Kebudel Parents

Your child asks a simple question at bedtime and suddenly you’re doing a full internal audit: “What do you do for fun?” I had that moment after April Fool’s Day, and I realised my answers were all wrapped up in productivity, parenting, and keeping the wheels on. The unsettled feeling stuck around because it pointed to something bigger: for many of us, fun slowly becomes “optional” until it disappe...

We talk with registered psychologist Victoria Baronson about how to teach body safety and bodily autonomy from the early years, even when the words feel awkward. We leave with clear ways to build consent, emotional literacy, and safer disclosure so kids know their body is theirs and they can speak up. In this episode, we cover:  • A confronting reminder that perpetrators can look “friendly” and fa...

Love doesn’t live only on the calendar. It shows up in the quiet minutes between naps, in the cup of tea handed over when you’re touched out, and in the ten uninterrupted minutes where no one mentions nappies or tomorrow’s logistics. We dive into the five love languages and unpack how small, repeatable actions can meet real needs for partners and under-fives alike, even when sleep is thin and time...

The holiday season can be full of magic—but it can also feel loud, rushed, and overwhelming. Between end-of-year commitments, family expectations, and children riding the emotional highs (and lows) of the season, it’s easy for parents to feel stretched thin. In this episode, Staying Grounded as a Parent in the Busy Holiday Season , we explore practical, compassionate ways to stay calm, connected,...

Tired of “new year, new you” pressure? We’re choosing a gentler path. Instead of chasing resolutions that turn into pass/fail tests, we slow down and reflect on what actually worked in 2025. We start by celebrating tiny, meaningful wins—like a bedtime that flowed or a peaceful car ride—and use those clues to build a calmer rhythm. From there, we get curious about who our kids are becoming, naming...

Ever feel like you’re refereeing more than parenting? We open the door on sibling rivalry in the early years and show how tiny shifts—pausing before you step in, coaching instead of rescuing, and building short daily one-on-one moments—transform constant clashes into real-life lessons in empathy, patience, and repair. Drawing on a lived story of twins, including the domino effects after an injury,...

The moment a child starts insisting on “only Mum” or “only Dad” can upend a home. We dive into the real reasons behind parental preference and unpack why it’s less about rejection and more about predictability and safety. Drawing on our own story of twins who once demanded one parent for every cuddle, settle, and midnight wake, we map the emotions on both sides: the exhaustion of the preferred par...

What if the smartest thing we can do for our kids is to do a little less? We unpack how free play fuels deep learning, confidence, and resilience in the first five years—and why stepping back can be the most powerful support of all. I share twin-tested stories that show how different play styles lead to rich growth, even without adult direction. We explore what free play looks like at each stage—f...

Remember your first day of school? That mix of excitement, fear, and confusion? As parents, we often worry about preparing our children for this milestone, focusing heavily on academic skills. But what if I told you that recognising letters and writing their name might be the least important aspects of school readiness? Through my professional experience and personal journey with my twins, I'...

Ever wonder why children typically say "Dad" before "Mum"? It's not favouritism—the 'D' sound is simply easier to master! This fascinating tidbit is just one of many insights shared as we explore the remarkable journey of communication and language development in children's first five years. The COVID years created unprecedented challenges for our youngest l...

Autonomy isn't just a fancy concept—it's the foundation of raising children who feel confident, capable, and safe in who they are. This thoughtful exploration delves into why allowing children moments of independence and appropriate risk-taking is crucial for their development. What happens when we step back instead of jumping in? When we allow the mess, embrace the slowness, and let our...

What if respect wasn't something our children had to earn, but something they deserved from day one? This transformative question sits at the heart of today's conversation about respectful parenting. Most of us crave respect in our adult relationships—with partners, colleagues, and friends. That feeling of being seen, heard, and valued creates safety and trust. Yet there's often a b...

Struggling with baby or toddler sleep? You're not alone! In this episode, we tackle the biggest sleep challenges parents face—from bedtime battles to daycare nap transitions. With expert advice, proven sleep strategies, and real-life parenting insights, you'll learn how to help your little one sleep better at home and in childcare. Whether you're preparing for your child's firs...

”Educator Insights to Help You Navigate Parenthood: because children don’t come with a manual” Starting ECE is a big step—for both kids and parents! 🌟 Join us for a fun and insightful webinar as we dive into the emotional side of this transition. We’ll share practical tips, expert insights, and real-life strategies to help your child feel secure, confident, and ready for their early learning jour...

Let’s talk about the ultimate comfort items—those well-loved (okay, slightly gross) blankies, dummies, and stuffed animals that our little ones cling to for dear life. You know the ones… that raggedy bunny missing an ear or the blanket that definitely should have been washed weeks ago. So, when should your child let them go? And more importantly— how do we help them move on without a full-scale me...

"Muuuuum! Daaaad! Watch me!"—Why Your Child Demands Your Attention (and How to Find the Balance) Ever feel like you’re under constant surveillance by your own child? You can’t pee alone, they’re clinging to your leg like it’s the last lifeboat on the Titanic, and every five seconds, it’s, “Look at me! Watch this!” Sound familiar? 😅 Here’s the deal: young children are adorable attention-...

What do you do when your little one, who used to waltz into childcare like they owned the place, suddenly pulls the "No way, not today" card? In this episode, we’re diving into the “why” behind your child’s sudden change of heart and giving you smart, sanity-saving strategies to help your child conquer those childcare wobbles. Tune in and get ready to turn their "I’m not going!&quot...

Navigating the Childcare Maze: Where Do You Even Start?  At some point, most parents face the big decision: finding care for your little one outside the family. Whether you’re heading back to work or just need a breather (we see you), it’s an emotional rollercoaster. How do you hand over your precious bundle to someone you barely know? And don’t even get us started on the avalanche of childcare op...