LIFE MASTERY with Nhlanhla

Before you start with a new season or a new vision, take time to look back over where you came from. Assess your all year actions against your key resolutions or goals and check where did you go wrong, how good have you done and what can you take into the next level.

We live in a society that creates pressures all around us. We have presure to perform in the negativity that surrounds us. Sometimes we are held up or provoked, delayed or denied and feel restless. Patience is the capacity to deny instant gratification when faced with an option to opt for the weaker alternative which would give you gratification on the times of delay but May take away the possibil...

Taking charge of your own life as your own leader. At one time you will be a leader, and times when you will be following. But when you are following yourself, make sure you take the right decisions that affect different areas of your life as a leader, and in the direction of your purpose.

You have to become sick and tired of being stuck in the same place and living with an urge to meet the imaginary you. The consequential causes of wishful living are fear, poor or lack of personal development, poor or weak connections, self- neglect and many others. However, this can be changed when you become intentional about self improvement , personal advancement and change. You must turn your...

* Often when things go wrong, people point a finger and go about blame shifting and making excuses for the wrongs that happens to them. * Taking responsibility is a sign of maturity, one that also involves a certain level of emotional intelligence: how does one develop ability to take charge, especially about their own lives? * How does taking charge relate to leadership and personal development *...

South Africans are said to be unhappy according to the 2019 world happiness index. How do you build relationships where we give and receive love while you are unhappy? Some people do not believe in love, especially when looking at the fact that people are killed and/ or abused in the name of love. We ask, “is there hope for Love relationships or what we call unconditional love?” How do you advice...

The compulsive urge to be on your cellphone (browsing social media, taking selfies or just posting status updates) while you should be doing something more meaningful and productive... some people struggle with FOMO such that they can’t just not be on their cellphone, even when driving

Life will place an opportunity before you that requires a new you… a you that never existed before. Often the you that you have been making excuses from becoming or afraid of becoming. Every next level of your life requires another you. One man said, you were born a leader, until the day you decided to become a follower. You become a follower forever when you chose excuses over courage: excuses ar...

In this episode, nhlanhla takes his time to appreciate the struggles his mother went through. He uses it to inspire people to take some time to honor their mothers

Learn to spend time with your self and enjoy the company of your own self. Above that, listen to yourself

"The greatest tragedy in life is not death, but what we let die us while we yet live” “The most frustrated person on earth is a man whose dream did not come true” This means that the place where one needs to work twice as hard is not in his job, but in him / herself. One needs to labour hard to become a person of quality, thus securing a great future for themselves. Demand more on yourself.l

While Africa still has wealth raw material, the Africans are still poor. I had a chat with Rebecca Phala on Energy FM to breakdown some issues within the African Wealth Context. Check it out and learn the following: 1. What do I mean, Africans are poor? 2. What is wealth in the context of Africa’s demographics in the global and digital economy? 3. Given the context of wealth and Africa’s dynamics...

There are certain personal factors that needs to be dealt with before you consider going into business.

s to become another (the essence of our talk today) We all have to go through some form of change every once in a while because it is necessary for out growth, to achieve a new goal, to build something, etc. - if you always do what you have always done you will always get what you have always got. - To get to the next level, you have to become another person (meaning you have to change) - If two p...

The brain only knows the reality you create. You must be careful to create a brain tattoo of a person you do not want to become such as a person who uses blame to shift responsibility, as denial or self-protection mechanism. People use blame to protect their ego, to attack others, as an escape when they are attacked or when they should account for their lives. In this podcast, I share with Rebecca...

Happiness is a sory after personal thing. But very few people know that happiness is not a destination, it’s a daily thing that comes from your inner contentment. You can not arrive at happiness, and you can not out of for the future.

Courage is the physical and mental to act positively and progressively towards a goal even when circumstances tell you otherwise. Even when feelings of fear tells you to hide your thoughts and not act. Courage is the ability to refuse to be controlled or paralyzed by the thoughts or feelings of fear. It is the effective management of time, opportunity, and talent. It has nothing to do with what is...

Everyone has that level where you cannot bend beneath, live without, not allow to pass. That point where you say, if I did not exercise I ran 5km 3 times a week. The lowest level you can go for. We call them the Non-negotiable.

It is not good for anyone to be alone. However, who you partner with can either uplift or suppress you. When it comes to relationships, one needs to know that we marry a person who is different. On the other side, we also need to know that there are exceptional benefits to being with the right partner. Relationship tend to create a feeling of self worth, increase happiness, make people more succes...

 Any man can father a child. But being a parent and a dad to that child is a process, it requires commitment, will, intentional thought, deeper love for nurturing, building, moulding, guiding, encouraging, strengthening, empowering, affirming, and more.    Men are often very emotionally bankrupt people. Men often chose to replace or substitute their affection and emotional availability with materi...

Every next level of your life will require a different, better you. Often our goals are bigger than our current ability. Hence you need to pursue a little bit of a stretch before you can achieve it. Capacity is your maximum ability to contain something, to do something, to deliver something to carry something or to produce something. Problems cannot be solved at the level where they were created

This week I am joined by Ebenezer Mamabolo with Rebecca Phala to help you prepare your mind in setting your agenda for 2019. A person must set an agenda that clearly stipulates what needs to be done, when and for how long and where. It is not good to go about life as a wondering generality that’s waiting for things to happen without you applying yourself. You cannot be going everywhere with everyo...

One year from now, you will look back and wish you had started today. Everywhere people make some yearly resolve (resolutions) to do certain things or achieve certain goals, but often, those are ordinary rhetorics used without understanding. “Rome was not built in one day,” an expression that affirms that whatever the dream is , what ever the desire is,for you to realize its true potential, you ha...

For you to fit in the “US” you need to fit in the “I”. For you make a meaningful contribution in any relationship, you need to first who you are. “I” in the marriage makes the “US”, the “me” makes the “we”. Every entity that needs to succeed needs to know the power of team work, but the chain relies on the individual entities within the team. Every team is as strong as it’s weakest member. The I A...

As a people, we often have a tendency to look for the things that go wrong on our lives and complain. We should, on the contrary, look for the little positive things that happen in our lives. The things that happen to our good and add value to our lives. You need to Develop a habit of expressing thankfulness in your life, daily. Sometimes things do not go as you hoped they would, but you should be...