Less Drama More Mama

Do you love yourself? Why or why not? According to Brené Brown, we can only love others as much as we love ourselves. So it stands to reason that loving yourself benefits everyone around you. In today's episode, I discuss what keeps people from loving themselves and steps to increasing your own self-love. https://lessdramamoremama.com/132

You are the CEO of your family. And just like in a corporate business, there are times when it's beneficial to bring everyone together to talk about company policies, goals, schedules, expectations, changes in routine, and any issue or obstacle that's hindering business success so that everyone is on the same page and working toward the same goals. In this episode, I'm sharing when and why to use...

My guest on today's podcast is the one and only Andrea Askowitz. She's a dear family friend and the executive producer and co-host of the Writing Class Radio podcast. As a writing teacher and mom of 2, Andrea knows firsthand how powerful writing and storytelling can be for moms. Tune in to this episode to hear us talk about the benefits of writing and storytelling for moms, and the unique writing/...

Does your life ever resemble a soap opera that's filled with drama? The drama triangle is a tool designed to help you understand the roles people play in conflict and drama-laden relationships. Tune in to this episode to learn more about the drama triangle and how it can help you have less mama drama in your life. https://lessdramamoremama.com/129

Do you dream of a time when life is easy and you'll finally feel happy? When your kids sleep through the night? When they stop bickering and throwing tantrums? When you can hand over the car keys and send your child to the grocery store? Tune in to today's episode, and learn how thinking about the future in this way delays your happiness and keeps you from enjoying the present. https://lessdramamo...

Every challenge we face as moms is like another level of parenting we can learn to conquer. What do you think would need to happen for you to take your parenting to the next level, and what would that look like for you? What is the thing that, if you could just figure out how to overcome it, your life would improve and you would show up as an even better version of yourself? Today's episode is mea...

Have you ever been super excited to start a new habit or achieve a new goal only to find your energy and motivation fizzles out before you reach it? We've all been there. But why does this happen? And how can you prevent it from happening again? In this episode, I answer both of these questions and share the secret to achieving success. https://lessdramamoremama.com/126

Do you feel like you can't create the future you want because you don't know how, or you think you don't have what it takes? I have good news for you. Knowing HOW to create your future isn't as important as believing that it's possible. Join me for today's episode as I explain this concept in more detail and offer some questions for you to consider. https://lessdramamoremama.com/125

Is there an argument or problem that occurs in your relationship with your child again and again, in exactly the same way, with a predictable outcome? Many of us think that if we just keep doing what we're doing and repeat ourselves enough times, eventually our kids will see the light and change their behavior. Unfortunately, that rarely works. Tune in to today's episode and learn how to change th...

Do you have a Word of the Year? I jumped on the Word of the Year bandwagon back in 2014 and haven't looked back. Join me for this episode as I explain what it is and why it's useful, review my past words, and reveal my new one for 2021. I'll also give you tips for choosing your own Word of the Year and tell you where you can share it with other mamas who listen to the podcast. https://lessdramamor...

With the New Year approaching, now is the perfect time to introduce your kids to the value of setting goals and what it takes to achieve them. The process of setting goals, learning to handle setbacks, tolerate frustration, and cultivate a growth mindset will serve your kids well throughout their lives. As moms, we can help them do this, while modeling how we set and achieve our own goals, too. Jo...

My grandmother would have been 112 years old today. But she didn't just exist to be 101 — she really lived and enjoyed life. Whenever I tell people how long she lived, they want to know: "What was her secret?" Tune in to today's episode to hear eight of my grandmother's "secrets" for longevity revealed. My hope is that we can all learn from her wisdom and live long, prosperous lives, while also mo...

My guest today is Master Certified Life Coach Erin Aquin, author of the new book, Revitalize Your Relationship . Erin works with clients to help them fall back in love with their partners, realize their own self-worth, and improve their relationships in every way. Tune in to hear all about how Erin got into life coaching, some of the main issues couples bring to her, and helpful tips to get on the...

Thanksgiving is almost here in the U.S., and for many it can feel hard to be in the holiday spirit when 2020 has been filled with so much pain and suffering. If you're finding it difficult to feel gratitude this year, this episode is for you. Join me as I talk about gratitude, guilt, and 2020 blessings. https://lessdramamoremama.com/119

You (hopefully) already know that you should avoid saying things to your kids like, "You're so stupid," "You're so fat," or "You should be more like your brother or sister." You may have also heard the advice to avoid giving empty praise such as, "Good job!" and "You're so smart!" In today's episode, I share three things to avoid saying to your kids that are much less obvious, though moms say them...

Do you worry yourself sick imagining the worst thing that can happen to you or your kids? Tune in to hear me talk about the worst that can happen (it's not what you think it is) and how best to handle it. You won't want to miss this game-changing episode! https://lessdramamoremama.com/117

Life is full of challenges. As moms, we want to equip our kids with the self-confidence and courage to be able to handle those challenges without scaring them in the process. But how do we do that? Join me in this episode where I share my thoughts on the matter and offer some practical tips. https://lessdramamoremama.com/116

Do you think your kid is lazy? In today's episode, I talk about my idea that lazy kids don't exist. In fact, chances are high that your child has a perfectly normal, functioning, and healthy brain. Tune in as I share some of the reasons kids lack motivation and how to help them increase it. https://lessdramamoremama.com/115

Sometimes a thought sounds positive, even noble. But just because it sounds good, doesn't mean it feels good or produces positive results. Join me for today's episode, as I share an example of a thought that kept me stuck in marital drama for years. I also share examples of other thoughts that seem innocent, but often cause moms distress. https://lessdramamoremama.com/114

What do parents and Janet Jackson have in common? They want to be in control. Yet many parents are under the illusion that they can somehow control their kids. Join me for this episode as I explain this illusion, and how breaking free from it can help you have an even greater influence on your kids. https://lessdramamoremama.com/113

You want more cooperation from your kids. More love and connection. More proof that you're doing a good job raising good kids. Tune in to today's episode, where I share the secret to getting all of that, and more of anything you want! https://lessdramamoremama.com/112

Did you know there's a free parenting tool already on your phone? This tool allows you to set and enforce limits without being perceived by your kids as the "bad guy." It can help you be more productive and give you some much needed time for yourself, too. What is this amazing tool? Tune into today's episode to find out! https://lessdramamoremama.com/111

While the Coronavirus continues to spread, many students are returning to virtual school this Fall. And while distance learning has its challenges, there are many ways parents and teachers can work together to help kids be successful. Join me and my guest, Lauren Adler, as we chat about the role of parents in virtual school, and how to best facilitate your child's learning from home. https://lessd...

Last week, Kellyanne Conway made headlines with her announcement that she was leaving the White House as Trump's advisor, saying that she needed to spend more time with her four children. In her resignation letter, she wrote, "For now, and for my beloved children, it will be less drama, more mama ." That phrase quickly spread through the media, giving my podcast and website some free publicity in...

Humans are social creatures who crave connection. With so many kids going back to school virtually, making and keeping friends can be a real challenge now. Tune in to this episode for some ideas about how you can help your kids develop and maintain their social relationships during the pandemic. https://lessdramamoremama.com/108