Kinky, Geeky, Techy AudioBlog of RiggerJay

In this episode we walk through all the profile settings and the enhancements that FetLife have put in place to make your life easier. With an emphasis on mitigating creepers.

About a 20 minute conversation on how to get your own group started while I focus on rope none of the advice is unique to rope groups.

I want to write a book about cigar play and in this episode I go in to some of the things I would consider and want to include in that book

Talking a little bit about my history with my history with table top role playing games and wanting to get back into running Dungeons & Dragons

Covering the guiding principles for unconference events

Just a little bit of history about where I've lived and why I moved to Baltimore 7 years ago and why I'm moving to Seattle

Talking about the Seattle erotic art festival and all the hoops and stuff I went through for my two roses tied together photo that is in the show

RiggerJay talks about ways you can use VR goggles such as the Oculus Quest to give your partner a third person view into a scene

Fed life has improved over the years and has provided many more tools to control how people contact you I will be covering that as well as some general tips to mitigate the creepers messaging you

Little bit of a way back machine talking about a partner I had in 2015 and how we negotiated sexting and consent before we were able to meet up in person and how that was going to go

I spent last two weeks trying to put the Kinky back in my Kinky and Popular feed..

Sharing a memory from way back at the New England fetish flea

Some thoughts and concepts for building your own suspension frame at home

Of late I have been thinking about history of rope in North America .. defining moments really shaped rope.. here a few that come to mind.. I may have some of the dates wrong , but its been a long time and brain is rusty. Hope does not offend anyone and happy to correct. It is definitely not a definitive listing and very much tainted by my own personal lenses

non sexual rope play has become prevalent and because of that we we start to avoid using words that have DS implications such as top or bottom. we also start to have problems with asymmetrical expectations about what people are getting out of a rope scene and in this podcast I discussed that and some of the terminology

a discussion on expectations around copyright model releases photography rope and when you need model release and what are they good for and who has what rights when it comes to a photo

Let's talk about social media and how not to get banned Xbiz has a great article on this , I sum up for instagram and social media in general https://www.xbiz.com/features/243902/how-not-to-get-banned-on-social-media

Machine Learning based image and video manipulation has lots of great uses ... but also can be used for evil . Sadly the tech to do it is public , and the quality will just keep going up and up

Adventures in crossing borders with kinky toys and accessories

rope teaching tips

Performance is a word with a lot of baggage behind it.. I talk about that baggage and possible ramifications of it

A conversation with a muse of mine and their amazing sword swollowing skills

on what goes into moderating riggers and rope sluts on Fetlife https://fetlife.com/groups/51

I am often asked about what I do with rope so figured would record this , talking about the different modes of rope I do

RiggerJays recommended path to learning shibari