Kasbh's Rant

This week we the "Honest" conversations we say we want people to have with us.  We talk about if we really want to hear someone say NOPE we are not interested!  Ok so that is the concept but we are really talking about presentation.  How can you be honest and still be tactful .  If we all spend just a few seconds and think before we run our mouth how much better can we be at communicatio...

    Listen up folks,  we pull no punches it is time to put the safety of the Lifestyle community ahead of getting your Dick wet, pussy pounded or Profits if you are a party promoter.  At some point in time the reality of what is going on in the world should apply to the adult alternative swing lifestyle.  I believe it is fair to say if you don't put safety first it is hard to say it is sex &q...

We are back!!!  Yep we took a couple of weeks off but we are back with a vengeance!  This week we are going straight at all of the sources of Misinformation in the lifestyle!  We are going after the people that buy followers, buy likes, buy hearts and try to buy your listenership or readership!  We don't hold back on the "snake oil" salespeople that fill the void of educators in the...

A special Independence Day addition of Kasbh's Rant.  We talk about the freedom we have to be in this incredible lifestyle but more importantly we talk about the freedom to say NO.  Yep consent.  The responsibility we each have to protect this very important part of the lifestyles and community.  Yeah We hold no punches in this issue.  EVERY PERSON, EVERY CLUB OWNER, EVERY EVENT PLANNER needs...

This week we talk about being honest.  I talk about the trend of everyone and their dog trying to make their fortune as a cam girl, only fans porn star etc.  Lets get real for just a minute.  This weeks Rant is not being negative towards any sites or anyone that wants to be on the sites.  We are talking about having an honest and realistic expectations and also what is at stake when you make the c...

This week we go old school.  We are talking about the very basic skill set of your words.  We are talking about the power of your words.  We are talking about the ablity to miss lead someone in the lifestyle with your words or the ablity to clearly communicate.  We are talking about how sex in the lifestyle is affected by your words and how you must own what comes out of your mouth.  Yep responsib...

This week we talk about being a great Significant other!  In the adult alternative lifestyle, swingers, kink, bdsm, hotwife or what ever you should make it a priority to have your sexual desires and needs fulfilled.  You should also make sure your SO is getting their needs fulfilled.  Being willing to compromise and take turns is the key to not having issues in the lifestyle.  Remember your partne...

This week we talk all about the new trend to Jump from Swingers straight to Poly..  This show is not a negative about Poly.  The poly lifestyle is awesome.  This show is about people that do not take the true poly lifestyle seriously.  The jump to go straight to having a girl friend or boy friend without being prepared.  My point is about how you need to make sure your relationship is ready to han...

This week we talk about how long are you a Newbie and I talk about why it makes a difference.  Everyone wants to share but do you want to get your advice from someone that has no clue what they are talking about?  At what point do you shut up and watch versus comment with "Your Take" on everything.  We all have our own unique Swinger lifestyle experiences but we all are around people wit...

This week we talk about how people respond to posts and things on social media.  This is different then past shows.  This is about how you can turn people off, by thinking you are always being funny and cute.  Plus do you really need to say something to everything?  If this rant pisses you off maybe it means you need to look at what and how often you are posting and think about what you are saying...

This week we talk about something that should be so clear but it IS NOT,  Get off your phone and live life.   Yep we are going that basic.  If you are in the Swinger lifestyle we all know you want to talk and meet other people but you still need to pay attention to your spouse and or significate other.    Yet this basic concept is being lost.  What is even worse,  you will find people at a hotel t...

This week we talk about social media again!  Social media is like having a conversation but on-line.  We can make people be sick of us, not wanting to meet us or just plain avoid us without every even meeting them based on their Social Media habits and/or posts!  Stop it.  Think about the fact that you could not get laid or even talk to someone because you over post, over share etc.   This week I...

Drama sucks, people that spread Drama suck, guess what the show is about.  Yep it is time to stop telling everyone how much you hate Drama and let your actions speak louder then your words.  People need to stop spreading rumors, dealing in Gossip and keeping the drama alive.  The Adult lifestlye is very simple.  Always understand NO means NO, Dont cause or spread Drama and take a bath.  It is time...

This week is about being a better you.  Yep if you want to have more enjoyment as a swinger you need to make your mind, body, soul better.  Well maybe not your soul, but up do need to make a better you in all aspects of your life.  You can not be unhappy with how you look in the mirror and have a great swingers life.  If your head is not in the right place you will not having fun fucking.  It is w...

Lets call it what it is, things are either right or wrong.  The concept of Gray area's are a device we created to give ourselves an out when we do or don't do things the correct way.  The lifestyle is even more that way.  Plus the activities of Playing alone and the reality that breaking a rule is much more then just an oops.  Self reporting, a willingness to have the conversation to see...

This week the message is really straight forward.  The message is not just a lifestyle message but a life message, UNDER PROMISE OVER DELIVER.  Of course we are talking in the lifestyle sense.  This is a message to guys every where. STOP talking about all the things that make you the new sex god and just do it when you actually hook up.  Telling a girl your best fuck in the world does not make it...

This week the topic is happy Hunting together.  Yep making sure you are both looking at your swingers, adult alternative sites together to start communicating with possible hook ups.  Stop having one half walk into a dinner or Meet and greet blind!  Also we talk about if you are not doing it together then at least talking about what is being said.  Sharing the texts, or emails so everyone is on th...

This week we talk about how to not come across as the guy that is sort of, well pathetic.  There is a huge difference between being a modern Man, and a wuss.  We talk about how spouse and friends need to step up and not let your husband, boyfriend or Friend look pathetic.  Going for Sympathy fucks is not appealing.  Check out the new Rant today.  Visit these fine folks today                      ...

Great to be back!!!!  SO this week the rant is all about digging deeper.  Personally understanding what caused you to get in the alternative swinging lifestyle.  We also talk about finding out what really makes you happy.  Dig Deeper learn about yourself and what you are really looking to get out of the lifestyle.  Just sex is generally not all you want.  Figure it out and go get it. Visit our spo...

Welcome back!! We are back for season 2  with the first show of the new year!   We dive right into the issues of Rules.  We always talk about how important rules are.  This week we talk about how they are YOUR RULES and it is your job to tell playmates, and it is your job to follow YOUR rules.  We also talk about how the excuse "I got caught up in the moment" is complete bullshit!  Own i...

This week we do a state of the Union or in this case the state of the Adult alternative lifestyle IE swinging.  2020 has seen lots of lows and lots of changes.  2020 has also seen lots of area's the lifestyle is going to come back stronger then ever!  That is exciting.  2021 promises to be a year filled with exciting new changes.  Yeah we will have to look hard in the mirror to make some chan...

This week we talk about where are you mentally to be swinging.  The alternative swinging lifestyle just like real life takes work and some overcoming of obsiticals.  Where are you at?  Can you fuck with out booze or drugs?  Yes it is important.  Success in the lifestyle has to do with where your head is at.  Where are you at? Check out our other show at www. buzzsprout.com/181336     http://www.as...

This week we talk about the basic need for Adult alternative Lifestyle business' Swinger clubs, bars, parties , event to step up and start providing high quality, bang for your buck events.  It is time for us, the consumers to STOP giving shitty quality clubs, bars, events and more a free pass just because it is at least "something".  You have the Power to help make this change by w...

When people see you what do they think?  When people see you at alternative Lifestyle events how do you reflect your lifestyle?  Do you look and act like the stereo types or are you better then that?  Are you a reason people want to be in the Kink, swinger, poly lifestyle or a reason they run away?   That is our topic today plus what do your posts say about you personally?  Do you look desperate? ...

Yeah this rant might piss a few people off but I can only tell like I see it.  2020 has brought out so much ugly in the world and the Alternative Lifestyle.  Listen to this show and see if you fit the stereo type of 2020 and Change it.  This rant is really about what we can do the rest of the year and going forward to make our Lifestyle, swinging, kink, etc experience better.  Do you have the cour...