Tara Wolfe Schaan

Live Brighter With Tara

Have you experienced an emotionally or religiously destructive relationship? This community encourages you to Living Brighter 1% at a time. I'm Tara, Christian Life Coach and two times psych ward attendee from a destructive relationship.

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Tara Wolfe Schaan

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Education

Latest episode

Nov 9, 2026

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Episodes

LB SPECIAL: When Being "Nice" Costs You Breaking Free from People-Pleasing, Guilt, and Unhealthy Patterns 15.12.2025

What if the way you show up in your relationships is being shaped more by guilt, fear, and old patterns than by true choice? In this Live Brighter Season Rewind episode, Tara revisits powerful conversations around people-pleasing, guilt, toxic environments, and the cost of chronic overgiving. Together, these episodes explore how our inner world influences our boundaries, our self-worth, and the re...

When Holidays Hurt: Understanding Domestic Abuse During the Festive Season | Holiday Special 08.12.2025

How do we navigate the painful realities of domestic abuse—especially during the holidays, when everything is supposed to feel joyful? In this replay episode of Live Brighter with Tara, I revisit one of our most meaningful conversations about recognizing the signs of domestic abuse, understanding the emotional toll it takes, and finding the courage to choose healing and self-love. Drawing from my...

The Golden Light Meditation: Feel Safe, Loved, and Held | Live Brighter 01.12.2025

In this guided meditation, you're invited into a moment of stillness where the warm, shimmering golden light of God gently surrounds you. Together, we walk through a powerful visualization that helps you release what's been weighing on you, soften your body, and return to a place of unconditional love and self-acceptance. As the light moves from your head to your heart and down through your entire...

LB SPECIAL: Understanding Emotional Reactions: A Guide to Nervous System Peace 24.11.2025

What if your emotional reactions, anxieties, or moments of overwhelm aren't personal failures—but signals from a nervous system that's been carrying more than you realize? In this Season Rewind mash-up, we explore why we react the way we do and how to move toward emotional steadiness and nervous system peace. These four episodes dive into the cost of suppressing emotions, the roots of mental and e...

LB SPECIAL: Season Rewind: The Episodes That Transformed Our Year 17.11.2025

In this week's Season Rewind, we're revisiting three of the most impactful conversations of the year—episodes listeners returned to again and again. In this compilation, I explore the life-changing choices that shape our future, how to de-weaponize the pain of our past, and why embracing the season we're in can bring unexpected clarity and peace. Through personal stories and practical insight, we'...

113. The Flip Side of Friendship: How to Recognize Unhealthy Connection and Choose Growth 10.11.2025

What if your friendships reflected your own emotional and spiritual growth? In this episode of Live Brighter with Tara, I unpack the "flip slide" of friendship—the subtle ways connection can drift from healthy to unhealthy. Through real stories and gentle reflection, we'll explore how to recognize red flags, take responsibility for our circles, and choose relationships that nurture mutual respect,...

112. Building Friendships That Last: The Surprising Link Between Self-Love and Connection | Live Brighter 03.11.2025

What if the secret to deeper, more meaningful friendships starts with how you love yourself? In this week's episode of Live Brighter with Tara , we're taking a step back from relationships with others to focus on the most important one you'll ever have—the relationship with yourself. Because true self-love isn't selfish—it's sacred. It's the foundation where every healthy friendship, partnership,...

111. Friendship and Healing: How Authentic Connection Shapes Our Emotional Health | Live Brighter 27.10.2025

What if friendship wasn't just a part of life—but one of the most powerful reflections of our emotional and spiritual health? In this episode of Live Brighter with Tara, I share how authentic connection is built—through intention, vulnerability, and time. We'll explore what it takes to create friendships that are grounded in honesty, equality, and love, and why being at peace with ourselves is the...

110. From Fear to Flow: Healing the Wounded Masculine and Feminine Within 20.10.2025

What if finding balance in life and love began with understanding your masculine and feminine energy? In this episode of Live Brighter with Tara, we explore how both men and women carry healthy and wounded expressions of these energies—and how fear, trauma, and control can pull us out of alignment. Through self-awareness, compassion, and faith, we can learn to create safety, shift from reaction to...

109. Man Enough? Patriarchy, Silence & the Cost of Emotional Suppression (With Michael Schaan) 13.10.2025

What if the very system that promised men strength and control was the same one keeping them silent, isolated, and hurting? In this episode of Live Brighter with Tara, Mike and I dive into the hidden costs of the patriarchal system—how it teaches boys to suppress emotions, shapes relationships into transactions, and leaves many men struggling with shame, guilt, and disconnection. Together, we shar...

108. Radical Honesty: The Key to Deeper Intimacy in Marriage (With Michael Schaan) 06.10.2025

What if the challenges in your relationship weren't roadblocks—but invitations to deeper love and healing? In this episode of Live Brighter with Tara, Mike and I get real about the ups and downs of our own relationship journey. From inner tubing adventures that mirror connection and support, to facing the weight of suppressed trauma and spiritual warfare, we explore what it takes to move toward au...

107. The Squirrel Analogy: Understanding Emotions, Anxiety & Inner Voices 29.09.2025

What if your emotions weren't chaotic or random—but a group of cartoon squirrels, each with its own voice and message? 🐿️ In this episode of Live Brighter with Tara, we explore a lighthearted yet powerful way to look at your inner world. Each "squirrel" represents a different emotional state—anxiety, protection, joy, or even playfulness—and together they create the chatter we all feel inside. Rath...

106. The School Bus Analogy: Healing Emotional Triggers and Taking Back the Driver's Seat 22.09.2025

What if your emotions weren't your enemy—but younger versions of you asking to be heard? In this week's episode of Live Brighter With Tara, I share the "school bus analogy," a powerful way to understand how your inner child, teenage self, and past experiences still ride along with you today. We'll explore how these voices shape your reactions, why self-acceptance matters, and what it looks like to...

105. From Pain to Purpose Part 2: Healing Trauma, Illness & Toxic Cycles (With Dr. Deb Muth and Dawn Dominguez) 15.09.2025

The pain you've carried isn't the end of your story—it's the beginning of your freedom. In this special mash-up of Live Brighter with Tara, three powerful stories remind us that pain doesn't have to define us: Dr. Deb Muth shares her journey of chronic illness and reveals how true healing requires going beyond symptoms to address root causes. Dawn Dominguez explains how trauma shapes our relations...

104. From Pain to Purpose: Healing Anxiety, Boundaries & Fierce Conversations (With Susan Scott, Terri Cole, and Eric Gilbert) 08.09.2025

What if your deepest struggles—anxiety, trauma, or broken relationships—were actually pointing you toward healing and purpose? In this special mash-up of Live Brighter With Tara, I bring together three powerful voices: Eric Gilbert on transforming anxiety into freedom through faith and somatic healing, Susan Scott (Fierce Love) on courageous conversations and redefining love, and Terri Cole (Bound...

103. Bound by Belief: Escaping Religious Abuse and Finding Freedom (With Aubrey Taylor) 01.09.2025

What do you do when the faith you trusted becomes the source of control, shame, and betrayal? In this episode of Live Brighter with Tara , Aubrey Taylor shares her raw and courageous story of life inside purity culture, an 18-year destructive marriage, and the loneliness of religious abuse. From public shaming in her church to private heartbreak at home, Aubrey's journey reveals the cost of silenc...

102. Jesus Christ: Liar, Lunatic, or Lord? My Journey through doubt and Faith | Live Brighter With Tara 25.08.2025

What comes to mind when you hear the name Jesus Christ? Was He just a historical figure, a wise teacher, a liar—or truly God? In this episode of Live Brighter with Tara, I share my personal journey of wrestling with these questions, especially after experiencing the pain of religious abuse and spiritual confusion. For years, distorted church teachings made me doubt God's goodness. Through divorce,...

101. Religious Abuse Uncovered: Finding the God who Heals, Not condemns | Live Brighter With Tara 18.08.2025

What if the God you were taught to fear was never who He truly is? In this week's episode of Live Brighter With Tara, I open up about the painful reality of religious abuse, particularly in Christian settings, and how distorted interpretations of scripture can lead to guilt, control, and emotional manipulation. Drawing from my own experiences, I share how harmful church culture and legalistic teac...

100. Beyond the Symptoms: Why Real Healing Starts at the Root (With Dr. Deb Muth) 11.08.2025

What if the symptoms you're treating are just the surface—and the real healing lies deeper? In this week's episode of Live Brighter With Tara, I'm joined by Dr. Deb Muth, a naturopathic women's health expert who shares her powerful personal journey through illness, healing, and the transformative power of integrative medicine. Together, we explore how nutrition, trauma, and stress are often the mi...

99. The Truth About You and Me: Embracing Our Intelligence and Creativity | Live Brighter 04.08.2025

What if the world's definition of "smart" has been limiting your potential? In this week's episode of Live Brighter With Tara, we dive into the hidden brilliance within us all. From Einstein to Richard Branson, history is filled with visionaries who were told they weren't intelligent—only to go on and change the world. So why do we still let old labels define our self-worth? This empowering episod...

98. Rewriting the Voice Within: How to Heal Negative Self-Talk and Build Emotional Resilience 28.07.2025

What if the loudest voice holding you back… is your own? In this episode of Live Brighter With Tara, we dive into the power of self-talk and how it shapes your mental health, relationships, and sense of self. I'll guide you through identifying negative inner dialogue, practicing self-compassion, and building a more loving, supportive relationship with yourself. You'll learn simple, effective tools...

97. Silent Agreements & Emotional Load: Redesigning Your Relationship with Intention 21.07.2025

What if the silent expectations in your relationship are the very things breaking your connection? In this week's episode of Live Brighter With Tara, I dive into the unspoken agreements we carry into our relationships—and how they silently shape the way we love, argue, and grow (or don't). We'll explore how creating a relationship plan can bring clarity to emotional labor, love languages, money co...

Special Episode: Breaking Silence: Confronting Abuse Myths That Trap Survivors 18.07.2025

  What if the laws and myths you believed about abuse are actually keeping you silent? In this week's episode of Live Brighter With Tara, I sit down with Meilyn from Haven—a leading organization supporting survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and stalking. We unravel the common misconceptions about abuse, explore how power and control dynamics can be subtle yet pervasive, and uncover th...

96: Fierce Love & the Truth We Avoid | Susan Scott on Honest Communication (Part 2) 15.07.2025

Is your definition of love helping you grow—or keeping you stuck? In Part 2 of this conversation with Fierce Love author Susan Scott, we unpack how fierce conversations transform the way we love, connect, and communicate. We talk about the power of authenticity, the necessity of setting conditions in relationships, and how cultural messages around love can distort our sense of self. You'll learn h...

95. Fierce Love: How Honest Communication Heals and Transforms | Interview with Best-Selling Author Susan Scott (Part 1) 07.07.2025

What if the conversations you're avoiding are the ones that could change everything? In this episode of Live Brighter With Tara, I'm joined by Susan Scott, best-selling author of Fierce Conversations and Fierce Love, to explore how honest, courageous communication is the foundation of every meaningful relationship. We talk about the essence of fierce conversations, how to build emotional intellige...

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