Language of Love with Dr. Laura Berman

Have you ever wondered why something meant to be pleasurable can sometimes feel uncomfortable or even painful? In this Language of Love Bite, I tackle an important issue we don’t discuss nearly enough—pain during sex. This common experience affects up to 75% of women at some point in their lives, but the good news is that you don’t have to just live with it. There are real reasons behind it, and m...

Have you ever met someone and felt an instant connection, like you’ve known them forever? Isn’t it amazing how some people seem to resonate with your very soul? That magical feeling isn’t just coincidence; it’s what we call a “soul friend,” and trust me, it’s more enchanting than you might think! In this episode of The Language of Love Conversation, I’m excited to sit down with the incredible Sah...

Postpartum sexuality—how often do we actually talk about it? Probably not enough. You’re healing, emotions are high, and intimacy might feel like a distant thought. Meanwhile, your partner might be quietly wondering how to approach it too. So, how do you bring up such a sensitive topic without making it feel like walking on eggshells? And how do you open up when you’re still figuring things out yo...

We’ve all been there—life throws us a curveball, and we’re left dealing with trauma. And as much as we’d love just to hit the "ignore" button, trauma has this sneaky way of creeping into our relationships. In this Language of Love Bite, I dive into the deep end of trauma. We're talking all kinds here—sexual, physical, emotional, rejection, humiliation, abandonment, and betrayal trauma. It's a lot,...

A lot of people, especially women, still freak out about a few gray hairs or a new wrinkle. So, why not flip the script? In this episode of The Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with the "Midlife Muse," clinical psychologist, speaker, and author Dr. Amanda Hanson, to dive into the tricky subject of aging—especially for women. Society pushes us to stay forever youthful, but Amanda’s here to...

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you’re unsure how to come clean with your partner about something from your past? It’s uncomfortable, right? In this episode of The Language of Love Sessions, one of my listeners, Sasha, finds herself in a tough spot—she’s not sure how to come clean to her partner after being less than honest about her sexual history. We’ve all had moments where te...

Trust issues are the sneaky villains behind many relationship troubles. Those past betrayals and broken promises make it hard to open up again. But here’s the bright side: rebuilding trust isn’t just about fixing what’s broken; it’s about turning old wounds into a fresh start. In this Language of Love Bite, I give my advice on how to build trust in relationships, especially for those dealing with...

Are you grappling with the profound weight of grief and wondering if you'll ever find your way through? Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the idea that healing from loss should follow a straightforward path, only to be met with the unpredictable twists and turns of your emotions? In this  episode of The Language of Love Conversation, I’m chatting with the incredible David Kessler—one of the world’...

Many parents feel uneasy when it comes to talking to their kids about sex—it’s a tricky subject, and you’re not alone if it makes you uncomfortable. But the question is: when’s the right time to start? Should you bring it up before they hit adolescence or wait until they’re teenagers?  In this Language of Love Session, I’m chatting with Linda, a listener who recently found herself knowing she need...

We’ve all heard debates about what really excites a woman intimately — whether it’s the clitoris, kisses, nipples, or other sensations. But what if I told you the real secret might surprise you? In this Language of Love Bite, I dive into how to excite the vagina and keep the passion alive in ways you might not expect. I explore some of the best exercises and tips that can work wonders and add an e...

One of the few absolute truths for every one of us is that death is inevitable, yet it’s a taboo topic that many of us avoid discussing. But can planning for your own death actually bring peace of mind and even make you live a more fulfilling  life? In this eye-opening episode of The Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with Alua Arthur—a New York Times bestselling author, death doula, and fo...

Ever felt like your past is casting a shadow over your love life? Childhood experiences, including trauma, are intricately woven into the nature and the challenges we face in relationships. In this Language of Love Session, I delve into a heartfelt email from Muhammad, a courageous 21-year-old man from Iran. He’s grappling with his sexual orientation and OCD, sharing his attraction to abusive midd...

What if we’ve got it all wrong that the best sex is spontaneous? Could planning for intimacy actually light up a new spark in your relationship? With work stress, bills, and endless errands already filling our calendars, isn’t it worth a shot to see if scheduling sex might just be the secret to keeping the flame burning bright? In this Language of Love Bite, I’m diving into and vouching for a topi...

I think we can all agree we are in an epidemic of loneliness. Most of us are craving deeper relationships, a genuine sense of belonging, and a community that feels like home. In this episode of "The Language of Love Conversation," I sit down with Radha Agrawal, a nine-figure entrepreneur and community-building expert. Together, we delve into the art of forging meaningful connections and share powe...

In this Language of Love Session, I’m excited to catch up with Marla and Ken, a couple who turned their love story around and are now absolutely glowing. Having embraced Quantum Love, they’re reaching new heights in intimacy. They both share how the guidance and homework I gave them helped create a nurturing, affectionate space between them, and deeply transformed their connection. We get into all...

There’s an art to listening to your partner in a way that will change everything in the energy between you.    In this Language of Love Bite, I dive into why listening matters so much in relationships. Truly listening—without interrupting or planning your next witty comeback— can work wonders for intimacy and trust. In addition to advice and guidance on the art of listening, I share some of my own...

Have you ever felt shocked at how strongly you react to something? Feeling stuck in the same patterns you know don’t serve you?  Well it may be your Shadow at work.  And understanding your shadows leads to transformation and sets you free.  The path to that freedom lies in the parts of yourself you've been ignoring. Joining me in this Language of Love Conversation is the amazing business consultan...

They say the secret to deeper, more authentic relationships might be hidden in your childhood. What if the love languages you speak today are echoes from a younger version of yourself?  In this Language of Love session, I’m reconnecting with Carmen, a caller I advised on the show nearly two years! Time really does fly, doesn’t it? Carmen has been on quite a journey since we last spoke. Remember wh...

Let's be real—every couple has their moments. Fights are just part of the deal in relationships. Having healthy disagreements and working through them in a respectful way can actually make your bond stronger. In this Language of Love Bite, I bust the myth that happy couples never fight. I'm all about how fighting can be good—if you do it right. I share easy tips on staying calm when things heat up...

Did you know that your self-talk could be the sneaky culprit affecting your relationships more than you think? Maybe you've found yourself stuck in a relationship rut, scratching your head, wondering why things just aren't clicking with your partner. What if the secret to unlocking those mysteries might just lie within you and your partner's attachment style?  In this Language of Love Conversation...

Ever felt like stress could be the invisible third wheel in your relationship? It's not just you. Stress has this uncanny ability to seep into our lives like an uninvited guest at a party—especially when it comes to relationships. In this Language of Love Session, we catch up with Marla and Ken. Since our last chat they have been on quite a journey together through some major stresses, and they ar...

Why does it seem like the nice guys finish last? Women say they want one, but they always seem to go for the bad boy in the end.  In this Language of Love Bite, I uncover the truth about why women often find themselves captivated by the so-called "jerks," leaving nice guys in the dust and overlooked in favor of these "bad boys." It's not about advocating for guys to mistreat women, but rather unde...

The saying goes, “A parent is only as happy as their least happy child.” While this may be a bit of a codependent edict, it’s true that when your child is struggling with anxiety, depression or in any other way it takes a deep toll on the family system. And as parents we try everything we can think of to help, but often those efforts don’t create any substantive change.  In this episode of the Lan...

Have you ever thought about what it's like to live under the same roof with someone who once promised to love and protect you, but now subjects you to a relentless storm of emotional jabs, verbal assaults, gaslighting and manipulation? Welcome back to another Language of Love Session. Today, I'm chatting with Mia, who's on a journey of healing and self-discovery after leaving an emotionally abusiv...

Are you ever uncertain about your sexual confidence? Whether it's feeling self-conscious with your partner or nerves about your first time, rest assured, you're not alone. No matter your level of experience, I'm here to help you feel more comfortable with your sexuality.  In this  Language of Love Bite, I dive into a topic that many people shy away from discussing—sexual confidence. Strengthening...