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Who wants to be loved only behind closed doors? Not us!!! Recognizing that not all people aren’t “out” in their ethically nonmonogamous love style, some may find it hard to share their relationships out in the open! If you have a partner who wants to keep your relationship private how would that make you feel?

Unless you’ve been living under a rock the past three weeks, you’ve seen or at least heard of The Tinder Swindler. This docu-series from Netflix got me to thinking, “Isn’t making connections on dating apps hard enough without worry about being finessed?!?” So this episode we’re going to be discussing dating apps, and things that make us Just Swipe Left.

In life we all deal with situations that can sometimes overwhelm us. Holding onto these things can be bad for our overall growth. We take on the burdens of others and never learn to unpack our emotions and the emotional hoard that some of us possess can become extremely detrimental and can ruin great relationships. In this solo episode with Kue he'll unpack that.

Getting gifts for that special someone can be tough  at times. What do they need? What size do they wear? What color should it be?  Do they already have this?.... But what if you have special SOMEONES... Lets talk about it cuz if your timing and POCKETS arent right.... ummmm

I think its a safe assumption that almost all of us have wanted to, thought about it, or regularly engage in threesomes... But how should one go into this space so we all have fun and no one gets cut? In this episode ww discuss some of the things that should be done to assure you and ALL involved parties are on the same page so nothing but good moments and memories are created!! AND so you can als...

A great suit is a tailored suit. The same thing applies to your poly and or ethical non-monogamous relationships! We discuss the importance of building your relationships to fit your needs and not conforming to the needs of others. The way you want to move is vital for a successful ENM relationship.

The Art of Dominance/The Art of BDSM Description: We’ve all heard about it and many are curious, so let’s talk about it! This week we have two special guests joining us to give an introduction to The Art of BDSM. These sex educators are a polyamorous couple who are members of the BDSM and kink communities. Join us for another educational and entertaining episode!

This episode is a bit of a continuation of Episode three from season one titled: Enough is Enough. On this episode we discuss cultivating new relationships while maintaining and flourishing your newest connection. How do you ensure none of your partners are lacking while you actively date?

In this episode, Kue is rolling solo... or is he? Join us for this mono conversation.

This week’s episode is part two of our kink/fetish series. On this episode we discuss the difference between fetishes and kinks, if we have any fetishes, and the most common and uncommon fetishes. This is another episode you won’t want to miss!

 We received so much wonderful feedback on our last episode, that we thought it would be nice to expound on it. With that in mind, we decided to create a three part kink/fetish series. During this first episode we open up and share our first time experiencing some kinks. We also discuss what we learned in the process and how it helped us in our relationships. We’ll be revealing some stuff to one a...

We’ve got another great episode coming this week! Let’s talk sex. We all know that polyamory isn’t all about sex but sex is a huge part of most relationships polyamory so technically, sex is a huge large of polyamory. While it is 2021, discussing sex, kinks and fetishes outside of the bedroom is still considered taboo by many today. But y’all know we’re all about those uncomfortable conversations....

 Do you think there’s favoritism in polyamory? We all know that the politically correct answer is no, but let’s be real, do you have a favorite partner? Why or why not? Have you found that his effects your relationship with that partner or any of your other partners? Yea, that’s a lot to unpack right?! We’ll be unpacking with y’all! Join us this week to discuss our thoughts on if favoritism exists...

If you’re inexperienced in polyamory, do you think you could date people who are new to polyamory? If you’re new to polyamory, do you think you could date people more experienced in polyamory? That’s a lot to think about right?! Join us as we kick off season two to discuss polynating.

Since it’s the season finale, we wanted to end it with a bang! 😁 This episode, we’re on location at Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica. We’re talking to some old and new guests at Hedo about their experience(s) and sooooo much more! We’ll also be discussing what we learned about ourselves this trip and throughout the season, so buckle up and enjoy! Thanks so much for rocking with us. We love y’all! ❤...

While we finish up our finale episode, we wanted to surprise y’all with a little bonus. 😄 Join us this week to chat with Elle and discuss her boundaries of as an INFJ (introverted, intuitive, feeling, judging) personality in polyamory. Learn how you can ensure you respect the boundaries of those with INFJ personality traits similar to Elle. Y’all know she doesn’t talk much so you won’t want to mi...

Do you remember your first metamour? Friendships with metas can be tricky, but as with most things, you get out of it what you put into it. This week we’ll discuss pros and cons of meta relationships, so join us this week to hear our meta stories.

Do you remember when you came out as poly? Have you not come out to your family yet?  Why or why not? How was it received by the family? We’ll be talking about all this and more on this week’s episode.             -Interviews with Nakayla and Gwen

Have you noticed any ethical non-monogamous (ENM) relationships on tv or the big screen? Maybe they were present and thought it was weird. 😆 This week we’ll discuss some of our favorite ENM relationships on tv. How were they similar? How were they different? Do you feel you learned anything during the season or movie? Let’s talk about it!

Kue and Elle discuss the struggles of dating. Why are there so many good men and women still single? And where the hell are y’all hiding?!

Kue and Elle discuss veto power. What is veto power? How/when should it be used? Does it automatically equal/mean couple’s privilege? Find out on this week’s episode!

When you’re ethically non-monogamous, is it possible to cheat on your partners? If so, how is cheating defined? And what the hell was Derrick Jaxn thinking?! 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏿‍♂️ Join Kue and Elle to discuss these topics during this week’s episode!

Kue and Elle discuss the two ends of the spectrum of relating in polyamory. We talk about how having no additional partners often make people feel “less poly”. We also discuss how to navigate social events when your poly is poppin’ and multiple partners are present as well as how to balance communicating with partners when you’ve travelled to visit a partner. 

Kue and Elle discuss relationship transitions. How you can be there for your partner in the ways they need to during such a difficult time. What are some ways to maintain balance when you or one of your partner(s) suffers a relationship transition or break-up?

You asked for it to, so we delivered! Let’s talk Hedonism baby!!!!! Kue and Elle discuss their experience at one of the greatest adult resorts on earth; Hedonism!!! They discuss their experience from year one to year three and how their comfortability progressed over the years. They also have an in depth conversation with some dear friends. TRUST US, you don’t want to miss the story at the end. It...