of shame or guilt. I encourage you to reconsider these conditioned responses and to embrace self-exploration as a...

In this episode I talk about an experience with a book club book that really highlighted how different our perspectives on sex can be. I'm open about talking about sex—I even do pole dancing shows and am starting this podcast about becoming a sex coach. My coworkers have shared their sex lives with me, and I've done the same. Hearing their thoughts on the book was fascinating because it reminded m...

Welcome to today's podcast episode! Let's dive into today's topic: sex. When it comes to money, we all want more. But with sex, it's not always about quantity—it's about what you need and deserve. Your libido, preferences, and relationship dynamics all play a role. So, take a moment to reflect: What do you feel is missing from your sex life? Maybe you're content, and that's great. But if not, it's...

In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of time and how it affects our lives. Time seems to speed up as we get older and it feels like there's never enough time to accomplish everything we want. Societal pressures and expectations around sex can make us feel like we're running out of time or that we're somehow "late to the game." I share about my own journey with sex, from feeling pressured...

In today's episode, we dive deep into the struggles we face when it comes to sex. Life throws us curveballs, whether it's navigating new relationships, dealing with physical pain, or adjusting to changing circumstances. It's a journey filled with highs and lows, but amidst the challenges, there's always hope. Navigating the complexities of sex and intimacy requires patience and self-reflection. It...

Hey there, welcome back to another week of Sex and Money with Jess! I'm thrilled to dive into our ongoing conversation about, you guessed it, sex and money. Today, we're exploring a topic that's pretty relatable: quick fixes. So, let's talk about it. Quick fixes can seem like the perfect solution, whether it's about money or relationships, but here's the catch: they usually don't address the under...

In this episode, we dive deep into the often-avoided topic of sex and the importance of having open conversations about it. We explore various aspects, from discussing preferences with your partner to educating children about consent and bodily autonomy. Sex is a topic that many find uncomfortable, but it's crucial to break down the barriers and have honest discussions. We share personal experienc...

TW: Sexual Assualt 37:03-40:48 In today's episode, we're delving into a heavy but important topic: shame when it comes to sex. Before we start, I want to give a trigger warning - we'll be discussing instances of sexual assault because shame often intersects with those experiences. If you need to skip those parts, I'll include timestamps in the show notes to make it easier for you. And let me say t...

In today's episode, we're diving into a topic that's been on my mind a lot lately: self-love and its connection to sex and relationships. We've all heard the mantra that we need to love ourselves fully before we can find love elsewhere. But is that really true? I've been pondering this question, and here's what I've realized: self-love isn't a destination; it's a journey. We're constantly evolving...

Welcome to today's episode of "Sex and Money with Jess." We're embarking on a new series of episodes, shifting our focus from money to the equally important topic of sex. In the initial 12 episodes, we delved into various aspects of finances, exploring emotions, organization, and intimacy with money. But today, let's open up the conversation around sex. It's a topic often shrouded in silence by so...

In our final episode of this series, I want to touch on something we've all grappled with—money. Whether it's overcoming debt, navigating pay raises, or planning for the future, the journey to financial stability is often fraught with uncertainty and self-doubt. But here's the thing—we're all in this together. From navigating student loans to grappling with societal pressures, each of us has our o...

Welcome back to "Sex and Money with Jess," where we explore the intimate relationship between personal empowerment, sex, and finances. In this episode, we continue our journey into financial management by diving into the third part of our structure: making changes and planning for the future. After organizing our finances and gaining a deep understanding of our numbers, we've laid the groundwork f...

Welcome back to "Sex and Money with Jess." In today's episode, we continued our journey into financial empowerment by diving into the second part of my framework—getting intimate with your finances. Last week, we tackled organizing your finances, and this week, we're taking a closer look at where your money is actually going. Understanding the flow of your money is crucial. It's about getting down...

Hey everyone, Jess here! In our latest episode of "Sex and Money with Jess," we dove into the crucial first step of my three-part process for achieving financial intimacy: organization. I shared my passion for getting up close and personal with your finances, just like you would in a relationship, to build a strong foundation for growth and understanding. We talked about the importance of not just...

Hey everyone, Jess here! In our latest episode of "Sex and Money with Jess," we dove into the empowering world of personal finance. I shared insights on how to carve out your own financial path, emphasizing the importance of making decisions that resonate with your unique life story and goals. We discussed the common trap of following others' financial advice without considering if it aligns with...

In today's episode we tackled the empowering topic of asking for more money and recognizing your worth. We delved into the current climate where workers are advocating for fair compensation and the importance of understanding your value in the workplace. I shared my personal journey of going from a $50,000 salary at a gaming company to being put on probation and facing a pay cut, to eventually lan...

In this episode of Sex and Money with Jess, I delve into the importance of starting your financial journey, regardless of your age or past hesitations. I share my personal experiences and the realization that it's never too late to take control of your finances and work towards your goals. I discuss the societal pressures and shame that often hold us back from pursuing our financial dreams. I refl...

In today's episode of Sex and Money with Jess, we explored the delicate balance between enjoying life's pleasures and being financially responsible. I shared insights on how to deepen your relationship with yourself and others when it comes to sex and money, and how to step into your empowered self without shame or societal pressures. We kicked off the discussion with my personal experience in a b...