Kasbh's Rant

The name says it all really.  We are talking about leveling up and respect the learning process that goes with it.  The avoidance of complacence.  I can not stress enough how important this rant is. GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP https://mycupcondom.com/discount/KASBH10     My cup condom http://www.motorbunny.com http://www.nomorewetspot.com      USE promo Code FULL SWAP for 10% http://www.asnlifest...

This week is a message about common sense and the part that people really don't care.  Yep I said it.  We have reached a point we would rather have people feel sorry for us then be happy and it is not good in the lifestyle. Truth is harsh but it is just that Truth. GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP https://mycupcondom.com/discount/KASBH10     My cup condom http://www.motorbunny.com http://www.nomo...

This rant is well, it is what it is.   You might have to listen to a couple of times, but I think you will find it really does make sense.   The truth is not always easy to hear but it is needed hopefully you will find value in this weeks show. GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP https://mycupcondom.com/discount/KASBH10     My cup condom http://www.motorbunny.com http://www.nomorewetspot.com      USE pro...

Not going in to a long description just listen to the show and it will all make sense and for the love of God if you listen to this and go WOW that sounds like me.  MAKE A CHANGE ! GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP https://mycupcondom.com/discount/KASBH10     My cup condom http://www.motorbunny.com http://www.nomorewetspot.com      USE promo Code FULL SWAP for 10% http://www.asnlifestylemagazine.com ht...

It's great to be back!   This week we are talking expectations and more specifically friend expectations in the lifestyle.   I promise you have not heard a rant like this before.    Friendships are real and meaningful.  The lifestyle is an adult fantasy land.  What happens when you put the two together and how does it  work?  Give this rant a listen you will be glad you did. GET YOUR FULL SWA...

It is all about time spent!  Time spent with family,  time spent at Lifestyle events, just plan old TIME.   The lifestyle is exciting, and hot and sexy and and..... well addictive.  This is really true  at the beginning and it is easy to lose track of how much TIME you are spending in it.  This week we talk about including the topic of time when you are doing rules, communicating in general.  Don&...

Talk is awesome but wow can talk be cheap!   This week we are talking about actions.  Do you say you believe in consent, Testing, no Drama etc?  Do your actions back up your words?  The lifestyle has so many area's that saying AND doing what you say are so important!  Give this rant a listen, you will be glad you did!!! GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP FOR BOTH APPLE OR ANDRIOD   FS Radio https:/...

The power of Social Media and In person events is amazing!!  The amount of stupid that happens behind a keyboard is just as amazing!  This week we talk about the Warriors, the teases and more!!! Give it a listen and STOP Screwing it up behind a Keyboard!!! GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP FOR BOTH APPLE OR ANDRIOD   FS Radio https://mycupcondom.com/discount/KASBH10     My cup condom http://www.motorbu...

Discretion is SUPPOSED to be a part of the Lifestyle.  The concept of Kiss and Telling is frowned upon for a ton of reasons.  Not the least of which is the immaturity of it all.   Yet the new trend is honestly, worse.  the Kiss and post.  Using social media to brag, share or whatever about your hooks up specifically or in general terms, is well, juvenile to put it mildly.  Give this weeks show and...

Knowledge is power, thinking you have knowledge that you don't, well that is just dangerous! We all like to have control and think we have it figured out, but the truth is we really don't.  The key to getting the most of the lifestyle and avoiding serious issues in your relationship is understanding what you don't know.   Listen to this weeks show and make sure you avoid the pitfall...

We the power of a kinder gentler world is more acceptance, which is awesome!  Everyone should be accepted regardless of income, sex, sexual preference, ethnicity , age, weight, height etc.  Yet one are this does not apply is toxicity.  Toxicity of individuals, groups, events, clubs etc is not ok and to be honest we need to stop using the excuse room for everyone.   Toxic has no place in the lifest...

This week is a very self, show it is all about leadership.  After being called out I decided to do some hard thinking about Lifestyle leadership.  Self topics have there challenges but I think this is ok. +GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP FOR BOTH APPLE OR ANDRIOD   FS Radio https://mycupcondom.com/discount/KASBH10     My cup condom http://www.motorbunny.com h ttp://www.nomorewetspot.com      USE prom...

This week we talk about the horrible look that is cock blocking and the bigger picture.  Don't make yourself look bad by cock blocking and don't make others feel uncomfortable!    A must hear rant. +GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP FOR BOTH APPLE OR ANDRIOD   FS Radio https://mycupcondom.com/discount/KASBH10     My cup condom http://www.motorbunny.com h ttp://www.nomorewetspot.com      USE p...

"The only thing we have to fear, is fear itself"- FDR  This is one of the most powerful and true statements and in the lifestyle, Fear is the most powerful emotion.  This week I am going to show you just a couple of examples of the dangers of letting fear control your decisions in the lifestyle and hopefully help you find the courage to stop letting this monster run out of control. +GET...

This week we talk about the importance of the Journey!!  Yep to try and look back on your lifestyle adventure  and see how far you really have grown as a person, couple etc.   The value this trip back has is amazing!!  Take a look at the growth, the improvements in all aspects of your life to give you the boast to keep going and growing   +GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP FOR BOTH APPLE OR ANDRIOD   F...

We all know rules are important in the lifestyle.  We know that following those rules is really important and we also know sometimes rules get broken.   The reaction, the immediate reaction to your SO or spouse is huge and can have long term effects.    Listen to this rant.  Avoid making a mistake that could take months or longer to unwind! +GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP FOR BOTH APPLE OR ANDRIOD  ...

Understanding what words mean is damn important if you want to grow.  This week we are trying to help people understand the difference between be Judgmental and Being Called out.  If you don't understand the difference or the value of being called you NEED to listen to this rant.  When your hobby is having sex with other people you need to be adult enough to know the difference and definition...

This week we talk about the reality in the lifestyle and Judgement.  We talk about why and how, innocent comments can have tremendously long and deep effects.   Make sure to actually listen!  This entire rant is about people, it is about thinking, it is about losing our judgmental tendencies and growing!   +GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP FOR BOTH APPLE OR ANDRIOD   FS Radio https://mycupcondom.com/d...

First off it is only Episode 131 For some reason I fucked that up.  Regardless,  This week is all about the truth.  We hide from bad things in the lifestyle instead of solving the issue or being ready for the issue!  WHY?  be out in front make a difference.  This rant is about bringing a touch of reality to the fantasy of the lifestyle and understanding it will make the lifestyle better.  This is...

Yeah this week I  dive into some real world shit!  The lifestyle is supposed to be a place where we are cool with everyone.  Remember NO YUCKING someone's YUM.  Well the jokes we tell and the comments we make are a real big part of showing who we are.  This week I don't pull punches and we all need to remember some of the core foundations of the lifestyle.  +GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP...

It is all about the signs.  We are talking about the very specific signs of when to Back off or Stop!  Being aware of when to stop is a major important factor in the lifestyle.  NO we are not all going to be friends, hook ups, or anything else.   Listen to this weeks rant and make sure you are reading the signs!  +GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP FOR BOTH APPLE OR ANDRIOD   FS Radio http://www.nomorew...

Once again we have seen the fall out from a failed group and club.  This week's show is talking about the real cost and responsibility that goes with being a club or group owner.  The real facts about what happens when things are not done right and the effect they have!  I know everyone wants to say everything is for the love of the lifestyle but it is time to get REAL!  +GET YOUR FULL SWAP R...

This weeks show is a harsh call to remain very aware about the reality of the world we live in.  The lifestyle is supposed to be an escape, an adult fantasy world, but it is just a part of the world.  We live in a society with violence (another mass shooting) and the lifestyle provides all the components that could easily explode.  Sexual energy, Emotions and the human element,  and substances lik...

What is the social media groups you are a part of like.  What is the culture on the pages.  Is it inclusive and positive or negative, with drama and exclusionary.   We talk about the work place culture or culture on a team, I believe it applies in the lifestyle as well.  +GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP FOR BOTH APPLE OR ANDRIOD   FS Radio http://www.nomorewetspot.com      USE promo Code FULL SWAP fo...

The title says it all.  The message that sometimes needs to be delivered is not always fun or nice. Growth happens from hearing and learning from the truth!  We have to take or blows to get better the lifestyle, has some high stakes.  The truth no matter how painful is the only way we can make this trip work!!! +GET YOUR FULL SWAP RADIO APP FOR BOTH APPLE OR ANDRIOD   FS Radio http://www.nomorewet...