Life, Death, and Cookies

Join Oliver and Char Tanner for our season finale! We discuss forgiving an estranged family member -Required to forgive -forgiveness is for you: doesn't clear the guilty -calling out wrongdoing Support us by clicking on the support button on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠this page⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Mentions: The Four Things That Matter Most by Dr. Ira Byock Cookie Co: https://cookieco.com/ Doctrine and Covenants 64: 10...

Oliver Tanner is back co-hosting as we discuss Repentance and Reconciliation as part of asking for forgiveness. Support us by clicking on the support button on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠this page⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Mentions: ⁠ The Four Things that Matter Most⁠ by Dr. Ira Byock Myths of Repentance by Wallace Goddard: Matthew 5: 23-24 Crazy Deaths from Ranker Don't forget to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow and share our Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...

Lyndie Tanner joins me again as my co-host as we discuss saying "Please Forgive me" to a loved one before death. We discuss humility. Support us by clicking on the support button on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠this page⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Mentions: The Four Things that Matter Most by Dr. Ira Byock Coaching at End of Life by Dr. Don Eisenhauer Hercules in New York Movie Hen House Iced Sugar Cookie Don't forget t...

Please welcome with me our special guest co-host: Lyndie Tanner! Today we talk about a quote about life and death from Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. and discuss a current event regarding death: A tic tok creator faking his own death. Support us by clicking on the support button on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠this page⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Mentions: Man faked death article Buttermilk cookies recipe Nathan Hales Hazardous Tales book...

A new development pulls Char back into the grieving stages for her chronic illness. Anger, grief, sadness, hopelessness and some bargaining. Oliver talks about Memorial Day. Mentions: https://www.thelmastreats.com/ Support us by clicking on the support button on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠this page⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Don't forget to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow and share our Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so that you can get notified of the episode d...

Char and Oliver Tanner discuss saying "I forgive you" before you or someone you love dies. We talk about: -The definition of forgiveness -Requirement to forgive -Awkwardness of saying the words Extra segments: What is your dream job Oliver rants: F-22 and F-35 fighter jets Support us by clicking on the support button on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠this page⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Don't forget to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow and sha...

Char and Oliver Tanner introduce saying "I forgive you" and "please forgive me" based off of Dr. Ira Byock's book The Four Things That Matter Most. We discuss: -I'm sorry vs. please forgive me -forgiveness will take action, not just words -repentance linked to forgiveness Support us by clicking on the support button on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠this page⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Don't forget to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...

Today Char and Oliver Tanner discuss Char's top advice for helping someone you love to grieve. -Less talking more listening -Let them tell their story Support us by clicking on the support button on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠this page⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Don't forget to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow and share our Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so that you can get notified of the episode dropping each Tuesday. Links to Oliver's books : ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Blessed⁠⁠⁠...

Today we discuss Char's #1 piece of advice for grieving a loved one: setting aside time to grieve. We talk about what it would look like, how to do it, and why. Also, Oliver's objections to the theory. Support us by clicking on the support button on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠this page⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Don't forget to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow and share our Podcast ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so that you can get notified of the episode dropping each Tues...

Oliver and Char discuss the complicated topic of saying I love you to an estranged family member. Just do it? Plan what to say or don't alternative ways to actually saying the words What if your estranged family member has already died? Forgiveness Do you have other ideas on saying I love you to an estranged parent? Mentions Peanut Butter Dream Bar (with cookie base) from Mrs. Fields Cookies N...

Oliver and Char discuss Loving an estranged parent as we continue our look into Dr. Ira Byock's book, "The Four Things That Matter Most" We dive into: -children of God -hope -forgiveness -grudges -prayer -change of heart In Oliver's rant he shares his experience with his family dressing him up as a girl and transgenderism Support us by clicking on the support button on ⁠⁠⁠this pa...

What does Easter mean to us and how it helps us deal with death? We talk about Resurrection, Holy Week, Atonement We also set the record straight about Helen Keller as talked about in this episode : (see this article ) Mentions: Italian Easter Cookies recipe Alma 7: 12 Sting of Death swallowed up in Christ Segments: Famous Last Words: https://www.mentalfloss.com/article/58534/64-people-and-their-f...

Another Bite size episode. We discuss a quote from Helen Keller, ... or was it Anne Sullivan? We talk about truth and resurrection Articles about Helen Keller Truth & Fraud Conspiracy Mentions: Miracle Worker Movie Chick-fil-a cookies ADH Hitch & Trailer In-N-Out Support us by clicking on the support button on ⁠this page⁠ Don't forget to ⁠Follow and share our Podcast ⁠ so that you can...

Bite sized episode today! We discuss a Lord of the Rings quote and what it has to do with living. We have a crazy death that involves mummification. We compare Keebler Coconut Dreams to Great Value Carmel Coconut Fudge cookies (sorry we didn't get Girl Scout Samoas) Mentions: Article about Man's death Lord of the Rings by J.R.R Tolkien

Have you ever thought about showing love after your Death?  I never really had.  Join Char and Oliver Tanner as we discuss what showing love after you are gone could look like.  We discuss Legacy, legacy letters, life history/story, creations and more!  Oh, and happy PI (pie) day! *Please excuse our audio quality in this episode.  We had some technical difficulties.  ...

This is part two  of what love is and what love isn't. Today we focus on what love is not. We continue our discussing based on Dr. Ira Byock's The Four Things That  Matter's Most: Saying I love you. Some things we talk about are nice vs.  kind, choice, tolerant, etc Support us by clicking on the support button on this page Don't forget to Follow and share our Podcast  so that y...

This is part one of what love is and what love isn't.  We focus on what love is.  We continue our discussing based on Dr. Ira Byock's The Four Things That Matter's Most : Saying I love you.  Some things we talk about is choices, forgiveness, commitment, potential, etc. Cookies from MeMa's Bakery in Kansas City, KS Support us by clicking on the support button on this page Don't forge...

Today we share our thoughts on Dr. Ira Byock's The Four Things That Matter's Most : Saying I love you.  That saying I love you is more than words.   "Saying I love you should not be a revelation"- Oliver Tanner Our new segment "Oliver Rants" Oliver rants about the Multiverse. We try cookies from Prairie City Bakery available at Quick Trip (QT)  Support us by clicking on the support...

Happy Valentine's Day!  Today we sit down with Bridget, our sister-in-law, and Char's brother Mark's widow,  to discuss finding love after you lose your first love to death.  We discuss the fear, the mistakes, the lessons, being ok being alone, where to find love, and focusing on healing. Support us by clicking on the support button on this page Don't forget to Follow and share our...

Today is the the final countdown as to why LMNA is great inspired by Char's friend Kim's list of Why Cancer is Great. Support us by clicking on the support button on this page Don't forget to Follow and share our Podcast  so that you can get notified of the episode dropping each Tuesday. Links to Oliver's books : Blessed & Cursed & Won We are now on Rumble : https://rumble.com/c/c-225...

Today we continue with the countdown as to Why LMNA is great, inspired by Char's friend Kim's list of Why Cancer is  great. Support us by clicking on the support button on this page Don't forget to Follow and share our Podcast  so that you can get notified of the episode dropping each Tuesday. Links to Oliver's books : Blessed & Cursed & Won We are now on Rumble : https://rumble....

After Char attended her good friend Kim's funeral, which had a talk about why Kim thought Cancer was great, Char was inspired to create her own list of why LMNA is great.   Support us by clicking on the support button on this page Don't forget to Follow and share our Podcast  so that you can get notified of the episode dropping each Tuesday. Links to Oliver's books : Blessed & Cursed...

Welcome to Season 2 of Life Death And Cookies!!  We have loads of  exciting things to expect for the upcoming season.  How can that be when we are talking about death!?  Watch/listen to find out! Support us by clicking on the support button on this page Don't forget to Follow and share our Podcast  so that you can get notified of the episode dropping each Tuesday. Mentions...

Today we announce our plans for Season 2, coming 10 Jan 2023!

This is part 2 of Episode 20, if you have not watched part 1, please find it here . Today is a tribute to Oliver's wrestling coach: Merlin Kolb.  You will see of side of Oliver that not even Char has ever seen!  The lessons Oliver learned from Coach Kolb can be applied to all of us! This is our season 1 finale, stay tuned for season 2! Support us by clicking on the support button on this...