Known and Trusted

Known and Trusted: One Year In - What We’ve Built, Learned, and Where We Go Next Anna Sonoda, LCSW, reflects on the first year of Known and Trusted , a podcast about grooming, trust, and child sexual abuse prevention. Drawing on her experience as a therapist and a mother of five, she reviews the ideas and conversations that shaped the show and shares priorities and practical invitations for year t...

The conversation explores the profound impact of the podcast 'Adults in the Room' on societal perceptions of abuse and grooming. It highlights the importance of storytelling in raising awareness and the ongoing challenges in addressing institutional responsibilities. In this conversation, the hosts discuss their experiences and aspirations for the second season of their podcast, focusing on the im...

The conversation covers Stacie's personal experience with grooming in high school, the impact of grooming, and the importance of recognizing grooming behaviors. It also delves into the role of teachers, parents, and the reporting structure in preventing and addressing grooming. Stacie shares insights from her upcoming podcast, 'Not Just a Terrible Story,' which sheds light on the issue of grooming...

The episode discusses the importance of addressing difficult material with children, particularly in the context of grooming prevention and awareness. It emphasizes the power of story to provide children with the language and context to recognize and discuss uncomfortable subjects. Takeaways Grooming is a process, not just a list of warning signs Children need language and context to distinguish h...

The conversation delves into the global epidemic of child grooming and sexual abuse prevention, emphasizing the importance of recognizing concerning behaviors and the impact of known and trusted relationships. It explores the stages of grooming, the GAS model, and the significance of teaching children body autonomy and real words for their body parts. Additionally, the conversation highlights the...

Dr. Ben discusses the myths and challenges of fatherhood in 2026, emphasizing the impact of societal changes and the role of forgiveness in family dynamics. He also highlights the importance of character development and respect in fatherhood, as well as the significance of normalcy and chores in children's upbringing. The Real Men's Guide to Fatherhood emphasizes the importance of structure, disci...

The Grooming Signs We Miss True Crimecast × Anna Sonoda, LCSW What if we could recognize the warning signs before there was a crime story to tell? True Crimecast sits down with grooming prevention expert Anna Sonoda, LCSW, to talk about how grooming works, why adults miss it, and how families can build the skills to recognize patterns before harm occurs. Anna also introduces her newest award-winni...

In this episode, Anna Sonoda, LCSW, discusses the concept of grooming prevention and the importance of recognizing patterns and behaviors. She emphasizes the need to see the whole picture and not just individual pieces, and encourages curiosity, transparency, and communication in preventing grooming. Takeaways Recognizing patterns is crucial for grooming prevention Curiosity, transparency, and com...

Warning: This episode discusses suicide. If you are in need of support, call 988 or text TALK. Carlos Rodriguez joins Known and Trusted to discuss his latest book, The Ugly Underneath. The conversation delves into the dark reality of crimes against children, the grooming that underlies human trafficking, and practical steps for protecting children online. Carlos emphasizes the importance of collab...

Michelle Peterson shares her son's experience of being groomed by a male school staff member and baseball coach, highlighting the challenges and failures in reporting and investigating the abuse. She discusses the tactics of grooming and the impact on her son and family. A mother's relentless pursuit of justice for her son, who was a victim of grooming and solicitation by a teacher, led to the fir...

With guest, Dawn McCarty, the conversation delves into the topic of grooming for religious conversion and its impact on family dynamics. Dawn shares her personal experience of being groomed for religious conversion and the effect it had on her family. The discussion explores the subtle tactics used in grooming and what every family can do to protect their children. Learn how becoming a criminologi...

Listen to this young woman explore her experience of being groomed in high school by an assistant band director. This episode addresses the mixed feelings of ambiguity and aftermath for survivors. This episode is about a subject that impacts one in ten high school students in the US. Thanks very much for listening and sharing with anyone who may benefit.

The conversation delves into the experience of grooming, manipulation, and inappropriate behavior by a high school band director. It covers the early signs of grooming, life before the harm, academic achievements, inappropriate conversations, and secrecy during the senior year. The conversation delves into the details of a teacher-student relationship, highlighting how grooming shows up in real li...

The podcast episode delves into the subtle signs and patterns of grooming behavior, emphasizing the need for recognition and action. It highlights the importance of understanding relational direction, building credibility, and taking incremental steps to address grooming concerns. The episode also provides resources for further support and promotes awareness about grooming concepts and prevention....

The conversation delves into the impact of divorce and co-parenting on children, emphasizing the importance of maintaining a positive relationship with the ex-spouse and prioritizing the well-being of the children. It also explores the role of hospice social workers and the impact of death and terminal illness on children. The discussion highlights the significance of seeking individual therapy du...

The conversation delves into the importance of mothering sons in 2026, exploring the challenges and shifts in parenting over the years. It also discusses the transition of roles as sons grow, the significance of adolescence and independence, and the impact of fathers and partners. Additionally, it covers risk assessment and communication in parenting. The conversation covers the importance of crea...

The conversation explores the impact of AI on children's emotional connection and the potential for AI to be used as a tool for grooming. It delves into the shift in how children experience connection, the dangers of synthetic intimacy, and the role of adults in protecting children from AI predators. Takeaways AI is becoming a significant social layer in the lives of youth, impacting their emotion...

The episode discusses the importance of clear safety practices in religious gatherings, particularly during Easter. It addresses the reality of religious grooming and provides practical checklists and scripts for ensuring child safety in faith settings. The conversation emphasizes the need for vigilance and empowerment in protecting children from potential risks during religious events. Takeaways...

The episode delves into the concept of grooming as an invitation rather than a break-in, and why that matters for parents today. It provides practical steps for parents to recognize and protect children from grooming, emphasizing the importance of collective protection in communities. Takeaways Grooming is an invitation, not a break-in

The conversation covers the GAS model for child safety, the impact of technology on grooming, spotting grooming signals, and practical rules for parents, communication. Takeaways Access is the primary safety lever Teach kids to notice signals of potential danger Chapters 00:00 Understanding the GAS Model 05:10 Practical Rules for Parents 10:20 Device Monitoring and Role Play

The conversation delves into Megan Farison's experience of grooming and abuse by an educator, exploring her early life, belief system, and the manipulation and coercion she faced. It also highlights the importance of recognizing warning signs and the impact of disclosure and response. The conversation delves into the impact of isolation and favoritism, the ripple effect of reporting, the challenge...

This episode provides guidance for parents and families who have discovered signs of grooming in a trusted adult or older child. It focuses on protecting the child, preserving important information, and supporting family recovery. The conversation also addresses the shift in understanding experienced by survivors and the immediate steps parents should take when grooming is discovered. Takeaways Gr...

The conversation explores the concept of the family operating system and its impact on family wellness. It delves into the unconscious adoption of default systems, the role of the family operating system, attention, influence, and attachment, collaborative creation of family crest, establishing family standards and values, practical recalibration for family wellness, interconnected mental wellness...

The episode delves into the under-discussed issue of peer-on-peer grooming, emphasizing the need for grooming literacy to help children recognize and resist peer influence. It covers the 4F formula for recognizing grooming tactics, high-risk peer ecosystems, teaching grooming literacy at different developmental stages, real-life testimony, and a framework for intervention, as well as empowering ch...

The conversation delves into the limitations of the tricky people model in child safety and introduces the concept of grooming literacy as a more effective approach. It challenges the traditional teaching of kids' boundaries and emphasizes the importance of institutional conversations and implementing grooming literacy in everyday conversations with children. Chapters 00:00 The Tricky People Model...