Latter Day Struggles

Send us a Positive Review! Series Title: Valerie’s Personal Journey [Part I of II] Join Val and fellow therapist Brannon Patrick this week as Brannon interviews Valerie about her first year accidentally diving into the deep end as a professional voice speaking respectfully but directly on behalf of thousands of individuals in the LDS faith and trust crisis and expansion space. In those two episode...

Send us a Positive Review! Series Title: PRIDE and Personal Growth [Part II of II] Join Val and a handful of special guests on this second half of a series honoring PRIDE month.  In this episode several beautiful women and men share their unique journeys finding self/other love and acceptance on the full spectrum of gender and sexuality. Unlearning can be more challenging than learning, especially...

Send us a Positive Review! Series Title: PRIDE and Personal Growth [Part I of II] Join Valerie for the next couple of week honoring PRIDE in a variety of different ways. First and most importantly, Valerie has invited several individuals (like yourselves!) from her small groups to share their own growth journeys in the context of PRIDE month. In each of these stories shared you will learn from gay...

Send us a Positive Review! Series Title: When Marriage Doctrines Unintentionally Divide a Couple [Part I of II] This week on the Latter Day Struggles podcast Valerie focuses on a population of people whom she loves and sees consistently in a lot of pain here in and around the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. Married couples in the LDS church tend to experience a great deal of distress...

Send us a Positive Review! Series Title: Visionary Women Past & Present [Part I of II] Join Valerie and guest Fiona Givens as together they discuss a true prophetess and mystic, Julian of Norwich. Father Richard Rohr has often called Julian his "favorite mystic" and Fiona attributes this woman as one of the most personally influential to her in the development of her own whole and ho...

Send us a Positive Review! During the Covid Pandemic, Valerie read even more than usual.  One of the authors whom she binged was Jungian analyst James Hollis, who tipped her entire psychological and theological paradigm…right-side-up…finally.  She passed several books off to Nathan and together they reconfigured a spirituality that is the foundation of what you hear in some way, shape, or form in...

Send us a Positive Review! Author, Evangelical theologian, and recently deceased Christian reformer Rachel Held Evans poignantly stated,  "A lot of people think the hardest part about religious doubt is feeling isolated from God. It's not. At least in my experience, the hardest part about doubt is feeling isolated from your community." In this episode Valerie and Nathan share their...

Send us a Positive Review! Join Val as she breaks down a thought provoking idea about the pull of cynicism as a natural emotional component of Christian faith evolution.  She explores a beautiful and thought provoking quote by the late Rachel Held Evans from her book Searching for Sundays. Highlights of this episode: Cynicism is a protective emotion often experienced to manage legitimate emotions...

Send us a Positive Review! Series Title: Healing our Ideas about God's Nature [Part II of II] In this episode, Valerie again is a guest on "The Brannon Patrick Show" and they continue in their conversation about the ways that our inherited constructs about God get in the way of our personal growth and our relationship growth to our higher powers Specific ideas that hurt:  God is mal...

Send us a Positive Review! Series Title: Healing our Ideas about God's Nature [Part I of II] Today's episode is the first half of a fascinating conversation between Valerie and fellow therapist/podcaster Brannon Patrick where Val is guest on Brannon's  new podcast "The Brannon Patrick Show” In this two-part conversation they dive into how some of our received ideas about God ma...

Send us a Positive Review! Series Title: Real Talk about the Book of Mormon [Part IV of IV] Join Valerie and special guest Paul Toscano in this part four (last in this series) focused on untangling some of the complexities of The Book of Mormon. In this episode Val questions Paul on a variety of topics involving The Book of Mormon, including its connection with Joseph Smith Jr., her own wrestles w...

Send us a Positive Review! Series Title: Real Talk about the Book of Mormon [Part III of IV] Join Valerie and special guest Paul Toscano in this part three on a series focusing on untangling some of the complexities of the Book of Mormon.  Paul had a lot of fascinating ideas about this topic including 3 ways to look at the Book of Mormon: As a historical record (the most immature, irrelevant, and...

Send us a Positive Review! Series Title: Real Talk about the Book of Mormon [Part II of IV] In this second of a four part series tackling various aspects of the Book of Mormon with a couple of prominent Mormon theologians, Valerie continues to talk to Taylor Petrey about the negative impact that many current members are experiencing around the overly simplistic narrative regarding the translation...

Send us a Positive Review! Series Title: Real Talk about the Book of Mormon [Part I of IV] It's time to take a deep dive into what may be a psychologically and spiritually confusing topic for many expanding members in and around the LDS church—THE BOOK OF MORMON.  In this FIRST of a four part series tackling many complex aspects of the Book of Mormon with prominent Mormon scholars, Valerie be...

Send us a Positive Review! While *generally* trying to avoid “taking pages out of Satan’s playbook” [which sounds both a little terrifying and very intriguing at the same time], Val and Nathan recently found themselves at odds in their respective interpretations and experiences listening to P. Nelson’s April 2023 General Conference address titled “Peacemakers Needed”.  Listen in and see how health...

Send us a Positive Review! This episode introduces the concept of “non-hierarchical revelation” as key to the spiritual health of any Christ centered organization. This episode dives into ideas about how revelation going in both directions: 1] creates a synergistic partnership between leadership and lay membership where both parties are increasingly growing in their abilities to not only communica...

Send us a Positive Review! Join Val and Nathan in this episode where they respond to the address recently given in April 2023 general conference by Allen D Haynie, titled “A Living Prophet for our Day”.  Specific points from this address explored: The rule-of-thumb suggested privileging current prophetic counsel over past prophetic counsel when contradictions surface Parents who teach and model by...

Send us a Positive Review! In this episode Valerie and Nathan reminisce about the "good ol’ days" when they anticipated General Conference and the spiritual feasting that it involved.  This podcast (111th semi-weekly session, btw ;) of reminiscing was produced mainly to help many of us make sense of the very complicated feelings we have when the first weeks of April and October roll arou...

Send us a Positive Review! In this episode Val and Nathan explore what it takes to form a psychologically healthy system…whether this system is an immediate or extended family group, a relief society class, priesthood quorum, Sunday school group, or any combination of people who come together regularly to share some part of their lives, thoughts, feelings, or experiences. Val and Nathan walk throu...

Send us a Positive Review! In this episode Valerie reviews some fascinating ideas about the relationship between cognitive dissonance and self justification and applies these ideas to humanity, institutions, churches, and the LDS church. She walks you through the following ideas: why humans and institutions self justify why people in leadership are especially prone to self justification why entire...

Send us a Positive Review! In this episode, Valerie highlights what you will learn in her NEW online course  “A COUPLE’S GUIDE FOR LDS FAITH CRISIS AND EXPANSION” for couples struggling with uneven faith journey experiences.  As of mid-2024, this course ("The Couples Guide to Faith Crisis and Expansion") has been broken into three stand-alone self-paced online classes.  Once purchased, y...

Send us a Positive Review! Series Title: Psychological Health Check on LDS Theology of Marriage & Family [Part XII of XII] In this final guest-interview portion of their ‘Eternal Marriage Theology Health Check’ series, Valerie visits with a married couple who shares their journey from early Mormon orthodoxy (which came naturally for him and felt like an ill-fitting costume for her) to their cu...

Send us a Positive Review! Series Title: Psychological Health Check on LDS Theology of Marriage & Family [Part XI of XII] In this episode you meet TJ, a wonderful young man navigating the complexities of young single adult life as a gay member of the LDS church. He shares his story about slowly and gradually learning to accept his infinite lovability in God's eyes, which led to his eventu...

Send us a Positive Review! Series Title: Psychological Health Check on LDS Theology of Marriage & Family [Part X of XII] Join Valerie in this incredibly tender episode with two sets of LDS parents with children on the LGBTQ+ spectrum as they share their journey as individuals, as a couple, and as a family system embracing their gay and transgender children. Each of these beautiful parents walk...

Send us a Positive Review! Series Title: Psychological Health Check on LDS Theology of Marriage & Family [Part IX of XII] In this portion of this series featuring the tender stories of individuals learning about the complexities of the LDS eternal marriage theology first hand, Valerie visits with Cindy, a woman brave enough to share her story of her two marriages. Her first marriage was the re...