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You’re texting every day. Hanging out one-on-one. Sharing your deepest thoughts. Praying together. Maybe even imagining a future together. But you’ve never actually defined the relationship. So… are you really “just friends”? In this episode, we’re taking on one of the biggest blind spots in Christian dating: the almost-relationship. The situationship. The undefined “friendship” that’s functioning...

What if freedom from porn is actually possible? Not behavior management. Not white-knuckling. Not “doing better this time.” Real freedom. In this episode, we sit down with three Christian men who used to struggle deeply with pornography and are now walking in freedom. Three stories. Three different seasons of life. One honest conversation about what actually works. Aaron leads the Whole Man Projec...

Our episode with 3 single Christian men answering women’s questions completely blew up. 200K+ views. Hundreds of comments. And one overwhelming response: “PLEASE do a part two.” So we did. This time, we’re going deeper. Responding to your pushback, reacting to the most-liked comments from Part 1, and answering the questions we did not get to the first time. We brought back Mark and Ariel, replaced...

Is modesty about honoring God… or controlling women? Can you be fashionable, feminine, confident, and still modest? Does what you wear actually matter? And what do we do with all the church baggage around “causing your brother to stumble”? In this episode, we sit down with three Christian women for an honest, nuanced, and probably overdue conversation about modesty. We’re talking about beauty, con...

Does oral sex count as sex? Can you slap a guy if he gropes you? Why didn’t Jesus ever get married? In this episode, we answer some of the most awkward, controversial, and honestly fascinating questions Christians secretly wonder about when it comes to sex, relationships, faith, cheating, gaslighting, and marriage. Nothing is off limits. Some of these questions made us laugh. Some got very serious...

What do men in their 50s, 60s, and 70s see about dating today that we don’t? After hearing from single men and married men, the most requested follow-up was this: bring in men who have actually lived it. Decades of marriage. Decades of mistakes, growth, and faith. So we did. We sat down with three older Christian men who have 30 to 50 years of marriage, ministry, and life behind them and asked the...

In a culture where sex is expected early and often… what does it actually look like to wait? Not as a rule, and not out of fear, but as a real, personal conviction. In this episode, we sit down with three Gen Z Christians who have chosen to wait for marriage. Not because they think they’re better than anyone else, but because they’re trying to live out what God designed for intimacy and relationsh...

What if calling off your wedding isn’t failure… but obedience? Broken engagements are one of the most painful and misunderstood experiences in Christian dating. There’s pressure to push through doubts. Pressure from timelines, money already spent, other people’s expectations. And underneath all of it, a quiet question most people are afraid to say out loud: What if this isn’t right? In this episod...

We’re back with another episode of blind reactions to the most unhinged Christian dating stories our listeners have sent in. If you’ve been following this series, you already know the drill. We read the stories for the first time on the podcast and react in real time. And somehow the stories keep getting crazier. In this episode we react to stories like: The girl who asked God for a sign about a g...

Before you get married, you think you know what matters. After you get married, you realize what actually does. We sat down with three married Christian women to answer the questions single men and women are quietly carrying about attraction, safety, purity, commitment, and what really makes a marriage last. This is not surface level dating advice. This is what shifts in a woman’s heart after cove...

What do married Christian men wish someone had told them before the wedding day? Because once you step into covenant, everything shifts. We brought three married Christian men into the studio to answer women’s questions about what marriage is actually like, what changes after the honeymoon phase, and what they did not fully understand when they were single. From attraction and lust to respect, pur...

What happens when you finally stop pretending you want freedom, and actually tell God the truth? In this deeply honest conversation, Ben Fitzgerald shares his story of struggling with pornography while walking in ministry, the moment God confronted what he was still keeping as an option, and how real freedom finally came when everything was brought into the light. Ben opens up about the tension of...

Single Christian men sent in their real dating questions and we brought three single Christian women into the studio to answer them honestly. From pursuit and communication to attraction, safety, boundaries, and ghosting, this episode pulls back the curtain on how Christian women actually think and feel when it comes to dating and relationships. We’ll talk about: What Christian women actually want...

What do Christian men actually want when it comes to dating, attraction, and a future wife? We brought three single Christian guys into the studio and asked them the questions single Christian women really want answered. From red flags and first dates to lust, attraction, porn, ghosting, and why guys hesitate to make a move, this episode gives you a real look inside how Christian men think when it...

You sent in the real questions about sex, temptation, emotional attachment, and dating as a Christian in 2025. And honestly? You are not alone. In this Q&A episode, we answer your toughest, most honest questions about self control, boundaries, ghosting, and what to do when the people around you are making choices you do not agree with. From friends who want a “wild phase,” to catching feelings...

What happens when Christians share their most unhinged dating stories? We’re back with 10 of the wildest, cringiest, and most unbelievable moments we’ve ever heard on the podcast. In this episode, we blind react to 10 new stories from our listeners. From a guy who said “you’re not that ugly,” to someone finding out they were being pursued by a distant cousin, to a stalker from a Christian dating a...

What do you do when you find out the person you love has been hiding something from you? In this painfully honest episode, Jenna Zint sits down with us to talk about discovering her husband’s porn addiction and what actually happens to your heart, your trust, and your identity when the truth comes out. If you have ever been hit with that gut-drop moment where you start thinking, “Wait… what else d...

What happens when a husband realizes he’s been doing only 30% of his job? In this powerful conversation with author and pastor Danny Silk , we unpack what it really means for a man to protect, provide, and connect —and why so many marriages start to heal only when men stop acting like victims and start taking responsibility. In this episode, we sit down with Danny to talk through the hardest lesso...

What happens when real people share their craziest Christian dating stories? Buckle up, because these might be some of the most awkward, hilarious, and painfully relatable moments you’ve ever heard. In this episode, we blind react to 10 wild dating submissions from our listeners. From a “prophetic” engagement that wasn’t real, to the guy who said Judas was his favorite Bible character, to a dream...

What happens when real people open up about what they’re walking through and ask for help with love, sex, and dating? WATCH NEXT ➡︎  https://youtu.be/CFjj-HWbrdk In this episode, Gen Z Christians call in to talk about the things most people are too afraid to say out loud. From wondering if they should make the first move, to battling shame from their past, to struggling with confidence and porn, t...

If you’ve ever wondered, “Why can’t I break free from this?” it’s probably because you’ve believed a lie. WATCH NEXT ➡︎  https://youtu.be/selIu5ifNJ8 From “God must be disgusted with me” to “one last time won’t matter,” these lies are the chains that keep Christians trapped in sexual sin. But the truth of Scripture exposes every one of them, and sets you free. In this episode, we’ll break down the...

Pop culture has fed us some wild dating theories, but are they actually true? WATCH NEXT ➡︎  https://youtu.be/Rllscn2lNio From Taylor Swift’s “invisible string” soulmate myth to the idea that “if they wanted to, they would,” we’re breaking down 6 of the craziest relationship theories people believe and what the Bible really says about them. In this episode, we’ll uncover which theories hold some t...

Christians really asked these questions about sex… and we actually answered them. What happens when you don’t want sex even in marriage? What if porn is part of your relationship… does that count as cheating? And how do you know if you have formed a soul tie that needs to be broken? In this episode, we are answering 10 of the spiciest anonymous questions Gen Z Christians have sent us about sex, da...

AI isn’t just changing technology, it’s changing how you approach intimacy. WATCH NEXT ➡︎  https://youtu.be/YoIHF4Ks65Q What happens when the porn industry no longer needs human bodies? When desire is shaped by pixels instead of people? And when the first sexual experience for a generation might be with something that isn’t even real? In this episode, we’re tackling one of the most dangerous trend...

Media doesn’t just fill your time—it forms your desires. WATCH NEXT ➡︎ https://youtu.be/t26Af-zetBU There’s no such thing as “just a show.” Whether it’s Love Island, Game of Thrones, or your favorite rom-com, what we watch is shaping what we desire. The real question isn’t “can I handle it?” but “do I want to become someone who’s no longer bothered by what breaks God’s heart?” In this episode, we’...