Life with the Polites

What happens when God's purpose doesn't fit society's expectations? . In this episode of Life with The Polites , we explore a thought-provoking perspective on the story of Mary and Joseph that challenges common assumptions about marriage, commitment, and God's divine plan. Could what appeared to be "damaged goods" in the eyes of man actually reveal a greater purpose i...

In this episode, "The Righteousness of God Will Prevail," Pastor and Lady Polite explore how our choices, character, and relationship with God shape every area of life.  . Whether you're seeking wisdom for your relationships, spiritual growth, or daily life, this episode offers thought-provoking principles to reflect on. Send us Fan Mail You Can Connect With Us Email us:  thetolikm@...

Listen to Pastor Polite and Lady Polite in this episode, " Get Right Church - Time to Go Home, " which is a sobering wake-up call to the Church and the people of God.  This conversation challenges believers to examine where they truly stand with God, to respect His divine order, and to understand that you cannot go home without getting right first. Repentance, spiritual maturity, and ali...

In this episode, “ Your Latter Years Are Not In the Waiting Room, ” join Pastor Polite and Lady Polite in this powerful reminder that what feels like a holding place was never a setback; it was training.  This message speaks to those who have felt delayed, overlooked, or paused, and reveals that God’s timing was shaping, seasoning, and preparing you for what comes next.  Send us Fan Mail You Can C...

In this powerful and transparent episode of Life with the Polites, we tackle a topic many avoid, but everyone is affected by: sex, intimacy, and covenant. This conversation, “ Let’s Talk About Sex – Life with the Polites, ” goes far beyond the surface. We break down the critical difference between sex and cleaving, and why God’s divine order for relationships still matters—especially in today’s cu...

Marriage is God-ordained, but it carries spiritual weight. In this episode, " The Weight of Marriage ," we explore how tolerance, patience, and faith strengthen marriages, build inner resilience, and prepare us for prayer and spiritual warfare.  Learn why enduring with God allows your soul to prosper and leads you to His expected end. Key Scriptures Referenced Galatians 5:16-17 – The war...

In this heartfelt episode, “ The Lies We Tell ," on this Episode of Life With The Polites, Pastor Polite and Lady Polite explore the impact of lies in relationships.  Lady Polites said, “Lies hurt, but often they come from a place of fear—fear of losing, fear of not having enough, fear of being vulnerable.” She discusses why understanding the root of a lie is essential for both the person who...

In this episode, “The Blame Game,” Lady P spoke about the origins of blame in relationships, tracing back to Adam and Eve, and encourages couples to stop pointing fingers and instead seek God’s guidance to grow stronger together. With honesty, humor, and raw spiritual insight, this episode is both inspiring and grounding. Whether you're single, married, or somewhere in between, this conversat...

In this heartfelt episode, " Turning Our Wounds Into Wisdom ", Pastor Polite dives deep into the power of turning emotional pain and broken relationships into wisdom and healing. Join us as we explore how adversity can reveal truth, the impact of emotional wounds, and the importance of acknowledging hurt to experience real change. Don't forget! Comment below to share your story or w...

In this video, “Kindness Is the Silent Strength,” Pastor Polite discusses how people mistake kindness for weakness, but true kindness is a silent strength. It takes courage to be kind in a world that often undervalues it.  We explore how kindness can be a powerful force in relationships and life. Send us Fan Mail You Can Connect With Us Email us:  thetolikm@gmail.com   Website: www.tolikm.com Foll...

In this powerful message, “ Everybody Wants a Good Person, until? ” Pastor Polite speaks on how everyone says they want a good person in their life—until that person requires respect, effort, and genuine commitment.  Send us Fan Mail You Can Connect With Us Email us:  thetolikm@gmail.com   Website: www.tolikm.com Follow and Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaRYLXS...

Join Pastor Polite as he shares his knowledge in this episode, “When the Connection Begins to Break” He discusses how the cracks in a relationship are hard to see until it’s too late.   Let’s discuss why this happens and how to recognize the warning signs before it’s too late. Send us Fan Mail You Can Connect With Us Email us:  thetolikm@gmail.com   Website: www.tolikm.com Follow and Subscribe to...

Listen to Pastor Polite as he speaks on relationships and how self-centeredness often hides until the perfect moment emerges. Many tough breakups don’t just happen—they stem from a false sense of entitlement that blinds one person to the damage they cause. When a relationship becomes all about what one person can take rather than what they can give, it turns into an emotional welfare system, leavi...

In today’s episode, “Nobody Trashes Your Name More Than Someone Who’s Afraid You’ll Tell the TRUTH,”, Pastor Polite speaks on relationships and how some people will do anything to protect their image—even if it means twisting the truth when the relationship has ended.  He believes that slander plays the victim, and self-centered entitlement all play a role in how they manipulate the narrative. Ins...

Join Pastor Polite in this episode teaser, “Confidence & Courage Helps Us Through Difficult Things.” He explores how growth begins with accepting our vulnerabilities and pushing through struggles. Strength and growth come from effort, courage, and the confidence to face difficult moments. He reminds us that sometimes, we must go to war within ourselves to heal, repair, and move forward.  Are y...

In this teaser, “ Growth Isn’t for Everybody ,” Pastor Polite dives into the difficult truth about why some people resist change. He mentioned, "When we choose comfort over growth, we often choose pain and scars over healing and transformation. True growth requires courage, self-reflection, and the drive to move forward, even when it is uncomfortable." Are you ready to take that hard loo...

In this episode, " Growth Isn’t for Everybody! " Pastor Polites speaks on how growth requires courage, confidence, and a willingness to embrace change—even when it feels uncomfortable or uncertain.  In this full-length video, he explores why many people resist change, how confidence and courage help us face life's challenges, and the hard truth that growth often comes at the cost of...

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Join Pastor Polite while he speaks on, “Becoming the PERSON we CRAVE.” He dives into the journey of growth after tough relationships.  he reminds us that struggles and scars shape us, but true transformation begins when we show up for ourselves, acknowledge vulnerabilities, and take steps toward self-promotion and healing.  Becoming the person you crave starts with embracing your journey and lever...

Lady P shares a transformative message in this teaser, “People of Manipulation will Try You.” She confronts the spirit of manipulation and the lies that often weigh us down. Through faith, prayer, and fasting, God equips His people to discern the truth, call out deception, and break free from the strongholds of manipulation.  This season is about standing firm in God’s authority, boldly speaking t...

In this powerful continuation, “Exposure of Witchcraft (Part 2)” Lady P dives deeper into the spiritual battles of our time, shining a light on the exposure of witchcraft and the authority God gives His people to overcome. As we stand firm in faith, God is equipping His saints to recognize, confront, and expose the hidden works of darkness. This is a season of boldness, revelation, and victory! Se...

Join Lady P In this eye-opening message, “ Exposure of Witchcraft ”,  as she dives into the hidden forces of witchcraft that surround us and how God exposes these influences in our lives today. She said, As we enter 2025, the Holy Spirit is moving mightily, unveiling the truth behind manipulations, deceit, and spiritual strongholds that have lingered for too long. This message is a call to sharpen...

In this episode, “Witchcraft -More Than Lotions & Potions” Lady P shares how witchcraft isn’t just about the stereotypes of potions and spells. It’s a spiritual battle that manifests in manipulation, deception, and the strongholds that seek to distract us from God’s truth.   In this eye-opening message, we explore the hidden influences of witchcraft in our lives, how it operates through subtle...

In this message, " Great Faith and Age – What’s the Difference & Why the Wait?" Lady Polite delves into the profound connection between great faith and age. Drawing from scripture and real-life applications, she explores why God often reserves His greatest instructions and blessings for later seasons of life. Lady Polite encourages viewers to embrace the challenges of waiting, loss,...

In this inspiring message, " Take Hold of God’s Instructions ",  Lady P unpacks the story of the storm from Mark 4:40, revealing five key lessons: instructions, promise, disturbance, trust, and great faith. When Jesus instructed His disciples to cross over, He gave them a promise—but storms and disturbances tested their faith. Lady P reminds us that the enemy often throws challenges to w...