Koller Commentary

We brought the Unni onto the pod. This episode we're getting into the questions that don't always get asked out loud — how did your sibling order shape the way you show up in friendships? How many siblings you had, where you landed in the lineup, what role you played — it all did something to you, especially if you grew up in an immigrant family. We also reflect on how we can confront gene...

Asking Jadon and Evan a few questions about Matt on Father's Day! We love you, Appa :)

We're launching a new season of Koller Commentary — and I'm kicking it off with my girl Stephanie Kim, @tressuni. 🎙️ This episode? We went there. 🤍 Stepping into motherhood — the excitement, the nerves, all of it 🤍 Gender disappointment — and why it's okay to say that out loud to move forward 🤍 Sibling order and the impact it had on us 🤍 What we're bringing into parenting — and...

What happens when your story doesn’t follow the script? In this episode, I sit down with Jane Yun—photographer, mom of two, and a woman of intimate faith—as she shares her vulnerable journey into unexpected motherhood. If this is a sensitive topic for you, please feel the freedom to skip it. 🤍 From navigating the emotional wrestle of an unplanned pregnancy to finding strength in obedience—and slo...

Matt and I sit down to talk about Court of Gold , the Netflix documentary following the 2024 USA Men’s Basketball Team’s journey to Olympic gold in Paris. From LeBron to Steph to KD, we relive the epic moments and share our favorite highlights. Of course, we had to add our signature twist—breaking down some team and country dynamics through the lens of the Enneagram. What type is Jokic? How would...

We’re celebrating 7 years of marriage with a little reflection, some deep(ish) questions, and a lot of laughs. In this episode, we go down memory lane, share what’s surprised us most about each other, what’s shaped our relationship over the years, and how we hope to grow in the near future. Marriage has its highs and lows, and we’re just grateful for the ways God has carried us through our valley...

Starting a business from the ground up is no small feat—but Dr. Grace Lee is doing it with a heart full of purpose. In this second part of our conversation, we talk about the launch of Karis Orthodontics , the vision behind her private practice, and how she’s bringing grace, kindness, and excellence into her work. As an Enneagram 7, Grace thrives on adventure, creativity, and thinking outside the...

I sit down with friend and orthodontist, Dr. Grace Lee, who shares her story full of resilience, cultural richness, and deep purpose. Born and raised in Paris to Korean missionary parents, her journey has taken her across continents—shaping not only her identity but also her approach to life and career. In this first part of our conversation, we dive into her upbringing, how she navigated multiple...

This episode is one I’ve been dreaming of since I started this podcast a few years ago—a conversation with my 5-year-old! As a little “mom present” to myself, I sat down with him to capture his thoughts on life, family, and all the big (and silly) things in between. This 15 minute chat is full of joy, laughter, and those unexpectedly deep insights that only a 5-year-old can give. Whether you're a...

What happens when passion for Korean heritage, excellent leadership, and rooted friendship come together? In this case, it creates quite an amazing and impactful immersive Korean summer camp, Camp Hwarang , that’s shaping young minds beyond just one week. I sit down with the camp’s leaders, Hanna Chang and Hajin Yoon, to explore how their unique partnership as an Enneagram 3 and an Enneagram 1 hel...

Basketball and the Enneagram—what more could you want? In this episode, Matt and I dive into Netflix’s Starting 5 and take our best shots at typing Jayson Tatum, LeBron James, Jimmy Butler, Anthony Edwards, and Domantas Sabonis. From leadership styles to personal motivations, we break down how their personalities show up on and off the court. Plus, we kick things off with some New Year reflections...

In this episode, I sit down with Grace Ryu—mom, nurse practitioner, content creator, and eldest daughter of an immigrant family—who embodies resilience, leadership, and growth. We dive into how her Enneagram 3 personality shapes her drive as a mom and professional, the challenges of pregnancy and postpartum depression, and the journey of reclaiming her self-worth. Grace also reflects on the lesson...

In this episode, I’m joined by Kiju Lee, a trailblazing Asian American woman in tech, DIY content creator behind @homeleebuild, and an inspiring Enneagram 3 eldest daughter. Kiju opens up about her journey in an immigrant family and the weight of expectations that shaped her resilience and leadership. Kiju shares how her upbringing and decision to choose her own path fueled her success as a strong...

In this episode, I have three friends, Josh, Daniel, and Abe, join me to talk all things recruiting. These dynamic professionals pull back the curtain on the world of recruiting, sharing the highs and lows of their careers and offering invaluable advice for job seekers. From dos and don’ts of interviewing to funny and heartwarming stories from the field, they remind us how to navigate the job hunt...

I have been WAITING to record this episode with Michelle Kim, founder of Nae Color, and I am so excited to finally share this with you all. I sit down with this passionate personal color analysis expert who uses this tool to bring out her clients' best features. Michelle shares her unique professional journey to becoming a professional consultant and offers a fresh look at what it means to see and...

In this episode, I sit down with one of my closest friends Stephanie Kim, also known as @tressuni, to explore a word that holds profound cultural weight in Korean: 'waste'—아까워. Together, we unpack how this word shaped our values growing up, from how we viewed opportunities and material things to the hidden pressure it can create in our daily lives and careers. Join us as we share personal stori...

In this episode, my siblings, Alex & Jessica Chi, join the pod to dive into our unique sibling book club! We chat about how this came to be, what the structure has looked like for our group over the year, the highs and lows of our reading journey, and each of our favorite (and least favorite) books so far. Join us as we take you on an an inside look at how our book club has brought us closer a...

In part 2 of my conversation with Angel, we dive deeper into her life after escaping North Korea. Angel shares her struggles with depression, how she found unexpected faith in God, and the new challenges of learning to mother in a completely new environment. We also delve into her love story with Matt (Warrenfells :P) and explore her experience with marriage, as well as the emotional and spiritual...

In this episode, I sit down with Angel Keumhyang Warrenfells as she shares her incredible journey as a North Korean defector. From the hardships of her childhood in North Korea to the harrowing escape and the unexpected challenges of adapting to a new life, Angel’s story is one of resilience, hope, and strength. Tune in to be inspired and amazed by her courage, and walk away motivated to face your...

In this episode of Koller Commentary , I sit down with Esther Soyun Park to discuss her journey from non-profit work to becoming a stay-at-home momfluencer with her two beautiful kids under two. We dive into how Esther embraces change in motherhood and marriage while staying authentic to her faith, culture, and identity. She shares her struggles and triumphs, offering insight into balancing purpos...

On this relaunch episode, I’m handing the mic to my husband, Matt, as we dive into a year of growth, change, and unlearning. From stepping out of the stay-at-home mom season to letting go of old mindsets, we’re reflecting, laughing, slightly arguing, and maybe even spilling some tea on what’s next. Join us for some real talk on embracing new seasons with joy and adventure! & leave an encouragi...

GO OFF JESS AND SAL!! Every love story is unique, and hearing the Ansari’s journey to one is a beautiful reminder of how special each woven union truly is. From their friend zoned beginning to an autoimmune disease diagnosis at the start of their marriage to so many golden nuggets of His fingerprints all over, this episode is a reflection of their resilience, partnership, and abundant JOY in this...

If you thought Part 1 was good, you're in for a treat for Part 2 with these Enneagram 9 Husbands. Listen in as they reflect on how their defense mechanisms come to play in their lives, how they have grown and matured through embracing conflict, and what they love about their amazing Type 2 and Type 7 wives. After recording these episodes, now I know why Enneagram 9s are so fun to be around. Fr...

I have never had so much fun recording a podcast episode (actually TWO) than I did with these four men who brought laughter, depth, and insight to their lives as Enneagram 9s. Tune in as you listen to what resonates to each of them as a Type 9, how their upbringing might have affected this formation, and how getting married has challenged them to embrace conflict and more. This conversation gets s...

This week I invite my sister, Jessica Chi, onto the podcast to have real talk about the various transitions we've gone through in the past decade. Being best friends since forever, we have both faced the tough reality of how life's changes resulted in new seasons for us as we navigate how to best embrace these new chapters while properly saying goodbye to the precious past. Listen in as we...