LIFE MASTERY with Nhlanhla

What is your value in the market place? In this episode, I share an extract of a delivery I made during the Micro-Goals Challenge with some elite Professionals about goal setting and demanding more from self. The aim of this episode is to help you not to solve relevent problem in an irrelevant way. I want you to refocus your thoughts in the value you bring to the market place by thinking criticall...

​In the Marriage relationships, there are things that “If you don’t do them, something else will take that space. If you do them, whether positive or negative, there will be a reciprocal action or corresponding outcome.” They are more like SEEDS that are guaranteed to produce some fruit. ​- If you can’t agree with each other, you will arbitrate ​⁃If you can’t bless each other, you will bite. If yo...

Who are your friends? Or who are those people that you would call to a room to have a conversation with you for an hour? Friendship provides a sense of mutual belonging, shared value and helps us go through life.

What you do through time defines your moments. The moments are the brief splits through time that either break or make you. But time is what determines the outcomes of moments. A pregnant woman, no matter how hard she pushes, if the baby is not formed through time to be ready to be born, she will not be able to deliver the baby. .. let me hear what this episode does to or for you. Send your feedba...

Can you follow your own advice? When you look at your life, the choices you have made,opportunities you have missed, e.g. would you say you have lead yourself well? You are only as powerful as your last excuse. Whatever happened in your life, what ever is happening and whenever it is going to happen in your life.

If you have convinced yourself that you can, opportunity will open up to you. In this episode I share simple and yet powerful principles to better your attitude towards positive action. Both potential and will are intertwined in success. If you really want to experience success, you need replace the thoughts and words “I cannot” to “yes I can.”

People can praise you to the grave Life has hidden costs. Calculate the cost of doing vs the cost of not doing. For example, it is not what the the book cost, but how much it cost not reading it. It is not the cost of going to the gym, but how much it cost not going to the gym. It is not the cost of fixing something, but how much it cost not fixing it or not fixing it the right way. We calculate t...

Young people today are faced with so many challanges. The older generation need to assess what decisions they made that could have contributed to today’s challanges and what decisions were not made that could have prevented these challenges. The challanges range from Social, mental, economic and health. Challanges incoude among others: Suicide, Unemployment, Poor Education, Family problems, Waywar...

In this episode, I share wit you 8 critcal questions to helo you buy the future. Life does not get better by chance. So as you answer them, take time to make notes, respond to them and find value within yourself. the Questions are 1. Who do you want to be? 2. What do you want to achieve? Why do you want it? When do you want it? How does it look like? What does it cost? Are you willing ot pay the p...

The mix match of practical guidance to help you begin getting more out of your life is set up in this podcast to give you the best tips to start your year. At list 80% of people who set New Years resolutions abandon them within the first 4 weeks of setting them. Thus, to reach your goal, you need more than setting a resolution. As part of this episode, I am giving away 10% discount to anyone who e...

Covid-19 pandemic had hit many people financially sic that they are not able meet their ordinary traditional family obligations. During the festive seasons, people exchange gifts as part of their family gatherings. However, you may not be able to do so, therefore, how do you tell your friends, family and loved ones that you will not be contributing on the gift exchange when you are not able to?

Children who live without their fathers are more likely to fall pregnent in their teens, drop out of school, do drugs, be involved in violent activities or end up jail. How does a father’s presence really influence a child’s outcome in general? In this podcast, I share some of the lessons I published on www.stresscoach.co.za as well as personal records of how my dad contributed to my life, through...

Given the right circumstances, the mind is a very poweful with capacity to transform a man’s life from one state to another. “As a man thinks in his heart, so is he.” How you imagine your world is critical in realising your next level. If adults use the realities created by the child’s mind to envision themselves and their future, a lot could turn out great

During a time where unemployed high, we still have young people chowing careers with no value. In addition, African people often find themselves working towards their dreams alone, without the contribution of others while in real essence, they need the contribution of other people. If we all find someone to mentor, and they intern find someone to mentor, the exponentialeffext will be worthwhile. I...

You can chose to live a life by default. Or you can live by design. Living by default is waiting for the acts of nature to decide what happens in your life. Designing your life requires you develop discipline, have courage, self-initiate change and have mental strenght to go through life.

No matter how much life throws punches at you, you got to find it in you to pick yourself up, confront yourself and go ahead and buy the future.

Life does not get better by chance, it’s a choice you have to make that when an opportunity to sell your future for a bowl of soup, you will resist the temptation and the urge to bend your back too low to break it.

When you get to a level where your name becomes a conversation starter in boardrooms, tea parties parties and friends’ zones... just know your accountability levels have doubled! You are not living for you anymore, but you have become their moral campus. As a parent, Freind, spouse, manager or leader, you should know that you no longer live for you. There are other people who find reference for th...

“It is reported that 50% of professionals are two years behind the breakthroughs in their indistry.” If you are not growing, you are dying. The best way to keep growing is to keep on challanging yourself. Be intentional about it. To get any of my products: Coaching session, subscribing to the Online School of Self Mastery, or to get a copy of my books, email admin@ngmafarafara.co.za

Whatever you repeat to yourself becomes your reality. Whatever you expect with confidence becomes your own self-fulfilling prophecy. You can play a trick in your mind by repeatedly telling and exposing yourself to positive information that creates a pattern of what you want to be... the work at it to make it real... once you hit your first success, the next one becomes easy.

What is the value of your time? The value of an hour is built on accumulated knowledge prior to the hour.

“The greatest tragedy in life is no death, but what we let die in us while we yet live”... When you don’t dream, you become satisfied with the crumbs from your master’s table. A dreamless person a one who has given up on his life and given himself to be a tool in the hands of a dreamer. In this Episode I share with you 6 poweful insights about a dream.

Success is a choice you make by constantly exposing yourself to more information and experiences that stretch your mind. A stretched mind never goes back to its original position... it stays expanded. In this episode I share with you 9 tips on how to increase positive exposure that will help you condition your mind for more, for better and for greatness.

“The greatest weapon in the hands of the oppressor is the mind of the oppressed”-Steve Biko. The mind determines how low you or how high one goes. It has ability to fabricate reason for no action when you do not actively condition it to benefit you. In the four levels of mental conditioning, I show you how the level of mental conditioning affect your altimate end.

You were born a progressive person, until the day you decided to become stuck. There is no poverty for a person who had Made an investment in his mind.