Lipstick and Liberation

Send us Fan Mail I recorded this as a catharsis. I felt so much pain on Father's Day this year like I could not have fathomed. It was my first totally sober Father's Day. And I am no heavy drinker or much of one at all. I get a drink when I go to restaurants and I usually will drink when I venerate my ancestors so three times a year with them and an occasional dinner drink. This past yea...

Send us Fan Mail Horror is having such a moment right now and I cannot recommend this film enough. This review has spoilers so please skip this episode if you have not seen the film. This is something I want you to experience first had with little known if you can. If you have seen it definitely listen and tell me your thoughts and reactions to this amazing piece of horror.  Support the show

Send us Fan Mail This week I sort of ramble about my feelings about what has been happening to black women at the hands of men and how women have every right to ask for whatever when they are choosing to deal with men because the potential of harm is so great. Join me and tell me what you think. Support the show

Send us Fan Mail This week we discuss the mess around the Democratic Party and Eric Swalwell and how we need ethics rules that make being sexually undisciplined disqualifying for public office and how men are allowed to be cheaters but still considered trustworthy because people think lying to a woman is acceptable but you should have different ethics when it comes to men. We also wrap up this dis...

Send us Fan Mail Good day equality lovers. Today we are breaking down how fatherhood's role in the success of childhood outcomes is over simplified to imply that a household without fathers is bad because of the missing of the male aspect rather than the missing of the money, stability and resources that come with two parents contributing to the well being of the child. The intention of this...

Send us Fan Mail This episode is talking about the way that Nicki Minaj fans have felt that she has not been protected while they have enjoyed her bullying of others and how protection of Black women is a social contract requiring give and take. I also discuss the Iran War and Leftists both sides are the same arguments being harmful to progress and dishonest while also taking some time to reflect...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome back! This week we are talking about how Chris Noth tried to use Sarah Jessica Parker's sometimes poor public perception to cloak himself from the SA allegations and how we aren't going for it. We'll also talk about how the March for Life is nonsense as the Right doesn't care about life they care about maintaining control. The government isn't ther...

Send us Fan Mail Happy New Year super late. I am finally well and able to record again and I plan to be more consistent. This week I am talking about how I spent a year not dating and how I have decided I don't want to date at all anymore. I want to focus on myself and my goals and my dreams and that I feel liberated in that. I also talk about the Trump administration and we touch on Rene Goo...

Send us Fan Mail This week I talk about my experience turning 41 while at home sick. I also discuss what I want women to know about getting older and what they can find value in as they explore womanhood: themselves. I also talk about how men's actions don't align with their words and look no further than how they position themselves as leaders but make excuses for poor judgment and sexu...

Send us Fan Mail This episode revolves around acknowledging the reason that the holidays no longer feel the same is because women are not investing the same amount of labor into the holidays for free anymore and rightfully so. We also discuss the perception versus the reality that male podcasters promote when it comes to women and dating like Andrew Wilson vs Charlie revealed not only his hypocris...

Send us Fan Mail This week I am kicking off season 2 talking about the times we are living in politically and how we have to start thinking and moving differently for survival. That we can look to famous women like the rappers we saw feuding a couple weeks ago Cardi B and Nicki Minaj for lessons in survival and decision making. We need to be pushing back on casual misogyny and finding ways to prio...

Send us Fan Mail Let's talk about how people have a propensity towards trying to tear down women who rap based on stan wars rather than accepting that there are different lanes for each woman to occupy and we don't have to listen to anyone we dislike, Shacarri Richardson's domestic violence against her partner and why we need to have honest conversations about this that still provid...

Send us Fan Mail This week I reflect on a conversation I had on Twitter and my TikTok where men were saying women use them for free food by going on the dinner dates they asked us to go on with them. Reality is men do not see value is spending time with women unless it develops into the possibility of body sharing and that's because they are projecting because they don't feel like they h...

Send us Fan Mail This episode does have some distortion due to being record on my iPhone. And experiment I will not be repeating. Nevertheless we talk in this episode about how rape culture is perpetuated by the expectation that accepting certain things from men means you have to perform sex (you don't. EVER), the misogyny of blaming women for how men show up in relationships from a Twitter d...

Send us Fan Mail When you have survived domestic violence or any kind of abuse many people do not want to hear your story because it makes them face what they have done to others or been complicit in themselves. They would prefer your silence. This is me acknowledging that they didn't hear you because they didn't want to do anything to help you or hold the other person who harmed you acc...

Send us Fan Mail This episode we discuss the Diddy Trial verdict and what is demanded of women to get justice for being harmed versus of men for harming women. We also talk about once again making good deals for yourself if you choose to get married. First half has echo because the mic setting was changed by mistake. Second half it is removed  Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Today we talk about how it is alway's women's fault and how we as women have to stop buying into internalized misogyny when it comes to these lines of thinking. We also discuss Tyler Perry's Sexual Harassment allegations and how we can continue to show resistance in patriarchy as we face grim reminders of how society values us less as human beings  Support the show

Send us Fan Mail This episode is focused in on the continued epidemic of filicide facilitated by the Family Court system focusing on the loss of Montrell Williams who was a 2 year old boy murdered by his father during a court sanctioned visitation. We also talk about the lady who gave her husband child support payment money and left her for her cousin and how to avoid this situation all together a...

Send us Fan Mail This episode examines how the family court system assisted in the unaliving of 3 innocent girls by giving their homeless father unsupervised visits and how the court system prioritizes men's parental rights over the safety of girls and women. We also talk about how widowhood is another attempt to oppress and control women through how men react to a false rumor of Vanessa Brya...

Send us Fan Mail Today's episode focuses in on TV character Miranda Hobbes as a TV feminist on Sex and The City and how the punished her with the Steve character while also talking about Maxine Shaw on Living Single and how she got to get love and a family on her own terms without compromising her journey. We also discuss what Marc Lamont Hill said on Joe Budden's podcast about restorati...

Send us Fan Mail This episode addresses Clareesa Shield's arguing with Remy Ma about Papoose and How Women Need To Stop Dating Separated Men. Stop Being So Desperate For Companionship You Are Putting Yourself in Foolish Situations. We Also Talk About How RedPill Content Is Impacting The Black Community And How White Women See Themselves In Serena So Much They Are Losing The Plot With The Hand...

Send us Fan Mail Thank you guys for returning again! Another day another case of misogynoir against Megan Thee Stallion as her abuser continues to sic flying monkeys on her by spreading false narratives. I address my anger at what she has to endure for being a victim, talk about my feelings about Chris Brown a long time abuser being arrested finally in London for his continual violent behavior and...

Send us Fan Mail Welcome back! We have had so much going on with celebrity domestic violence cases this week I felt I had to share my thoughts. Talking about the Diddy case, DDG, domestic violence and of course a little Handmaids Tale. I also wanted to take some time to encourage the ladies this week. It can't all be ranting. We need some loving too Support the show

Send us Fan Mail Thank you for coming back! This episode I am talking about how women don't need to change their name to match their husbands legally because we are being disenfranchised by doing so, why we need to move away from white male representation in the Democratic Party and the way Pamela Anderson is navigating aging. Please tune in, like and share and subscribe. Thank you! Support t...

Send us Fan Mail Today I'm calling for white women to examine their hatred of Meghan Sussex because all she does it cook, make TV shows and do charity work and y'all act like she overturned Roe v. Wade or something. Also Giving Flowers to the ladies who are not having babies because this country doesn't deserve your children or you and Patriarchy tells you to be the "bigger&quo...