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TW SWEARING...Check yourself, a podcast about owning you!

Emotional safety in a relationship. Good morning, today's podcast discusses emotional safety in a relationship.

Toxic partners and breaking the chain-red flags. A podcast about self recognition/reflection breaking the chain of self abuse. That's right, isn't that brutal? Not nearly as brutally as dating a functional psychopath who'll hurt you though. So here's to honesty, no self harming of emotions and embracing change. Change that ultimately rewards with happiness. Here's to my next date with the new guy...

Reflection

TW Swearing............Get back on Bumble you asshole. When someone isn't working on themselves but claims they are it's a tedious, monotonous mind f**k. How many books, memes, journals and self help apps/podcasts/gym sessions can you take before you leave the person who's desperate trying to prove *because they are a functional psychopath that they want to get 'better. This all boils down to appe...

London regeneration I took a trip, I'll tell you more...

So I'm going on a date tonight... With a new guy. This podcast is raw, honest and open but gentle. Enjoy ❤

Revenge porn has been a sexual offence since 2015, and carries a sentence of up to two years’ imprisonment. The law defines it as distributing private explicit images without the consent of the person depicted, which is commonly done maliciously to shame ex-partners. Distribution refers to any form of sharing, whether online via social media or websites or offline via physical copies, and the mate...

Trauma bonds are emotional bonds with an individual that arise from a recurring, cyclical pattern of abuse perpetuated by intermittent reinforcement through rewards and punishments. The process of forming trauma bonds is referred to as trauma bonding or traumatic bonding

Deflection Can Be a Coping Mechanism We want people to see us as functional, dependable, and trustworthy. For some people, deflection is a coping mechanism to make sure others don't think less of them and to take the attention off of themselves.

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Today is moving day- I get the keys to my new home today. This is where my journey to recovery begins. I've got a plan, come share with me and gain strength from leaning your path along side me.

Coercive control is an act or a pattern of acts of assault, threats, humiliation and intimidation or other abuse that is used to harm, punish, or frighten their victim.

Lone wolves are emotionally unable or unwilling to directly interact. A stereotypical lone wolf will be dark and have been cast away from a group for being the weakest link.

Love bombing is an attempt to influence a person by demonstrations of attention and affection. It happens when someone overwhelms the victim with loving words or physical actions with manipulative behaviours. It can be used in different ways and for either positive or negative purposes. 

So here's to future dates, I'm not going to settle for just anything after all I've done that and wasted precious time, which I regret. However this guy is talented, ambitious, emotionally open and very very attractive and he's already asked me on a date. Here's to more of those vibes!

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Dating, intimacy & kissing... When you've suffered trauma and abuse it's hard to conceive or even think about dating let alone the intimate connection. I couldn't even imagine the thought of entering a sexual and emotional relationship again until I decided to atleast be open to possibility that I may enjoy it and find myself feeling attractive again. So I took the plunge and found myself once aga...

Good morning, how are you? Today's topic is about new connections. Discussing new romantic/intimate relations... Why it's important to start a fresh without bringing your past into the present.

TW This mornings topic is discussing Sexualisation. Now this is a loaded topic about misogynistic, narcissistic & homophobic views. A further podcast will be released today with more thoughts.

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Alienating is ABUSE, abusers want to separate the victim from family, friends, work friends and anyone on social media. An abuser doesn't want their victim to speak out against them. Remember a perp has spent days/months/years grooming people that consider them as a friend so you as a victim rolling in and destroying their "reputation" W I L L deeply hurt them. But not for normal reasons but becau...

Whilst this is highly juvenile and emotionally unintelligent it is also highly abusive. Done to cause maximum pain to the actual victi.... Remember though this the act of a perp desperate to on the surface look innocent to people around them. Acts like this ultimately undemine the perps whole fleeting story about who they are.