Life with the Polites

In this insightful video, Lady Polite and Pastor Polite discussed this crucial topic, “Men's Accountability & Responsibility”, in the realms of Marriage, Relationships, and Love. From fostering open communication to navigating challenges with empathy and respect, we explore the integral role men play in nurturing healthy and fulfilling partnerships.  Join us as we discuss the importance o...

In this video, " Value What You're Worth" Lady Polite and Pastor Polite delve into the profound topic of self-worth and its pivotal role in relationships, particularly within the context of marriage and love. Join us as we explore the importance of recognizing and valuing your worth, not just in the workplace or social settings, but also in the intimate bonds we form with our partne...

This is another exciting episode, "The Process And Preparation of Relationships" you don't want to miss what the Polites shared.  Send us Fan Mail You Can Connect With Us Email us:  thetolikm@gmail.com   Website: www.tolikm.com Follow and Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaRYLXSpjebGhnd52-UlhjQ

This is a clip from the full episode, “Family Persuasions"  Others have persuaded some of our choices in life. So, whether we have been persuaded by our parents, siblings, teachers, friends, Pastors or God, we must remember there’s an inheritance or a curse that another generational will receive……"Good or Bad!” Send us Fan Mail You Can Connect With Us Email us:  thetolikm@gmail.com   Web...

In this Episode, Mrs. P and I are sharing on the topic, “ Let’s talk about Sex ”. We live in a society that constantly discusses “sex without love”, whereas we should be discussing “love without sex”. Why the latter is so important? Because discussing “love without sex; brings about three things: guilt, shame, and divorce – in both the saved and unsaved homes. A fascinating teaching – illustrated...

In this episode, 'Family Persuasions' , Lady P. and Pastor Polite covered a lot of nuggets about Family and some of the deciding factors within them.   “Family is supposed to be our safe haven. But very often, it’s the place where we find our deepest heartache. Let’s keep it 100 - don’t worry about what I’m doing. Worry about why you’re worried about what I’m doing!” They believe that so...

This is a clip from the full Episode, 'Love is in the Air'.  In the full episode, Love Is In the Air, Lady P and I – address the importance of not letting someone who doesn’t know (or recognize) your true value “advise” you how much you’re worth. Know your worth. Sometimes we have to forget what we feel and remember what we deserve! Send us Fan Mail You Can Connect With Us Email us:  the...

In this episode, Love Is In the Air, Lady P and I – address the importance of not letting someone who doesn’t know (or recognize) your true value “advise” you how much you’re worth.  Know your worth!  Sometimes we have to forget what we feel and remember what we deserve! Send us Fan Mail You Can Connect With Us Email us:  thetolikm@gmail.com   Website: www.tolikm.com Follow and Subscribe to our Yo...

Welcome to this exciting episode, When a Mother Lost Love RETURN! Someone had to STAND in the gap for us; STAND in the gap when we made those bad mistakes and errors. Our mothers STOOD in the gap to support and even correct our bad choices. Our mothers STOOD when no one else could. Mothers and grandmothers stood in the gap and MENDED those things together for us. They ARE  willing and ABLE to mend...

In this episode, “ The Role That We Choose To Play At The End (of a Relationship) ,” we explore the roles we choose to embody as we navigate the complexities of love, companionship, and connection. Throughout our conversation, we recognize the integral role of God in guiding and sustaining our relationships. From seeking divine wisdom in times of conflict to finding solace in prayer, we explore ho...

Welcome to an exciting episode " Not Just Any Woman but Your Mother ."  In this full episode, the Polites delve into the essence of motherhood and how God gives divine wisdom to mothers to navigate the complexities of raising children and nurturing families. As we celebrate these women's invaluable contributions, we encourage listeners to reflect on their mothers' profound impa...

Join Pastor Polite and Lady Polite in this episode, “ New Life Begins with an Open Door ” as they speak on the divine wisdom of God's intervention in our relationships. Particularly when God gently removes us from a connection that no longer serves our highest good.  Join us as we unravel the sacred significance of closed doors, paving the way for new beginnings and a deeper alignment with ou...

Join The Polites, for a discussion on the complexities of relationships in, " Being And Feeling Stuck In A Relationship. " Whether you're navigating the twists and turns of a romantic partnership or seeking insights into the dynamics of human connection, this episode is for you. In this candid conversation, we delve into the emotions and experiences of feeling stuck within the confi...

Life With The Polites teaches you “ Learning to Trust the Journey !” An Episode where The Polites speak about the essence of trust, resilience, and growth within the context of marriage  The Polites candidly discuss the twists and turns, the ups and downs, and the profound moments that have shaped their journey together. From navigating challenges to celebrating triumphs, their story offers a comp...

Welcome to " Relationships Lessons Learned ," the insightful podcast where we delve deep into the intricate dynamics of marriage, relationships, and love, hosted by Lady and Pastor Polite.  This engaging series invites you to explore the facets of human connection, offering valuable insights, practical advice, and heartfelt stories that resonate with couples everywhere.                 ...

In this podcast clip, " Reflections of Preparedness, " Lady Polite tells us that many of us neglect the patience and the preparedness of God when it comes to a relationship.  We allow ourselves to be “taught (or coached) by the world’s trends and norms.”   Whereas, having and building a relationship (first) with the Lord enables growth (spiritually) and sets the standards of having a lif...

In this podcast clip, " Getting to that Place in a Forever Relationship " Lady and Pastor Polite delve into the idea of having a forever relationship. Pastpt Polite said, 'Many of us try to turn temporary people into forever people and that’s not their role.   God calls temporary people into our lives to be there for us for only a short period of time. God calls them to be in our li...

Welcome to " Make Up to Break Up In Relationships! " This podcast episode explores the intricate dance of love, marriage, and relationships through the lens of God's word. We believe love, forgiveness, and faith are the cornerstone of a successful relationship. So, join us on "Make Up to Break Up" as we explore the divine path to a lasting and fulfilling marriage. Your tho...

In this inspiring and uplifting episode, we delve into the profound message of " Never Doubt the Season God Has You In. " Lady and Pastor Polite guide us through a thoughtful exploration of the importance of trusting the divine timing of our lives. Drawing from personal experiences, timeless wisdom, and spiritual insights, The Polites encourages listeners to embrace the current season of...

In this episode, "Becoming the Right Kind of Person”, Lady and Pastor Polite discuss a lot for you to hear about becoming the person God created you to be in a relationship. Pastor Polite said, "During our waiting season, what we learn and who we become in the process is more important than what we are waiting for." Stick around for all the nuggets that are prepared to help you find...

In this teaser, “ You Repeat What You Don't Repair -” we explore the intricate fabric of marriage, relationships, and love, guided by the perspective that "If you don't reflect and adjust to make better decisions, you are most likely to repeat." So, join us for more! Send us Fan Mail You Can Connect With Us Email us:  thetolikm@gmail.com   Website: www.tolikm.com Follow and Sub...

In this episode, Lady and Pastor Polite have another powerful message in "What's Not Good Enough". Sometimes, we discard something valuable—a good man or woman—based on the assumption that something seemingly better exists. Only later do we realize that what we had was actually good enough, and what we thought was better never came close. In the realm of relationships, we may never...

Sometimes we throw away something good (a good man or woman) for an assumption of something we believe is better (we think - a better man or woman), only to find out later that “what was good; was actually good enough” and what we thought was better “never came close”. In many of our relationships, we will never be good enough for some people, but we’ll always be good enough for someone who really...

Embark on a journey of self-discovery with this insightful message from Lady Polite and Pastor Polite in " Not Ready for a Relationship. "  There is a profound realization that being available for a relationship does not automatically translate to being ready for a relationship. We unravel the importance of personal comfort and self-awareness as fundamental prerequisites for a healthy an...

Here is the clip from the full episode of Toxic Relationship  Whether you're currently in a toxic relationship, recovering from one, or looking to support someone going through this experience, this video aims to provide valuable insights and guidance for navigating these challenging situations. Send us Fan Mail You Can Connect With Us Email us:  thetolikm@gmail.com   Website: www.tolikm.com...