Liberator

George Faller joins Liberator for today's episode! George brings his experience as a licensed EFT therapist and trainer to explore the complexities of anger in relationships, particularly in the context of betrayal and pornography. George emphasizes the significance of understanding the underlying emotions behind anger and the role of love and God in the healing process. The conversation provides...

In this episode, Chelsea and Layton discuss the critical role of exercise in recovery and healing, emphasizing the importance of movement for both physical and mental health. They explore the science behind how exercise boosts brain resilience, enhances mood, and helps break cycles of temptation. The conversation also touches on the significance of setting goals, being mindful in recovery, and the...

In this Christmas episode of Liberator, hosts Chelsea and Layton discuss the complexities of the holiday season - including the struggles of isolation and the high consumption of pornography during this time. They emphasize the meaning of Christmas as a time for belonging with God, and Jesus' pursuit of us despite our failings.

Chelsea and Layton explore the legacy of King David, delving into themes of brokenness, redemption, and the importance of a contrite heart. They discuss David's complex life, his mistakes, and how his relationship with God exemplifies true surrender and humility.

Chelsea and Layton welcome Bonnie Pue back to the show to discuss her new book! 'Awkward' aims to equip parents to have the difficult conversations with their children around sexuality and culture. Bonnie shares her journey of writing the book, the importance of gospel-centered discussions, and the need for parents to engage in these conversations despite their fears. The conversation covers vario...

Chelsea and Layton discuss the concept of "red lines" in relationships, emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries to foster trust and accountability. They draw upon their own story to explore how these boundaries can help rebuild trust after betrayal, the necessity of open dialogue, and the shared responsibility in maintaining a healthy marriage. 

Chelsea and Layton dive into a deeply overlooked part of healing from betrayal: learning how to receive encouragement, affirmation, and love again—especially from the very person who caused the pain. Chelsea shares vulnerably about years of brushing off compliments, both before and after betrayal, and how that heart posture revealed a deeper spiritual reality: if we reject the words of those close...

Chelsea and Layton unpack the discipline of being fully present in the recovery journey from porn. The conversation analyzes the roadblocks created by unhealthy focus on our past mistakes or future anxieties. Personal stories and Biblical text are used to give real-life applications throughout the discussion.

Molly Bertles shares her journey of overcoming personal struggles with masturbation and shame, and how she found freedom through biblical counseling. She discusses the challenges women face in addressing sexual sin, the importance of community and openness, and the role of social media in shaping perceptions of sexuality. Molly emphasizes the need for understanding God's design for sex and the pow...

Chelsea and Layton have one of their most nuanced conversations yet — tackling a question that many couples quietly wrestle with: "Is it okay to replace pornography with images or videos of my spouse?" This episode dives deep into the gray areas of sexuality, desire, and healing — exploring where connection becomes consumption, and how couples can pursue intimacy that's rooted in love, honesty, an...

Have you ever felt like your spouse or partner couldn't possibly understand the damage that porn has created in your life? In Episode 109, Chelsea and Layton sit down to unpack the wounds and struggles that have been some of their greatest sources of frustration. Through sharing their individual experiences as a porn consumer and a betrayed spouse, they offer insights that helped them heal and wor...

Chelsea and Layton explore the story of Jesus and the woman at the well, discussing themes of sexual brokenness, personal transformation, and the healing power of faith. They emphasize how Jesus meets individuals in their struggles, offering them hope and a new identity through His grace. The conversation highlights the significance of living water as a metaphor for true satisfaction and fulfillme...

Ellen Dykas is Harvest USA's Director of Equipping for Ministry to Women. She's authored several mini-books, a women's curriculum, a devotional, and, most recently,  Jesus and Your Unwanted Journey: Wives Finding Comfort After Sexual Betrayal . She joins Liberator to discuss the challenges and trends in women's ministry, particularly focusing on sexual sin and the impact of betrayal in marriages....

Chelsea and Layton discuss the importance of taking your partner's pain seriously and the role of validation in relationships. They explore how emotional responses can impact communication and the significance of mirroring feelings to foster understanding. The conversation emphasizes proactive steps to support partners, the importance of love languages in healing, and the need for compassionate co...

Chelsea and Layton discuss the complexities of addressing root problems related to pornography and emotional struggles. They cover the importance of self-analysis, inviting God into the healing process, and the role of community and mentorship in personal growth. The conversation emphasizes the need for honesty and commitment to change, providing practical steps for listeners to embark on their ow...

Chelsea and Layton discuss their relationship mantra, "Have fun together!" They emphasize the importance of taking breaks from grief, being intentional about building intimacy, and rediscovering joy in everyday moments. The phrase has been especially helpful while navigating challenges in betrayal and addiction. Practical steps are provided for couples to reconnect and have fun, highlighting the s...

Lisa Whittle joines the show to explore the complex issues surrounding body image, self-worth, and the impact of cultural narratives on personal identity. Together we discuss the challenges women face regarding body image, the influence of pornography, and the importance of understanding one's worth through a biblical lens. Lisa is the best selling author of multiple books and Bible studies, inclu...

Chelsea and Layton explore the rise of romantic relationships between humans and Artifical Intelligence, discussing the dangers of emotional attachment to AI. They highlight the counterfeit nature of AI relationships, the illusion of emotional support it provides, and the importance of genuine human connection and growth. The discussion also touches on the spiritual implications of relying on AI f...

Join Layton and Chelsea as they explore how pornography disrupts the true purpose that we are all called towards. The conversation expounds on the idea that we are God's handiwork, created for good works, and that there is always hope for us to walk our path in freedom.  "Made for More" by Josh Baldwin, featuring Jenn Johnson

Chelsea and Layton celebrate their 100th episode by discussing the challenges of swimsuit season, body image pressures, and the importance of communication and trust in relationships. They explore how societal expectations can affect self-worth and the need for preparation and boundaries to navigate temptations. The conversation emphasizes the significance of understanding and supporting each othe...

Casey and Meygan Caston, founders of Marriage 365, share their journey from college sweethearts to leading a successful marriage ministry. They discuss the challenges they faced in their early marriage, the importance of individual growth, and how their experiences led to the creation of Marriage 365.  Marriage365.com

Nate Larkin shares his journey of recovery and healing from pornography and sexual addiction. Growing up in a conservative Christian home, Nate experienced trauma and shame that led him to seek solace in pornography. He struggled with guilt and shame, hiding his addiction from his wife and family. Eventually, he reached a breaking point and sought help through a 12-step program. Nate emphasizes th...

Chelsea and Layton discuss how to be community for individuals affected by pornography. The episode explores how to approach the conversations with tact, compassion, and empathy - implementing practical steps that the hosts have learned from their own story.  Authentic Intimacy Harvest USA  

This episode explores the personal and shared journey of healing from pornography addiction and betrayal trauma within marriage. The hosts, Chelsea and Layton, discuss the question they often receive: "Does it get easier?" They respond with honest reflections, spiritual insights, scientific support, and practical steps for healing, growth, and transformation.

Dr. Anna Lembke is a professor of psychiatry at Stanford University School of Medicine and Chief of the Stanford Addiction Medicine Dual Diagnosis Clinic. She has published over 100 peer-reviewed papers and commentaries, along with the bestselling books, Dopamine Nation and Drug Dealer, MD.  In this conversation, Dr. Lembke discusses the complexities of dopamine, the brain's reward system, and how...