Keep It Korede! (Identity, Mindset, Womanhood)

I like to think I’m a chill person. In fact, I can count the number of times I have erupted in anger on the fingers of one hand (I think). So when in the unforgiving heat, dust and stress of the Abuja NYSC camp, 3 bullies tried to cut the line when it was my turn, I couldn’t help but spit lava. Instead of 3 little piggies against one big bad wolf, this was one little Korede against 3 big bad wolve...

My new Instagram handle is @thekoredeazeez I’d heard that Hausa Muslims think they’re better than Yoruba Muslims. But I only experienced it when I went to NYSC camp in Abuja. This (bad) attitude is likely rooted in history. Islam did reach the North before it trickled down to the South West. But honestly, claiming superiority because of the convenience of geography and timing comes off as childish...

Ola amigo! Why Spanish? No reason. It’s a vibe. I guess… As I write this, I’m listening to an acapella Disney medley…for no reason in particular. In this episode, I’m easing back into season 2 (or 3) of ‘Yoruba Igbo Muslimah’ (the old title for this podcast). I get into the Senegalese web series Salma …which you MUST watch! Search “Salma serie Senegalaise” in YouTube and you’ll find it. Actually,...

Could it be more beneficial to be in scarcity more often? How do we defeat our desire to consume insatiably? Why must we? If nothing else, the planet would be in much better condition if we didn’t consume so much. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit korayday.substack.com

I still haven’t figured out how to prioritize properly, but I know I need to learn to do it if I’m to reach my destination. Here’s one thing I’ve learned that can help though… Put everything on a scale. The most ‘important things’ should be number one. For example, your job or main hustle because it helps you keep a roof over your head. Do the same thing for everything else you want to spend your...

Are you confused about your career? I was too. Too many talents. Too many choices. And everything else that comes with being a ‘multipotentialite’ stuck in a great job that does enough, but not enough. …if that makes sense. Whatever happens though, one thing is clear to me… I want to tell stories that are powerful enough to push people to change and make better decisions because I believe we all h...

I tried to cancel an online course I paid for. Module 1 promised to help me figure out my niche. It didn’t. At least, not a profitable enough niche (in my opinion). Coming here a few years later to say I didn’t get my money back. Needless to say, I still haven’t implemented what I learned from the course. I still have the notes though. So do you really need to take a course? Only if you’re 2000% r...

I really liked season 1 of the Yoruba Igbo Muslimah podcast, but it felt impossible to follow it up cos what would I talk about? I know now there were things to talk about, but I wasn’t as sharp as I am now. LOL Sooo…I started a new blog (which I lost somehow) and started recording my posts in audio. So, not so lost huhn. *** Do you keep the promises you make to yourself? Apparently, I don’t. Beca...

The Final Episode of Yoruba Igbo Muslimah - Ridiculous things people say to Muslims. Having lived in the North for 8 years now, I get more people than ever speaking Hausa to me because I look Fulani (apparently). I promise I tried to learn. I even got a tutor. But alas, I can’t speak the language. I blame my husband who speaks Hausa fluently but always forgets to speak it with me. Sigh… Fine. In t...

No, I don’t go to church. No, there are no Muslim churches. No, you didn’t pay attention in social studies classes. Yes, you should make friends with Muslims and other strange people. Yes, yes. Muslims are indeed strange. And that’s okay. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit korayday.substack.com

Ever had a stare down with a stranger? Yup, done that plentyyyy of times. But I couldn’t blame the folks staring at me. Emi, hot cake. Cutie petunie… I’m a bit defiant, but I imagine some people might want to shrink with so many eyes on them. If that’s you, my heart goes out to you. 💓 No one’s worth shrinking for, mon ami. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other sub...

If you’ve ever tried transitioning from tank tops and skinny jeans to oversize skirts and shapeless dresses, you know just how messy it can be. From awkward layering to horrendous color and fit combinations, the transition can be so confusing. BUT… Embrace it. Ease yourself into it. And don’t let anyone bully you into thinking you don’t have a fashion sense. Because deep down, I know you’re a fash...

Has your name ever been mispronounced? Not once. Not twice. But every single time!!! No one, and I mean NOBODY ever got my name right because it’s a Yoruba name and they were Igbo. But guess what? When Korede Bello blew up, everyone could suddenly pronounce the name. So thank you Mr. Bello. However, I want that Korede.com domain! (Please? No? Okay) By the way, if you Google Korede Azeez now, I’m t...

Aaaaand I've changed the title of the podcast again!!! I think this one is here to stay. LOL! The new title is... DRUM ROLL!!! Keep It Korede! Cool right? 😎 I'm a Yoruba Muslim girl who grew up as the "other" in Christian Igbo land. This episode introduces you to my 'Yoruba Igbo Muslimah' series where I explore what it was like growing up as a minority in Nigeria. This was the beginning of my jou...

Consider this Episode 00 - The Intro This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit korayday.substack.com

AI is taking over the world. Are you ready? This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit korayday.substack.com

In this episode, I try to find out just how much of an inspiration I am. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit korayday.substack.com

Being a female filmmaker means you’ll be pregnant sometimes! What was it like shooting my movie With Difficulty Comes Ease while pregnant? HARD! But rewarding. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit korayday.substack.com

Do you function better when you work on one task at a time or when you’re working on several things at the same time? How do you juggle all your projects and responsibilities? I think, leaning into your tendencies instead of fighting them all the time might help with consistency and productivity. What do you think? This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers...

No season lasts forever, so make the most of where you’re at right now. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit korayday.substack.com

How consistent have I been as a Muslim woman over the past seven years? Recently, I’ve been beating myself up over the fact that I don’t feel focused, and I lack consistency. However, I reminded myself that there are a few things in my life that I have been consistent with. If you struggle with consistency, you might enjoy listening to this episode. Connect with me on Instagram @Korayday Thanks ag...

Yes, I’m a Yoruba, but I didn’t always “feel” Yoruba. So, marrying into a Yoruba family felt new. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit korayday.substack.com

When a Muslim woman takes her hijab off, everyone talks about it, but should they? This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit korayday.substack.com

In keeping with my new gist-style podcast episodes, I talk a lot about how I found myself here, that is, as a filmmaker. This episode was actually inspired by a follower on Instagram, who asked me to talk about how I got my first camera. It took me a long time and a lot of agony to finally figure out what I am meant to do with my life. Even then, I still have my moments of doubt. I hope you can fi...