Kasbh's Rant

Some rants just don't need a long introduction. This is one of those rants.  I am sure I will piss some folks off and I am sure others will not figure it applies to them.  Yet of all my rants this is one people need to hear.  I challenge each of you to look inside your self and determine if you you like what you see.  Only you will know the answer and only you will know if you answer it hones...

This week we talk a brutal hard truth!  The lifestyle is built on a river of lies.  You can make a difference to change it, You can make a better lifestyle experience by understanding it, and you will have a better Lifestyle life and real life when you understand the difference.  Yeah even rants can get deep and this one does! ++GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP FOR BOTH APPLE OR ANDRIOD   FS Radio htt...

I really don't know how to describe this Rant.  I guess Sorry not Sorry.  I know this will  very much step on toes, piss people off and I am sure rally some of my haters, but honestly, Sorry not Sorry.  I am so overwhelmed by the complete lack of common sense that is used in the lifestyle, it is mind numbing.  We love to get offended and worked up over the smallest, and generally most harmles...

We recently had an intresting experience at a Swingers event.  To be honest part of it was almost unnerving.  Listen to this rant, look at yourself, and consider the message it sends to new people.   The lifestyle is not that hard and it is not different then real life.  I guess it is time more people figured that out.   Decide if  you want to be a difference maker or not before your next lifestyl...

What a great couple of weeks!   I have gotten some tremendous feed back I wanted to share and more importantly talk about the true goals of Rant.   The big picture is so important in the lifestyle and life!   Listen to this weeks show and see how it fits you, your spouse, your friends!  ++GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP FOR BOTH APPLE OR ANDRIOD   FS Radio https://shamelesscare.com/?ref=115    All yo...

We recorded this rant a day before a big event.  Maybe next week we will follow up with what we saw.  Folks you need to know when is it the right time to talk about certain things at the lifestyle?  Are you not getting the clue, the hint..  To be successful you need to look at correct timing!  Listen to this show you will be glad you did.  Learn not to be a time whore! ++GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO A...

This week we are going to piss some people off and that is OK.  If you really want to have a better lifestyle experience there are simple things you can do.  It starts with having, or getting or working on your social skills.  If you have the ablity to listen all the way through to the end of this rant you might learn something.  If you get pissed off and shut the rant off early, well then you kno...

This week we talk about going to an event and doing it all by yourself.  The new constant is people are afriad to go to an event if they do not know anyone else at the event.  Get a Grip.  You do not get to have a buddy at every thing you do in life.  Stop missing out because you might have to meet new people.  Give this show a listen and let me know what you think.. ++GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP...

We all get them.  We all feel them.  That pit that nervous excitement that is a mix, excitement, anticipation, fear, nerves etc.  You know the feeling we are talking about the pre-event jitters.  Some times these jitters  can seem over powering and almost cripling.   These jitters have stopped people from going to events!  My rant today is all about embrassing those jitters and looking at all of t...

This we talk about knowing the local laws and rules.   It is a big deal to make sure you know if an event is breaking a law.  Have you ever thought what would happen if you attended an event and it was raided?  Good event planners make sure that events are legal, that they are not going to get raided.  Sometimes money gets the best of people and it is up to you to make sure that is not the case. ...

This week I dig into the nuts and bolts of why do we really swing.  We say it is all about better sex or  adding excitement in the bedroom.  What does that really mean?  This week we will answer that question.  I promise you when you understand what you are truly looking for you will be able to find it.  When you find it your joy and pleasure will increase.  So sit back and lets figure it out toge...

This is a complete variation from my normal rants.  This is not about some issue or single behavior in the Lifestyle that needs to be corrected.  This rant is about standing up and making sure my voice is heard.   Will it piss some people off?  Yep,  Will it possibly cost us followers?  Yep   Do i care?  NO!  My wife is not a second class citizen,  neither is my Mom, my neices, aunt or female frie...

This week we might surprise or piss a few people off and we do not care.  What is your role at an event.  You are just an attending, so what ever happens is just part of the show right?  NO you have a responsiblity to be a bit more when the welfare of others is concerned!  We also tackle the issue of Manageridise ( The desire to run the show).  It is time people started to get a bit of a grip and...

So This week we talk about Sport Fucking!  Yep the dirty little meet a person or a couple, hit it off and go fuck!  OMG you do NOT know their life History  OMG You do NOT know all about their family and jobs.  Hell you might not even remember their names.   It can seem like this is wrong.  The question is, is it wrong?  NO.  We need to remember not yucking someone's yum is not only for BDSM o...

This week is show that everyone needs to hear!  What is your relationship status, REALLY.  The devil is in the detail and so many people are not being honest about the relationship status.   If you and your significant other was asked individual about your relationship and your lifestyle goals, would the answers be even close?  I challenge you all to listen to this weeks show and then have the har...

This week we talk about not trying to be anything that you are not.  Stop putting on a show and just let the real you shine through.   Dont Short sell yourself!  You are only hurting yourself and your reputation.  For the love of GOD  you be you!  Start doing it today.  ++ Don't forget to VOTE FOR US at www.asnawards.com    -Best Retail shop :  Full Swap Shop    -Best Supporting Business:  Fu...

This week we are talking about a very fucking serious situation in the lifestyle.... the conversation and the action after the event is over.  After the Ether wears off, what do you do.  Are you honest, what is your perception of where things are going.  Are  you being fair to the other people?  Are you being fair to yourself?  Are you being a wuss?  Get a grip and listen to this show.   If you ar...

We continue in our line of Information and the effects it can have.  I believe this weeks  message goes along with what we were talking about last week.  We tackle the issues of posts,  passive aggressive posts, posts that are not for Public consumption.  Are we sharing make a change or sharing to get attention?  Do we need to hide part of the story?  Then it is not ready for public consumption. ...

This week we talk about other peoples issues, drama, conflicks, etc.  The key phrase is other people.  You know the stuff that does not concern you and yet the desire to give your opinion is really strong!  This rant is all about NOT giving your Two Cents worth.  Stay out of things that do not concern you.  Stop Getting invovled, stop talking!   This is a must hear rant for people and one that eve...

If I have ever done a rant that I believe needs to be heard but will most likely fall on deaf ears this is the one!.   This topic requires an incredible desire to look at yourself, your relationship and your lifestyle expectations and experiences.   DO YOU HAVE THE COURAGE TO ACTUALLY DO THAT?  We all know the importances of Rules or guidelines in the lifestyle and all of the good they do.  Yet so...

This week we are talking about truth.. Not just any type of truth but SELF Truth.  So many things in the lifestyle are depending upon honest communication.  The challange is honest communitcations starts with you.  We have the ablity to twist, badger, justify and change any situation in our own mind.  SO if you are not honest with yourself how can you be honest with your spouse, your play partner...

The truth.  The truth is the Lifestyle is shitty at offering and providing true acceptance to people that are different, people that are minorites, transgender, Gay, Lesbian, New etc.  It is crap that we talk about being open minded but we are far from it.  It is time someone called this bullshit out and I am doing it this week.  If you truly believe in the Lifestyle becoming more accepting then I...

This week we talk about confidence.  The challenge we all face in the LIfestyle.  The courage to walk into the Bar, Hotel, house party.  The challenge is real and this week we talk about ways to over come the fears that we ALL have.  Yep I Said it ALL of us.  Give this show a listen, and take note you are not alone!   ++GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP FOR BOTH APPLE OR ANDRIOD   FS Radio http://www.a...

This week we are all about Respect.  Respect has many different areas in the lifestyle and to be honest we all need to understand and figure out how to always be Respectful.  Yep I get pretty damn fired up on this one and it is a show we all need to listen to.  Look people, Respect is another way to say be a good human, and an adult and if you can't be an adult in the lifestyle then maybe it...

This week we are going to tell the truth regardless if it upsets folks.  The lifestyle is filled with Double standards and it is really getting old.  Most people will call out single males but are afraid to address issue with females.  I am NOT most people.  So yes ladies you are squarely in my sites this week.    Really the issue is about treating each other like people, being respectful and thin...